Even More Pissed Vent

Pink- you need to get out of that house. Seriously. You and luis need to find your own place because that is caca.

And, just fyi- just because she'll have his last name doesn't mean he can just up and take her. If anything were to happen, she'd probably be placed with you as "emergency custody" and then you guys would have to go to court to figure it out.

Chelle that utterly sucks!! :x it totally bugs me how people worry about babies' last names. I mean, of all the things there are to think about and worry about with having a baby and raising a child I think it's last name is a pretty small thing for someone to lock onto if you think about it. Maybe you should tell your mom you overheasd what she said and you've been giving it a lot of thought so you're going to give your baby the last name of bin laden. :lol:

i'm really not making fun of it. I just think there's a lot of things more important than that for your mom and your brother to worry about. I also think its pretty sh*tty of your bro to stiff you on your car after you let him use it then get all worked up over what you're going to name your baby. He needs to grow up and lighten up.

Aww i'm sorry you had to overhear that..I personally hate my last name and plan on giving my baby the daddy's last name...And I know once my mom told me "why are you gonna give him his last name? Your giving him all the power"..Well I think it should be up to us...And your right, your baby should be w/ her daddy if anything did ever happen to you..I hope things get better soon though..

Oh for sure. Im going to work my hardest, and do my best, I dont care what I have to do, to get what ever my baby needs, and whatever we need to be happy. Cause this is miserable. My mom complains cause I dont work, when she was the one who talked me into quitting my job when I was 2 months pg (big mistake) then cries cause she doesnt want us to leave. I dont get it. Shes just lonely, and takes everything out on me, and wonders why I dont want to talk to her about anything. Cause she always says "you cant do it, you cant do it"

Chelle it almost sounds like your mom's afraid you're growing up too fast for her and she's scared of losing her "little girl" even though you stopped being a little girl a long time ago. I know my mom's told me that's how she feels sometimes when she thinks about me having a baby. But at least even though we've had our fights, my mom's been a lot more positive. Good luck! I think you'lll do great as long as you don't let all the other pettiness get you down too much. :)

Did you ever spend alot of time with your before you meet your boyfriend and got pregnant. If you did she may be jealous because you are spending more time with your boyfriend and you will be to busy with the baby to spend time with her. But with the last name thing. Your mom can't take your baby away from you unless she can prove you to be a unfit mother. Which the way it sounds to me that you are not a unfit mother. And it is up you to give your baby the whatever last name you want to give it. But there is some hostipal that will give the baby your last name. Whether or not the father is there to sign the papers. Because when my brother's wife had their baby (they wasn't married at that time) they tried to give the baby her last name. But my brother got mad about that and told them that if they don't put his name and give the baby his last name he was going to a lawyers and sueing the pants off of them. I hope that doesn't happen to you. As for your bro. Don't listening to him. Sometimes they think are trying to protect but in the long run they that just hurt you sometimes. I hoped I helped any. And I didn't sound like I was judgeing anybody. I hate when I sound like that and don't even realize that I am.

No, what you said was great, and thanks.

The unfit mother thing-she meant if anything should happen to me, like god forbid, I died, he would get the baby and not her, I was like "duh" he should get her, hes her dad.

(pretend im writing in caps) I love you girls!! Thank you soooooo much!!

Michelle- things will get better, and soon you'll have your own place, and your own little family to worry about. I hope things get better soon for you. And don't stress to much

Chelle! Thats .N.U.T.S, why is she even thinking of that?! Or do they think that even if you are ok that he'll try to get sole custody of the baby?

I dont know what there thinking. Hes not gunna take her from me, were together, thats what I dont understand.

I guess its cause hes "illegal" and they think hes gunna take her to mexico. Im like hes here in arizona, cause he hates mexico, why would he go back, with a baby?

My moms just crazy.

Are you and the dad on good terms? Like will you be together this whole time? Because in truth if he did decide to medical question you over or the baby... He would have full rights to the baby even as a bad parent... How the twist to that is if he signs the birth ceriticate and screws you over then he has to pay child support


but over all if your on good terms tell them to mind their own business