I Have Some Worries, Appreciate Advice! Posted: 02-05-05 15:58pm
Hello ill try to keep this simple.
I am 17 and will be coming sexually active
soon. However, after reading through
these forums i'm slightly worried about
anxiety causing premature ejaculation.
If I become very aroused before
masturbation then I will ejaculate
quickly, and worry a similiar situation
could happen when having sex. If I dont
watch any porn or anything then it takes
much longer.
Do I have anything to worry about? A
friend said that he came quickly his first
time few times but he doesnt anymore.
Just need a general opinion needed really,
because the more I think about it, the
more I worry.
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dominique
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 83
Posted: 02-17-05 23:48pm
Try to calm down. Your first time hardly
ever goes perfectly how planned and the
best way to deal with it is just to be
calm and open about things with your
girlfriend. If you're really worried
about not lasting long why not take care
of it yourself a few hours before? :wink:
that way it may take you longer and
you'll be a little less nervous.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Fubar Posted: 02-18-05 05:11am
Masturbate before you get together w/ her,
or while you're with her. Sometimes,
this helps turn a lady on. She "may"
feel that she is such a turn-on that you
can't control yourself. Some (not all)
like this experience. I have had women
tell me they like to watch " it cum out".,
but be prepared to go the distance w/ her.
This is extremely important, guy. If
you can't stay in the "saddle", then
finger / orually her. Hey, she's is this
for pleasure, too.
