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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 02-08-05 14:12pm
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Lmao jess...Can someone please delete or
lock this post???!!!!!! Idk why, but
it's driving me mad!!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-08-05 14:45pm
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Seriously its medical question annoying
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-08-05 14:45pm
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Plus he posted it like 5 times
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-08-05 20:43pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | yeah i'm just being
sarcastic. He won't get her to a doc to
find out for sure. So, if we tell him
she's preg maybe he will take her to the
damn doctor. Tanya you're ruining this
for me. I wanted him to come on here
and be like what?????????? Oh no she's
preg and get all freaked out and then I
would lmao. The sex must be damn good
to keep going through this stress
everyday. |
you don't know their
situation, how far they live from a doctor
or what it takes to get to the doctor.
He already mentioned being from a country
without planned parenthood, so it is not
northamerica. Care for some kindness
instead of sarcastic attacks? This
couple obviously have some stressors going
on. Please don't kick them when they are
down.
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-08-05 20:47pm
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| jessamyn
wrote: | | were not being
mean |
yes you are. All of
you. You, taz, i2. You are actually
being mean. It would be nice if you
could be quiet if you don't have some
useful information for this guy.
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tr> | your just not
listening and where do you live? There
has to be clinics you just dont know about
them, have you even
looked? |
for all you know, he
could be living somewhere in the middle of
nicaragua with no clinics and abortions
being illegal. Are you guys done having
your fun at this guys' expense?
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tr> | why cant you take
her to her regualr doc then? When I was
under 18 I could go to my gyno without my
mom if I wanted to... They have all the
insurance stuff on
file |
we already know that he
doesn't live in the us. So do you have
anything constructive or just want to kick
him when he is down?
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-08-05 20:48pm
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| scaredguy
wrote: | | i know I should relax but
its hard-_- and I just trying to find out
will ovulating make breast
tenderness? |
yes. Any hormonal
change can cause breast tenderness. It
is impossible to actually teel this early
whether she is pregnant or not without
getting a test. The blood test is the
most accurate one and can at this time
also tell when she got pregnant. What
country are you in? We might be able to
track down some resources for you.
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scaredguy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 38
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Posted: 02-08-05 23:16pm
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Thxx alot steen!!! You're the only one
here who really understand my problem...I
live in malaysia...Its above singapore if
you dunno where that is....
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girlstar
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Nov 2004 Posts: 185 Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-09-05 00:33am
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I have relatives in malaysia :) what part
are you from? I hope you guys figure
things out soon. Good luck
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 02-09-05 00:41am
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| steen
wrote: | | jessamyn
wrote: | | were not being
mean |
yes you are. All of
you. You, taz, i2. You are
actually being mean. It would be nice
if you could be quiet if you don't have
some useful information for this guy.
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tr> | your just not
listening and where do you live?
There has to be clinics you just dont know
about them, have you even
looked? |
for all you know, he
could be living somewhere in the middle of
nicaragua with no clinics and abortions
being illegal. Are you guys done
having your fun at this guys' expense?
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tr> | why cant you take
her to her regualr doc then? When I
was under 18 I could go to my gyno without
my mom if I wanted to... They have
all the insurance stuff on
file |
we already know that he
doesn't live in the us. So do you
have anything constructive or just want to
kick him when he is
down? |
steen, i'm assuming you've read this whole
post and seen that we gave him the best
advice we could. Many of us. And
after continually answering the same
questions, it gets a little frustrating.
Scaredguy you never answered my
question, "what is so good about the sex
that makes you worry yourself crazy"??
I would assume they have a way to go about
these sorts of things. I mean is she
the only girl for thousands of miles that
could possibly get preg. There's
absolutely no one that can help???
Maybe next month when he thinks his gf is
pregnant, in his post he can mention where
he lives so we can say "we don't know
about your options in that country", and
someone else can reply who may be able to
help. So, steen, you figured out where
he lives...You didn't help him anymore
than we have.
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-09-05 00:47am
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No steen weve all just told him a million
times and all he keeps saying is they
arent going to the doc and wants us to
tell him yes or no if shes pregnant
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
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Posted: 02-09-05 01:54am
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Okay, if I can find a clinic in haiti...
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-09-05 15:30pm
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And you are all back to defend your
meanspiritedness. Yes, you gave advice,
but none of it useful as pertaining to his
post. It was clear that he didn't live
in north america, and thus copuld have a
different social situatrion facing him.
Instead, you berated him for not finding
your irrelevant answers useful. He has
nothing to thanks you for.
And scared, look at your pm. I'll see
what I can dig out about services in
malaysia.
Pm me with a more specific location.
I'll go, for now, with the presumption
that you are in kuala lumpur
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 02-09-05 15:45pm
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:roll: it's just always something with
this guy....
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:02pm
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You guys can continue your meanspirited
snideness. I gave him the link to the
malaysia family plannic clinics
association. At least that is useful.
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:06pm
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| steen
wrote: | | jessamyn
wrote: | | were not being
mean |
yes you are. All of
you. You, taz, i2. You are actually
being mean. It would be nice if you
could be quiet if you don't have some
useful information for this guy.
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tr> | your just not
listening and where do you live? There
has to be clinics you just dont know about
them, have you even
looked? |
for all you know, he
could be living somewhere in the middle of
nicaragua with no clinics and abortions
being illegal. Are you guys done having
your fun at this guys' expense?
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tr> | why cant you take
her to her regualr doc then? When I was
under 18 I could go to my gyno without my
mom if I wanted to... They have all the
insurance stuff on
file |
we already know that he
doesn't live in the us. So do you have
anything constructive or just want
to kick him when he is
down? |
steen take my name out of this and dont
bring it back up again. I told the boy
what I had to say and final. I wasnt
being mean I was being truthful. She
needs to go to the doc. And that is
final. If he doesnt want to take her to
the doc. Then why ask for opinions.. He
asked for opinions and they where given.
Im sure there is a doc. Some where ....
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:14pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | steen take my name out of
this and dont bring it back up again. I
told the boy what I had to say and
final. |
i noted your editing
"today" of a later post of yours.
Hmm....
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tr> | i wasnt being
mean I was being
truthful. |
it wasn't your advice,
but rather your later jumping on the
meanspirited bandwagon about him.
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tr> | im sure there is
a doc. Some where
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of course you are sure.
You live in a comfortable western country.
Perhaps you need to travel abit to see
how the rest of the world lives?
Newsflash. In the rest of the world,
mortality from childbirth is still a huge
factor. So much for good medical care.
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:20pm
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| steen
wrote: | | you guys can continue your
meanspirited snideness. I gave him the
link to the malaysia family plannic
clinics association. At least that is
useful. |
im glad you found a place to give him so
they can go now.. Thats what I was saying
there is a place somewhere that she can be
taken to. So when you make remarks steen
like meanspirited sidness refer to whom is
doing it not anyone else. And "you guys"
is not my name.. If im doing or saying
something wrong let him tell me. Once
again dont speak for anyone else. Speak
for yourself that is how caca gets started
on here. I dont see any of my post copied
or repeated so once again steen just ans.
His post and leave the other caca out.
Everyone is allowed to give an opinion
without critisizm..
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:26pm
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| steen
wrote: | | tazzy d
wrote: | | steen take my name out of
this and dont bring it back up again. I
told the boy what I had to say and
final. |
i noted your editing
"today" of a later post of yours.
Hmm....
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tr> | i wasnt being
mean I was being
truthful. |
it wasn't your advice,
but rather your later jumping on the
meanspirited bandwagon about him.
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tr> | im sure there is
a doc. Some where
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of course you are sure.
You live in a comfortable western
country. Perhaps you need to travel
abit to see how the rest of the world
lives? Newsflash. In the rest of the
world, mortality from childbirth is still
a huge factor. So much for good medical
care. |
for you information you dont know caca
about me or where my family came from or
where most of them live now. Just to feel
you in a little there are no doc. At all
where my family is I have to bring them
here to get the help they need. And the
post I edited was saying if he had a blow
up doll he wouldnt have to be worried like
he is. See steen I dont need to lie or
hide anything. I dont lie or coverr up
anything at all. So hmmm that. And
about me. You think just because I live
here I get the medical care or whatever
else. Well you dead wrong. Im going
through medical stuff now with my baby
that the doc. Wont even take me or see me
because of my ins. So once again steen
your just another human being that is like
anyone else and dont know caca about
everything. Everyone doesnt have ans. To
everything and that is why they are called
opinions.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:31pm
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Ive tried to help this guy through pm's,
he was scared, so I was even gunna call
for him and make an app, but I couldent
get any information out of him. All he
wanted to know was 'breast tenderness a
sign of ovulation' so I posted her mostly
likely ov dates, and he repetively asked
"is she pregnant?" I dont know, nor does
anyone else...
You can ask someone the same question 1000
times, and the answer will stay the same,
he doesnt want a yes, and he doesnt want a
no, so what other answer can we give him
besides, take her to the doctor!!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 02-09-05 16:35pm
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However, being snide, mean or make light
of his plight does *not* help him. That
is my point.
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