please
help me.I am 42.My problem is I have
truoble getting hard ,and once I am hard
and inside I got soft. I heard my wife
cry over this .There has to be somesthing
I can get over thr counter for this ,can
anyone help?????
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LAWRENCE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2003 Posts: 14 Location: NEW JERSEY
Staying Hard... Posted: 11-01-03 04:10am
I guess my question would be...Are you
still attracted to your wife? Or is
there another woman...She probably was
crying over that issue. If you are still
attracted to her, then tell her that, just
to resolve that issue with her. Maybe
you just need to try different stuff, like
more 4-play or even roll playing. There
aint no shame in that, especially between
husband and wife. Maybe you need to try
more kinky types of sex or sexual
positions. Just a little personal note,
when I am with my soon to be wife and in
the heat of the moment and I want to have
sex, but am not aroused, I have her
to...This might sound weird, but I have
her lick my nipples. Hey, it works for
me.
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yesboy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Missouri
Lover Her With All My Heart Posted: 11-01-03 14:46pm
Hi lawernce,
i love her very much ,i ve only been like
this since my last heart attack.
But thwith her she crys when she dont
orgasim
.She has always been like that , I cant
take most of these pills because of my
heart
thanks
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Fairy*Godmother
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Joined: 11 Oct 2003 Posts: 1387 Location: , Georgia USA
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Had to Say Something! Posted: 11-01-03 21:00pm
Hi, I really think your wife needs to be a
little more understanding about the
situation and not take things so personal.
She sounds like a really emotional person
and this is wonderful. But, you have been
thru a heart attack. This is a major
thing. I would just feel very lucky and
fortunate to still have you. You need to
tell her all you are feeling and explain
to her that this may be a problem, no ones
to blame. Loving couples can work these
type things out. Sex is not all there is
to a loving relationship. It may be
embarrasing, but if you are really
concerned, speak to you primary care
physican. The medication you are taking
seems to be effecting you in this area.
There are other alternatives and other
medications. Not saying this is all you,
just think your wife should thank her
lucky stars she still has you here!!!!!!!
God bless you both!
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yesboy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Missouri
Very Understanding Posted: 11-04-03 09:57am
My wife is very under standing even when I
didnt have the problem . If she dont cum
she crys ,its her way
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minerwater
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
Alternatives Posted: 11-04-03 13:49pm
Well, until you can figure it out it's
time to play around.
Buy a dildo, a vibrator. Get her to
orgasim using your mouth, hands
or toys...You need to get innovative and
playful and daring.
Your penis is not the only thing that will
get her grooving.
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minerwater
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 153 Location: Canada
Alternatives Posted: 11-04-03 13:49pm
Well, until you can figure it out it's
time to play around.
Buy a dildo, a vibrator. Get her to
orgasim using your mouth, hands
or toys...You need to get innovative and
playful and daring.
Your penis is not the only thing that will
get her grooving.
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__Notorious__
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Lawton,Ok
This Is to Yesboy Posted: 11-05-03 19:45pm
Hi, have u ever tried a penis ring? If
not go out and buy one and put it on as
soon as u get erect =)
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bellybluesun
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2003 Posts: 34 Location: Georgia
Posted: 11-08-03 10:48am
I agree with alternatives. I think that
you should work on getting her to climax
other ways. I know that she would enjoy
when it shows how much you do love her and
care for her needs and then participate.
I think that toys is the best way to go.
I also think that you do need to discuss
this problem with your doctor. There may
be another type of medication for you.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 11-08-03 12:15pm
Yes I agree with notorious! Buy a penis
ring (thats what they are called). Once
you get hard slide it down to the base of
your penis and it keeps your penis hard.
However you should not use it for more
then 30 minutes at a time as it can slow
the blood supply and cause damage!
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quikplatinum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2003 Posts: 12
Posted: 11-10-03 10:58am
Sounds like your heart has become weak
from these heart attacks, are you
recommended to do cardiovascular
excersice, or is it a requirement? If
you're not get on it, because the fact of
the matter is that your heart is probably
not be able to supply that much blood
because it's weak. Ask your doctor how
much cardio you can do, and if you can
progressively increase it. Stick with it,
and you'll heart will be healthier, you'll
feel better from the endorphins, you'll
have an increased libido, etc...
Just a thought
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mikef
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 23 Location: United States-Idaho
Posted: 11-01-04 12:16pm
I highly recommend you to try zupro or
viagra. After taking zupro I had rock
hard erections and intense sexual drive.
Viagra also effective but I feel headache
after it.
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doola
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 22 Location: south carolina
Posted: 11-07-04 14:59pm
You might want to consider talking to your
doctor about this problem my first huband
didn't have an heart attack but had to
take high blood medicine and also had to
take a blood thinner. He couln't stay
hard for long period of time either.
Check with your doctor he might have
another type medicine that has less side
effects. Good luck!!!!!
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Bumble62
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2008 Posts: 2
Please Posted: 01-09-08 02:00am
Please you men with ED see a doctor that
will check your hormone,s.See a doctor who
does hormone replacement treatment before
any viagra etc.That is called but is not a
treatment.
please
help me.I am 42.My problem is I have
truoble getting hard ,and once I am hard
and inside I got soft. I heard my wife
cry over this .There has to be somesthing
I can get over thr counter for this ,can
anyone help?????
.She has always been like that , I cant
take most of these pills because of my
heart
