Yesterday my bf jeff asked me if I wanted
to go to a super bowl party tonight at a
friends house whose parents are out of
town. He's a big eagles fan and I know
he really wanted to go. But I also know
there's going to be a lot of drinking and
smoking there and I don't want to expose
my unborn baby to anything like that that
could harm him. Plus i've still got this
dumb immobilzer on my leg cuz of my
bruised knee from when I fell last week
and sitting for very long is a real pain
for me. Besides, last time we went to a
party we left early cuz I spent most the
time waiting in line to keep going to the
bathroom. And I know once we got there
we'd be there at least for the whole game
so there's no leaving early no matter
what. So I said I really didn't feel
like going.
Jeff got really upset and said "you're
absolutely no fun at all any more and
sometimes you've gotten to be a real
b*tch." I know what he said is true but I
guess my hormones took over and I told him
in case he hadn't noticed i'm pregnant and
he sure didn't think I was no fun when he
got me this way. From there we just got
into a big argument. I finished off by
telling him to go to his stupid party
without me and have a good time, and he
just said ok and left.
The worst part is I know therre's a lot of
truth in everything we both said and part
of me wants to call him and say i'm sorry,
but i'm not going to because i'm really
not sorry. I also know there's going to
be girls there who aren't big and fat and
pregnant and who'd love to get a chance at
him. :cry:
so I guess i'll just finish my homework
instead. Thanks for letting me vent.
:(
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
Posted: 02-06-05 18:24pm
Aw dont worry about it...Im sure he loves
you and dont worry about those other
stupid girls!
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 02-06-05 18:39pm
I know how you feel. Im in a 'fight' or
whatever you wanna call it too. I hate
going to things with luis's family cause
im always the only white girl that doesnt
know what there talking about. (they
speak spanish) and they all dance to
spanish music, and on christmas, I was so
mad, cause ruby brought the girl "z"
...Shes freaking everywhere we go! And
luis's dad made me dance, and I dont know
how, and didnt want to cause I was off
balance and kept falling that week, and he
was drunk, and spinning me around, and I
couldent keep up. And luis just laughed.
And then they tell me your no fun! It
angers me off. Then they made me eat this
stuff called menudo, and they said it was
chicken soup, and I found out later it was
cow stomach or something sick like that.
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-06-05 20:08pm
Krista kai I am sure that your boyfriend
loves you. And he is just wanting to
spend some alone time with you before the
baby gets here. But there is other ways
of doing that. Have you try talking to
him calmly. And explain how you are
feeling. I know there is some guys out
there who doesn't like to talk about
things like that. But if you start to
talk he may then to.
Pinkbaby you are brave to try a new food.
If it was me I would have never tried
that. I don't eat food that I have never
heard of and I don't eat food that I don't
like. But I give you a thumbs up on being
brave to try a new food.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 02-06-05 20:17pm
I watch fear factor all the time, and I
hate all that stuff they have to eat.
I felt like I was on that show when they
told me. Cause after I got done he
started laughing, I could see it in his
eyes, I was like "that wasnt chicken soup
was it" and the girl (brandy) was sitting
next to me and she says "luis your so
mean" and she told me what it was.
And they eat this other thing, with like
fish, squid, and some other squirmy
things, and I seen a baby octopus in it!!
Im a animal nut so I freaked out, cause I
could actually make out what it was, his
little legs and everything, and I was like
omg omg omg its an octopus and there all
no its calamares or something...I was like
ya, I bet thats spanish for octopus!!
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jessied04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 60
Posted: 02-06-05 20:19pm
Haha aw calamari is fried squid I know lol
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 02-06-05 20:39pm
Im sorry kriskai, I hope things work out.
:)
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-07-05 05:40am
Hey baby girl! I'm just starting to get
to know ya... But how far alogn are
you?
If its any constilation.. Ive gotten
massively boring since I got pregnant too
and its even caused some problems for paul
and I on occasion... But just give it
time and if he truly loves you he'll be
there for you... I give you mad props for
recognizing that you shoul not be in that
atmosphere while pregnant it can truly do
some real damage...
Paul and I have our fights about me
nagging alot more now or keeping tabs on
him... But in the end it all works its
self out... We can go a few days hating
each other then be massively
affectionate... Like today was awesome!!!
Where as I hated him yesterday!
So sit down talk to him even if it brings
up fighting or tears... Let him know
whats up... Make him realize he doesnt
know what your going thru or how it feels
or the emotions you have and now is the
time you need him the most!
