Lmao jess...Can someone please delete or lock this post???!!!!!! Idk why, but it's driving me mad!!

Seriously its medical question annoying

Plus he posted it like 5 times

you don't know their situation, how far they live from a doctor or what it takes to get to the doctor. He already mentioned being from a country without planned parenthood, so it is not northamerica. Care for some kindness instead of sarcastic attacks? This couple obviously have some stressors going on. Please don't kick them when they are down.

yes you are. All of you. You, taz, i2. You are actually being mean. It would be nice if you could be quiet if you don't have some useful information for this guy.
for all you know, he could be living somewhere in the middle of nicaragua with no clinics and abortions being illegal. Are you guys done having your fun at this guys' expense?
we already know that he doesn't live in the us. So do you have anything constructive or just want to kick him when he is down?

yes. Any hormonal change can cause breast tenderness. It is impossible to actually teel this early whether she is pregnant or not without getting a test. The blood test is the most accurate one and can at this time also tell when she got pregnant. What country are you in? We might be able to track down some resources for you.

Thxx alot steen!!! You're the only one here who really understand my problem...I live in malaysia...Its above singapore if you dunno where that is....

I have relatives in malaysia :) what part are you from? I hope you guys figure things out soon. Good luck

steen, i'm assuming you've read this whole post and seen that we gave him the best advice we could. Many of us. And after continually answering the same questions, it gets a little frustrating. Scaredguy you never answered my question, "what is so good about the sex that makes you worry yourself crazy"?? I would assume they have a way to go about these sorts of things. I mean is she the only girl for thousands of miles that could possibly get preg. There's absolutely no one that can help??? Maybe next month when he thinks his gf is pregnant, in his post he can mention where he lives so we can say "we don't know about your options in that country", and someone else can reply who may be able to help. So, steen, you figured out where he lives...You didn't help him anymore than we have.

No steen weve all just told him a million times and all he keeps saying is they arent going to the doc and wants us to tell him yes or no if shes pregnant

Okay, if I can find a clinic in haiti...

And you are all back to defend your meanspiritedness. Yes, you gave advice, but none of it useful as pertaining to his post. It was clear that he didn't live in north america, and thus copuld have a different social situatrion facing him. Instead, you berated him for not finding your irrelevant answers useful. He has nothing to thanks you for.

And scared, look at your pm. I'll see what I can dig out about services in malaysia.

Pm me with a more specific location. I'll go, for now, with the presumption that you are in kuala lumpur

:roll: it's just always something with this guy....

You guys can continue your meanspirited snideness. I gave him the link to the malaysia family plannic clinics association. At least that is useful.

steen take my name out of this and dont bring it back up again. I told the boy what I had to say and final. I wasnt being mean I was being truthful. She needs to go to the doc. And that is final. If he doesnt want to take her to the doc. Then why ask for opinions.. He asked for opinions and they where given. Im sure there is a doc. Some where ....

i noted your editing "today" of a later post of yours. Hmm....
it wasn't your advice, but rather your later jumping on the meanspirited bandwagon about him.
of course you are sure. You live in a comfortable western country. Perhaps you need to travel abit to see how the rest of the world lives? Newsflash. In the rest of the world, mortality from childbirth is still a huge factor. So much for good medical care.

im glad you found a place to give him so they can go now.. Thats what I was saying there is a place somewhere that she can be taken to. So when you make remarks steen like meanspirited sidness refer to whom is doing it not anyone else. And "you guys" is not my name.. If im doing or saying something wrong let him tell me. Once again dont speak for anyone else. Speak for yourself that is how caca gets started on here. I dont see any of my post copied or repeated so once again steen just ans. His post and leave the other caca out. Everyone is allowed to give an opinion without critisizm..

for you information you dont know caca about me or where my family came from or where most of them live now. Just to feel you in a little there are no doc. At all where my family is I have to bring them here to get the help they need. And the post I edited was saying if he had a blow up doll he wouldnt have to be worried like he is. See steen I dont need to lie or hide anything. I dont lie or coverr up anything at all. So hmmm that. And about me. You think just because I live here I get the medical care or whatever else. Well you dead wrong. Im going through medical stuff now with my baby that the doc. Wont even take me or see me because of my ins. So once again steen your just another human being that is like anyone else and dont know caca about everything. Everyone doesnt have ans. To everything and that is why they are called opinions.

Ive tried to help this guy through pm's, he was scared, so I was even gunna call for him and make an app, but I couldent get any information out of him. All he wanted to know was 'breast tenderness a sign of ovulation' so I posted her mostly likely ov dates, and he repetively asked "is she pregnant?" I dont know, nor does anyone else...

You can ask someone the same question 1000 times, and the answer will stay the same, he doesnt want a yes, and he doesnt want a no, so what other answer can we give him besides, take her to the doctor!!

However, being snide, mean or make light of his plight does *not* help him. That is my point.