Help a Girl Out - Penis Related Question Posted: 02-05-05 18:48pm
Hey guys,
i am seeing a guy, and we have a very
active sex life - we probably see
eachother 4-6 times a week, and often have
sex multiple times every day we are
together. The other day he told me he was
going to have to "try not to have sex with
me" for a couple days, because he was
having what he described as "chafing" on
or near the head of his penis, and said it
was extremely sensitive, to the point of
painful.
Does this kind of thing happen often from
having a very active sex life, or should I
make him get checked out, or what? I
think it must be really painful for him,
cause we will mess around now, and he wil
get aroused, but he won't carry it to the
point of orgasm for himself.
Any help would be so appreciated!!
Thanks!!
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 02-05-05 20:27pm
My ex and I had a similar sex life as you
and your friend. Usually had sex a good
5-6 times a day around 5-7 days a week...
Have never had a problem with chaffing.
However, we always used lots of
lubricant.
Chaffing usually occurs when a guy is
overly rough and has a lot of sex (or
masturbation) without adequate lubriant.
A rash develops. This is one of the
common problems with circumsized guys
unfortunately. He should apply vaseline
twice a day to reduce chaffing until the
rash goes away. Once he's better and you
two engage in intercourse again, be sure
to use a lot of water based lubricant.
(i.E. K-y jelly or astroglide).
Have fun,
justin
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dominique
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 83
Posted: 02-17-05 23:44pm
I agree. Make sure that he is properly
lubricated. Also, as dumb as it sounds,
ask him if maybe his clothes are rubbing
up against it more than they should. That
happens to my fiance a lot and sometimes
it's just because of the type of boxers
he's wearing or activities he's doing that
day, like running. Good luck!
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Help Posted: 02-18-05 05:24am
He might be in overdrive........... He
might be stroking himself off from the
experience he has had with you.
Hey, this would be a complement. Ask him
if he has "thoughts" (sexual { guys do
this you know} 'bout you) when you're not
together. He may be rubbing it thin!
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Help Posted: 02-18-05 05:24am
He might be in overdrive........... He
might be stroking himself off from the
experience he has had with you.
Hey, this would be a complement. Ask him
if he has "thoughts" (sexual { guys do
this you know} 'bout you) when you're not
together. He may be rubbing it thin!
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Concerned Girl Posted: 02-18-05 05:37am
He probably saw "40 days"..... Fine!
Make him wait for awhile before you ride
him, again. Interesting to see what
happens??????? Sounds selfish to
me........
.......... He's not being considerate of
you and probably won't in the future,
either.........
Suggest........ Moving on!
