Yes...We were trying to get pregnant.....

And,yeah we need to tell her parents so she can go to the doctor,she is just scared to tell them and keeps trying to put it off...

Well, congrats on the pregnancy then. If you or your girlfriend would like to talk, feel free to pm me. I'm tracy and 18 btw.

Thanks,i appreciate it...I have really needed to talk to someone and all of you have helped me,especially with the whole calming down thing...

No problem. Good luck telling the parents :) I have yet to tell mine when my mom gets back from asia. Lol

Also last month,i guess I should have added this,but she missed her period three days last month,and did'nt cramp and then started and did'nt stay on but a couple of days,could she have been pregnant then? :?

So... She was late for her period last month but when it came, it was shorter than usual? Sorry.. Just trying to clarify

Well then I agree with tracy...Congratulations!

Don't let her put off telling them any longer! She needs vitamins for sure and an u/s to date the pregnancy and be sure things are okay.....

Lots of luck to you and your girlfriend...

I don't post here much usually just a lurker but these girls here seem to be a very good support group in case your girlfriend has any questions or just wants to talk..

Yes,she was late for her period,and only stayed on a short time,but we did'nt think anything because we did'nt know any better...

Yes she could have been pregnant last month and the bleeding that she had could have been what is called implantation bleeding...That is where the embryo attatches itself to the uterus....

When she has her first ob appointment be sure to tell them that so that they can do an u/s to check dates :)

Mom2trevor - thanks! How old is your son? :)

it's possible she could have been pregnant. That's another reason why she should go see a doctor asap. She needs to figure out how far along she is. Does she have any pregnancy symptoms?

Is it a bad thing that if she was and has'nt gone to the doctor? Could something bad go wrong,or have already gone wrong????

She has been feeling sick off and on...

When did that start? As long as she hasn't been doing drugs, drinking or smoking, everything should be okay. But she definitely needs to be checked out. I hope she gets an u/s to check dates.. I don't get my first one til i'm 18 weeks along

I'm not sure when it started,and yes she has been smoking cigarettes...But we did'nt know she was...

There is a really great book out there called 'what to expect while you are expecting' it's about $17 and is an excellent book. ...It can ease a lot of her pregnacy fears :)

it isn't terrible that she hasn't gone to the Dr. Some people don't even know they are pregnant until they are 2-3 months along....The best thing to do is just schedule an appt. As soon as possible and try not to worry....I'm sure everything is fine....She hasn't had any bleeding or anything since has she?

Tracy--my little one is 17 months old and meaner than a snake..Ha ha..Lol...Just a little angel actually....How far along are you? Are you getting excited?......It feels like it takes forever for them to get here but I tell you what once they do get here time just flies...Sometimes I miss being pregnant....That's why I lurk around on here....

She has'nt bled.

I agree. I'm sure everything is fine as well :) she's lucky if her nausea comes and goes.. Mine likes to stay with me morning to night lol

mom2trevor - awww congrats! I bet he's a cutie!! I'm 8 weeks as of today lol and very excited. I can't wait to get to my 2nd trimester though. I think i'll be less worried by then. It feels like it's taking forever though and I can't wait to find out if this lil bean that's making me sick all day is a boy or girl hehe

The only time there has been any blood at all was maybe once or twice after sex,and well,it was just like a tiny bit,and i'm positive it was from the sex.

Spotting after sex is normal :) no worries about that

Just try to help her quit smoking. It's really hard to quit but she can do it......Have her come here and talk to these girls....They are really a great bunch of people! And try to get your hand on that book that mentioned...It really was a great help to me when I was pregnant! Tell her that I wish her a happy and healthy nine months!!



Tracy-congrats!....Do they let you record the u/s at your dr office? I have my little man on tape beating my insides up...Lol....He was a kicker! Once you get to the second trimester *some* of the worry goes away...But I have to warn you.....You will probably be worried for the next 18 years...Kids have a way of doing that to you...Lol....I worry about everything when it comes to trevor...



he is my sweetie!