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konfuzed
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I Need Help!
Posted: 02-06-05 01:30am
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Alright,well my girlfriend has yet to
start her period, today will be day
six,she was supposed to start the 1st of
this month. We have had lots of
un-protected sex to where I have
ejaculated in her,well everytime we've had
sex,and we had sex everyday except for
most sundays when I do not get to see her.
But she cramped from the 1st to the
3rd,but never spotted,never started,and
then after those days she stopped cramping
and has'nt since. On the 4th day after
her missed period she took a pregnancy
test,it came up positive,on the 5th day
which was the day that has just now
passed,she took two pregnancy tests,they
both came up positive,we are scared and do
not know what to do because of the cramps
for the first three days,and we want to
make sure she is preganant before telling
her parents because if she is'nt we would
not get to see one another again,so I
really need to know if the cramps mean she
is'nt... Please help me.....
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Nikki n Rudy
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Re: I Need Help!
Posted: 02-06-05 01:33am
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| konfuzed
wrote: | | we want to make sure she is
preganant before telling her parents
because if she is'nt we would not get to
see one another again,so I really need to
know if the cramps mean she is'nt...
Please help
me..... |
does this mean you want to make sure she
.I.S.N.T before telling because if she
.I.S then you wont get to see her anymore?
I'm lost.
I think if she isnt, you need to wear a
cap and she needs to be on bc!
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girlstar
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:35am
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It sounds like she's pregnant to me.
Cramps are normal during pregnancy..
Especially early on. It doesn't mean that
she's not pregnant just because she had
cramps. If you're still unsure and want
to be 100% positive, I suggest taking her
to the doctors and getting a blood test
done to confirm it. That way, you two
will know for sure and she can get the
prenatal care her and the baby need. Good
luck!
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:35am
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No if she is'nt I dont get to see her,i
want to know if she is or not not because
of that,because we want to know,and we
dont know if the cramps are a sign she
will start her period or if the tests are
right or what,and you were'nt very nice
about what you said...
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Nikki n Rudy
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:37am
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If she isnt pregnant why wont you be able
to see her anymore? Because you guys are
having sex??? Im lost.
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:38am
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Yes,because we've been having sex,i would
not get to see her anymore,but if she is
they wont stop it,but if she is'nt and
when we go through all of this with
telling them and what not,she cannot see
me.
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:39am
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And so her cramping the first three days
and stopping are not abnormal then?
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Nikki n Rudy
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:40am
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So if she isnt pregnant...Why tell anyone
you had a scare??? I wouldn't bother
telling anyone about a scare. But sounds
to me, she is pregnant. Its rare to get a
false positive. There are false negatives
but yours arent negatives, they are
positives.
You two should get a blood test done on
her. How old are you two? Has to be
about 16 or so, right??
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mom2trevor
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:40am
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Cramps without a period were one of my
number one signs of pregnacy. With 2
pregnancy tests coming up positive...She's
pregnant. She should schedule a Dr.
Appointment to confirm how far along she
is and then you should discuss how to tell
your parents because they really need to
know. Have you all discussed what you
would do in case of pregnancy? If not,
now is the time..
Best of luck to you
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girlstar
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:42am
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Well, it's not abnormal to cramp on and
off during early pregnancy. Since she has
taken 3 test and all were positive, i'd
say there's a pretty good chance you guys
are having a baby. Take her to the
doctors.. Get it confirmed and have a
talk with her parents.
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:44am
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She is 16,i am 17.
And I just think it seems abnormal that
she would cramp the first three days and
then not start her period,but yes all
three tests have said positive,and yes
we've discussed what we are going to
do,and the thing is I cant take her to the
doctor without telling her parents
first,this is why I am really needing help
on the subject beacause we are both scared
and do not know when to know for sure if
she is or not...
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:45am
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She is 16,i am 17.
And I just think it seems abnormal that
she would cramp the first three days and
then not start her period,but yes all
three tests have said positive,and yes
we've discussed what we are going to
do,and the thing is I cant take her to the
doctor without telling her parents
first,this is why I am really needing help
on the subject beacause we are both scared
and do not know when to know for sure if
she is or not...
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:46am
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She is 16,i am 17.
And I just think it seems abnormal that
she would cramp the first three days and
then not start her period,but yes all
three tests have said positive,and yes
we've discussed what we are going to
do,and the thing is I cant take her to the
doctor without telling her parents
first,this is why I am really needing help
on the subject beacause we are both scared
and do not know when to know for sure if
she is or not...
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:47am
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She is 16,i am 17.
And I just think it seems abnormal that
she would cramp the first three days and
then not start her period,but yes all
three tests have said positive,and yes
we've discussed what we are going to
do,and the thing is I cant take her to the
doctor without telling her parents
first,this is why I am really needing help
on the subject beacause we are both scared
and do not know when to know for sure if
she is or not...
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mom2trevor
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:49am
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With unprotected sex and 3 positive
pregnancy tests she is pregnant! Tell her
parents and get her to the Dr.
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mom2trevor
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:49am
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girlstar
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:49am
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I had cramping on and off and never
started my period. That was my big clue
that something was going on.. And well...
I'm now almost 8 weeks pregnant. I doubt
that she would get 3 false positives. The
important thing right now is that she gets
prenatal care. I know it's scary but if
the only way she can see the doctor is
that her parents know, then that's
something you will have to deal with. I
don't find cramping for 3 days and
stopping is odd at all.
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konfuzed
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Posted: 02-06-05 01:59am
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I am just scared for us to tell her
parents and then her not be...
But I mean,she has'nt started,she has'nt
cramped since those days,and never spotted
or anything,and all three tests showed up
positive,i just dont want to ruin mine and
hers relationship if it is just a scare...
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mom2trevor
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Posted: 02-06-05 02:02am
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Just curious--were you trying to get
pregnant?
Anyway--with 3 positive tests and
unprotected sex...Then she is pregnant..A
false positive pregnancy test is very very
rare but to have 3 false positives would
be nearly impossible....A false negative
maybe but not false positive....
I really don't think this is a
scare....This is the real thing. She
needs to see a dr as soon as possible for
her health and for the babies....Don't
hold off any longer!
Tell her parents so that she can get the
necessary care!
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girlstar
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Posted: 02-06-05 02:04am
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I'm sorry, but if all three test were
positive and she hasn't started her period
yet... She's pregnant. Pregnancy test
work by detecting the pregnancy hormone.
The only way it shows positive is if she
has the hormone present in her system.
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