enough did. Enough that it is outrageous. And I am frankly disturbed that you are not more upset that somebody who needs help gets heckled instead.

nope, he just couldn't apply that.

actually, it wasn't planned prenthood, but just something like it:
http://www.Ffpam.Org.My/history.Asp
that was before the heckling started, right?

Okay, steen, but when the same person make 21054923 posts about how they might be pregnant it gets old.

And if you actually read what they said and answered according to that person's concern, then there wouldn't be that much need to repost the request for help.

And so what if it gets old? Is the green light to heckle, belittle and tease them. Is that frankly an acceptable thing to do to somebody in distress?

It is astonishing that you guys *still* are trying to blame him for your own less-than-exsemplar behavior. What is wrong with taking responsibility for your own actions and appologizing for demeaning and ridiculing this guy? Blaming the victim is *not* a sign of maturity, in case anybody is not clear on that.

Blah blah, we answered him, he didn't like the answer so he asked again. It's stupid and ignorant don't tell me he has never been to the doctor before... So why doesn't he take his girl to that place?

Haha hilary he just wanted someone to do the work for him basically and thats what steen did

Obviously he has a phone... And internet lol, so yeah he did I guess.

Okay, I went back and read this entire post again. There was no sign that he was scared about anything except his gf being preg. He didn't mention being concerned for her health or any other consequences that would come with her being preg. He gave us all these dates and said she took and hpt. He said he couldn't take her to the doc b/c he was 17 and she 16 and it would look funny. He never said there was no doc available. Jessamyn even asked him where he lives!!! And he didn't answer. If I really felt he wanted/needed 'help' I wouldn't have found humor in his situation. Steen, lighten up.

Everybody: can we please give a big round of applause for steen being the god of this forum and for having all the right answers! :)

::clap::clap::clap::

Dude he finally pmed me and was like we'll die if we go to the docs or something! Hello then dont have sex!

stten look I figured it out. He just wanted a mans opinion and no
one elses. Esp. Not from us lol..... We are pregnant woman

why should i? As long as you are so busy showing your immature need to attack him for you being mean to him, I have no reason to treat you with respect. When you can't even owe up to your actions and admit that you didn't treat him nice, you really don't have much standing in telling others what to do.

And yes, I did notice that *you* were the one instigating the ridicule.

really? And that was indicated where? Rather, he wanted information that was useful to him instead of being attacked and ridiculed. Yes, you obviously *still* are trying to defend how he was atatcked. That is rather sad. At least I thought *you* had integrity. Some of the other posters here have had their differences with me before and shown their lack of integrity, but you at least have always shown that you had it. So why drop it now, defending the ridicule that this guy was exposed to?

Hey everyone,
we all no this has happened before right?
No1 is ever going to stop any1 from having there own personal oppinion. So now that the guy has had help, and is recieving it from who he wanted it from we should all agree to dissagree with one person or another.
And we all no that no1 here was intentially being mean!
So lets stop this thread from going on... And on.. And on..
And not write any more!!

Please all end now.

Goodluck every1, and I hope that I have not offended anyone.

Thanks chloe

i figured you wouldn't have a comeback to the first 10 sentences. Anyway, I didn't say anything about respect. I do not feel that you have disrespected me. I guess they didn't teach you that lighten up and respect are not synonyms in med school. And if you've read this thread, I said sorry to scaredguy before you ever posted here. In another post I asked what exactly you did and your reply was - get through med school first. It's amusing you only respond when you feel you have something witty to say and ignore the rest of the post.

You want me to go into details on how meanspirited you were? Is that what you are saying here?

You want me to dissect the rest of your post? I'll be happy to do so if you want me to.

Please do. Let's see how long it takes you to dissect every sentence...It's 11:04 am my time.

lana and tanya (l2at24 and tazzy) are 2 of the people I would not mess with on this forum since we love them and will back up anything they have to say 100% pretty much no matter what. So I think people should just stop arguing on this forum.. We don't like arguing, no offense but I don't know any man that can win an argument against a bunch of pregnant women and mom's--lol.

very well. Then I also presume you will give my response its due attention so as to not be a hypocrite
which certainly is scary enough living in a foreign country where healthcare facilities or access is not necessarily up to speed.
irrelevant. They are concerned about the pregnancy itself.
and he stated that he didn't know how to. He also stated that if their concern was the need for an abortion, that it wasn't legal, which could get them into trouble. So it is not like calling up your local physician. Did you miss that part?
irrelevant. We already knew that he didn't live in the western world, as abortions were illegal.
yet you did and ridiculed him.
and this I already replied to.

even to the point of being mean against somebody who asks for help because they are sacred? Hmm, now that you have revealed you degree of character, we will continue.
that would be nice. But if I see people being ridiculed as happened here, I will, of course speak up. That is part of my integrity.
but we do like bullying?
i am not talking about "winning" here

I didn't read all 5 pages of this post so I didn't see them being mean to anyone. Please if you are here to "help" this guy then do so and that's it you are ruining the pregnancy forum for the rest of us.