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scared_to_breath
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Location: Calgary, Alberta
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So Much For Hoping
Posted: 02-07-05 02:39am
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Well now I know that it's over between me
and him. For the most part, he kept
thinking I was going to kiss him today,
and I thought about it, but I didn't. I
just liked looking at him. He's changed
so much, he's stopped smoking, he cut his
hair short, he's shaved, it's so weird.
Well I told him I might be pregnant, well
kinda I told him I was scared about
something and I didn't want to say because
I didn't want to complicate things, and he
figured it out. I miss him so much, but I
guess i'll move on. So hopefully if I get
a chance tomorrow i'm going to go buy a
pregnancy test and find out for sure.
Thanks for listening you guys.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-07-05 05:17am
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How old are you (sorry usually am on the
pregnancy forum decided to pop over here,
used to be here all the time) can you
handle a baby if you are pregnant...?
Will he be there for you? Lemme know how
the tests goes
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scared_to_breath
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: Calgary, Alberta
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Posted: 02-08-05 16:19pm
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I'm 17. We've talked about it and he said
that if I am pregnant, we'll figure things
out once I know for sure, but either way
he'd help me (wether it's giving me money,
or actually being there for the kid is a
different story) but I know if he doesn't
stick around that i'll be able to do it on
my own. I still haven't gotten a chance
to take a test, because there is always
someone around me and i'm not going to buy
one with my friends or parents around.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-09-05 00:41am
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If you are you need to tellyour parents a
baby changes your life forever and
trusssst me the sooner the better
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rachrach
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 413
Location: Hawaii
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Posted: 02-09-05 03:16am
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Good luck with everything!
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mommaashley
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Joined: 26 Oct 2004
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Location: Canada
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Posted: 02-09-05 10:40am
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Yes you need to tell them early I waited
until I was 7 months to tell my dad,
little did I know that he was going to be
supportive and help me, it woulda been so
much less stress trying to hide it
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-09-05 11:26am
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Did you go to a doctor in those 7 months?
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scared_to_breath
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Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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Location: Calgary, Alberta
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Posted: 02-09-05 13:11pm
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Thanks you guys. I found out yesterday
that I am. I told my ex, and at first he
wanted me to have an abortion, but than he
started talking about what to name the
baby. It was weird. I'm going to take
another test soon to make sure, but i'm
pretty sure I am. I'm also going to work
on telling my parents. It's going to be
hard, but I think they have to know.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-09-05 13:12pm
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How far along do you think you are? The
sooner the better you tell them babe even
if they lash out on you... And go get
some prenantals and your butt into the doc
asap!
Muah congrats its a long road from here!
If you need anything!
Aim:darlinjessa
email:jessamynleesha@yahoo.Com
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scared_to_breath
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Dec 2004
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Location: Calgary, Alberta
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Posted: 02-09-05 15:09pm
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Thanks so much you guys. I never thought
i'd find a place like this. You guys are
awsome. I'm going to the doctors
tomorrow, i'm not sure how far along I am,
possibly a month, maybe 6 weeks. I think
i've decided i'm going to keep it because
I can't just get rid of it like an
unwanted puppy or something. I'm going to
talk to my ex before I tell my mom. I was
thinking of telling my mom and my dad at
the same time. Does anyone know any good
ways of letting your parents know?
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004
Posts: 618
Location: Arizona
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Posted: 02-09-05 15:32pm
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Buy bibs. One that says 'i love my
grandma' and 'i love my grandpa' there
only like .97 cents at walmart. Wrap them
up and tell them you got them a present to
open at the same time, when they see it, I
think theyll get the point, maybe cry, or
yell at you, I dont know lol, but thats
the cutest way I could think of.
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scared_to_breath
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: Calgary, Alberta
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Posted: 02-09-05 17:35pm
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Awww that sounds so cute. I think I might
do that, take them out for coffee or
something, and give those to them. I know
my mom is going to be mad at first, but
than I think she'll be excited. I have no
idea how my dad will react, but i'm going
to wait to tell them till I go to the
doctors and do some stuff.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-09-05 20:32pm
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Honestly if they dont think your ready to
be a parent yet there is no true good way
of telling then so suck it up bite your
lip and let it out! Lol
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BrianBaby
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Posted: 02-09-05 20:45pm
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Just wanted to tell you congrats on the
baby!! It's hard at first but everything
will start to work out!! I get more and
more excited every day!! Telling your
parents is tough, but you got to do what
you got to do!!
Good luck hun and congrats again!! :)
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groomer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2004
Posts: 118
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Posted: 02-09-05 21:23pm
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Hey girl. Congrats on your baby. :) I
was also 17 when I found out I was
pregnant, and the father and I are not
together anymore. If you need anything,
or just want to talk, my email is: lhs_cheerchick_2004@hotmail.Com.
:)
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scared_to_breath
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Dec 2004
Posts: 43
Location: Calgary, Alberta
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Posted: 02-10-05 01:19am
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Thanks everyone. You are all such a big
help. I'm going to the doctors tomorrow
with a friend, so i'll let you guys know
how it goes.
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PrplBabie8
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: California
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Posted: 02-13-05 01:53am
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Hi I just hope everything goes well for
you!
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