I became "just friends" with my now
ex-boyfriend on january 5th, and then the
next day while babysitting my roommates 21
month old, I walked to the store with him
and bought a box of 3 hpts. I took them
home and took one and it was positive, and
then about 2 hours later I took another
one just to be sure, and it was the same
result. I went to the doctors on the 14th
of jan. And the doctor said I was 6 wks
and 1 day along.
At first I was disappointed about it all
because I don't have anything yet like a
job or own apartment, or car.... I did
talk to my ex and he said not to worry
that he would help me, but I really don't
want to be with him, just friends... I
know it may not be the smartest way to go,
but i'll also have the support from
parents and other family and friends.
When I me and my ex first started dating,
I wanted a baby so bad. Then it was like
all the "wanting" a baby went away and I
wanted to focus on myself and get a job
and apartment and nice car. Now I have
to focus on the same things except it
can't be a nice ass car that I wanted...
But now i'm excited that i'm going to be a
mom, also nervous.. I worry about having
a miscarriage all the time (how easy is it
to have a miscarriage)
jessica :)
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~*klo*~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 353 Location: eng
Posted: 02-05-05 18:05pm
Wow I love ur story. I have split with my
bf about 3 weeks back. We are also just
'good friends'. Its kind of good, now im
worried about being pregnant. I think if
I was I would still be over joyed. And im
sure you are to!
Good luck on your whole pregnancy im sure
everything will be fine.X
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 02-07-05 06:31am
You know you can still work the whole time
while pregnant and even go on maternity
leave so dont quit job hunting... Take
all the help you can get and its okay to
just be friends as long as hes there for
the baby
