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Q: Looking For Answers And Scared!

asked by: helpplease152 on February 4th, 2005

New User

Hey everyone, I just joined this site because I am freaking out.....

I have had one pregnancy scare in the past (i have only had sex once, and I dont know if you would call it sex, he pushed twice and I made him stop) I am sexually active in other ways.....(everything but sex) but after I did that I swore it was enough for me.

However, last sunday night with the same guy I hooked up with him for about 45 minutes-an hour. We were both totally naked and did everything except sex, but he never went inside me. But we were grinding and stuff, and his penis was touching my vagina at times......But he never went in. Also, no condom. I finished off by giving him head and he came in my mouth, but im just really worried about anything else that could have gone inside me. Is that possible?

I'm supposed to have my period soon. Actually, today to be exact, but it didnt come. I'm not extremely regular, so im not that worried yet.....Should I be?? I need help!

Thanks to anyone that replies.........

Replies(6)

BaByMaMa2005

replied on February 4th, 2005

Experienced User

Ok im almost 100% sure that you are not pregnant. If he did not penetrate you than there is no way that his semen could get to your cervix and then pass to your uterus and so on..... If he came in your mouth and that was the only time that he came, then you are definantly safe because you cant get pregnant by swallowing semen. I think it is very resposible of you to decide not to have sex with guys and if you keep that up you may never have an unwanted pregnancy. Dont stress about it, because the more you stress the longer it will take for you to start your period. Tonight take a long hot bubble bath, drink a beer or a glass of wine, read a good book or a magazine and go to bed. Dont watch tv because beleive it or not tv stresses you out. Light a few candles and just let your self relax and I bet you will start tomarrow or the next day.

l2at24

replied on February 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

She's not old enough to drink. Okay, sometimes I feel like i'm reading porn here. I guess we do need the info though?? There is small chance of getting preg. Girls have gotten preg w/o losing their virginity. But that is very rare. Take a test if you miss your period. Take care.

BaByMaMa2005

replied on February 4th, 2005

Experienced User

How old are you an how does she kow that your not old enough?

helpplease152

replied on February 4th, 2005

New User

Yeah i'm sorry about the language, but I didnt know how else to say it without sounding like an m.D. Preaching to her class. I also forgot to throw in that for the past year or so i've been having terrible stomach pains (feels like a brick or something pressing against the walls of my stomach) after every meal, but I havent gotten them checked out...... My mother's been nagging for a while about wanting me to see someone about it (just never have), and I also have resting tremors in my nervous system from a panic attack I had a loooong time ago......(middle schoolish?) just wondering though, do you think that could give me less of a chance of becoming pregnant? Like, if I decided someday that I did want to start a family, would either of those health problems be significant enough to complicate things??

I'm not ready now.......Just wondering.

Thanks to all who replied...... Glad I joined the forum. :)

l2at24

replied on February 4th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Not sure. I get all kinds of weird pains. I don't think any of that will prevent you from having children one day.

manytravels

replied on February 4th, 2005

Experienced User

I sincerely doubt your pregnant.. And if you get that paranoid after doing something like that you shouldn't be doing any sort of sexual activity at all

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