Looking For Answers And Scared! Posted: 02-04-05 17:34pm
Hey everyone, I just joined this site
because I am freaking out.....
I have had one pregnancy scare in the past
(i have only had sex once, and I dont know
if you would call it sex, he pushed twice
and I made him stop) I am sexually active
in other ways.....(everything but sex) but
after I did that I swore it was enough for
me.
However, last sunday night with the same
guy I hooked up with him for about 45
minutes-an hour. We were both totally
naked and did everything except sex, but
he never went inside me. But we were
grinding and stuff, and his penis was
touching my vagina at times......But he
never went in. Also, no condom. I
finished off by giving him head and he
came in my mouth, but im just really
worried about anything else that could
have gone inside me. Is that possible?
I'm supposed to have my period soon.
Actually, today to be exact, but it didnt
come. I'm not extremely regular, so im
not that worried yet.....Should I be?? I
need help!
Thanks to anyone that replies.........
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 02-04-05 18:08pm
Ok im almost 100% sure that you are not
pregnant. If he did not penetrate you
than there is no way that his semen could
get to your cervix and then pass to your
uterus and so on..... If he came in your
mouth and that was the only time that he
came, then you are definantly safe because
you cant get pregnant by swallowing semen.
I think it is very resposible of you to
decide not to have sex with guys and if
you keep that up you may never have an
unwanted pregnancy. Dont stress about it,
because the more you stress the longer it
will take for you to start your period.
Tonight take a long hot bubble bath, drink
a beer or a glass of wine, read a good
book or a magazine and go to bed. Dont
watch tv because beleive it or not tv
stresses you out. Light a few candles and
just let your self relax and I bet you
will start tomarrow or the next day.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-04-05 18:12pm
She's not old enough to drink. Okay,
sometimes I feel like i'm reading porn
here. I guess we do need the info
though?? There is small chance of
getting preg. Girls have gotten preg w/o
losing their virginity. But that is very
rare. Take a test if you miss your
period. Take care.
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 02-04-05 18:37pm
How old are you an how does she kow that
your not old enough?
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helpplease152
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 4 Location: SC
Posted: 02-04-05 18:38pm
Yeah i'm sorry about the language, but I
didnt know how else to say it without
sounding like an m.D. Preaching to her
class. I also forgot to throw in that for
the past year or so i've been having
terrible stomach pains (feels like a brick
or something pressing against the walls of
my stomach) after every meal, but I havent
gotten them checked out...... My mother's
been nagging for a while about wanting me
to see someone about it (just never have),
and I also have resting tremors in my
nervous system from a panic attack I had a
loooong time ago......(middle schoolish?)
just wondering though, do you think that
could give me less of a chance of becoming
pregnant? Like, if I decided someday that
I did want to start a family, would either
of those health problems be significant
enough to complicate things??
I'm not ready now.......Just wondering.
Thanks to all who replied...... Glad I
joined the forum. :)
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-04-05 18:41pm
Not sure. I get all kinds of weird
pains. I don't think any of that will
prevent you from having children one day.
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manytravels
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Nov 2004 Posts: 159 Location: TN
Re Posted: 02-04-05 23:24pm
I sincerely doubt your pregnant.. And if
you get that paranoid after doing
something like that you shouldn't be doing
any sort of sexual activity at all
