Hi, i'm not too sure if i'm posting this
question correctly, but hopefully i'll get
someone to respond. I am 21, I have a
four year old son. Before pregnancy I was
a 36-c, after birth a 38-d. I tried
breast feeding my son but he never latched
on. However I did pump for 6 months until
I just didn't produce milk anymore. I am
now at an a cup and it seriously is
bothering me. I don't even have any
firmness. This is causing me to be so
depressed often I want to commit suicide.
I know it's a dumb reason but my body
image is important to me, and not only do
I feel unattractive, I feel disgusting. I
can't enjoy relationships, I can't enjoy
sex. I was wondering....Well what
happened? I have always been
small/petite. Before giving birth I was
only 84 pounds, after i'm 97, shouldn't
they have kept their size? I'm also
wondering if something is medically wrong
with me, or if..Other than surgery and
buying creams, is there a natural way to
enhance them..Diet, anything. Please
help!!! :cry:
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-06-05 16:41pm
Sorry honey, it happens. Comes with
having babies. I'm waiting to see what
mine do. I just finished nursing my
second baby about 2 weeks ago. Have you
thought about implants? I saw a woman on
some show that went through your exact
situation and she got breast implants.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 02-06-05 17:40pm
I do not know of any alternatives besides
surgery(creams do not work!!).You did have
considerable shrinkage,but if you are so
petite,a smaller size should work for
you!You don't want to look like pam
anderson,do you??!!I am not a good one for
advice on breast size-i'm an a cup as
well-always have been!I used to want
bigger boobs when I was younger,but now
realize all my big breasted friends are
having back and shoulder problems as they
get older.I am okay with my little girls,i
can still wear a two piece swim suit and
go braless if I want to.If ypou are bother
by this,you may want to have a
consultation with a plastic surgeon who
does a lot of breast augmentations.Good
luck to you!
Patty
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zomby_grl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 20 Location: west virginia
Posted: 02-10-05 07:11am
Its normal ure not the only one that feels
that way but its perfectly normal. It
happens that way its suppose to thats
something noone ever tells u. I am 20 and
I have to kids and I am in the same boat
as u but it dont bother me I have
reassurance from my boyfriend that I am
looking great to him.
