After 8 Months My B/f Admitts He's Cheated..... Posted: 02-08-05 09:54am
I thought we were perfect, I always told
him the truth, and I beileved w/out a
doubt he was honest with me too. But now
that he went to jail, he claims he's seen
the light, and that he's changing all his
ways. He's told me about drugs he's done
while we were dating and before he lied
about it and so when we were on the phone,
he said jessica go ahead and ask me
anything you've ever thought I lied to you
about. So the big one came up and I asked
if he'd ever cheated on me. And there was
a slight pause and then he said the first
week we went out he had sex with a girl we
both know and I hate, he said at first he
didn't know he would love me so much. And
after he'd already done it, that he
couldnt take it back and he'd already fell
in love with me, but at the time he said
he thought I was just going to be another
1 week g/f. But we fell in love and I
love him but should I stay w/ him even if
he told me the truth?
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-08-05 10:12am
Of course you should stay with him. The
first week??? Why would you leave for
that? The reason I would leave is b/c
he's in jail, depending on why he's there.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-08-05 10:14am
Ooooh. Nevermind. I just read some of
your other posts. Yeah, now would be a
good time to leave him. Move on, and
find a man who's going to treat you like
gold.
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Sweetestgrl0717
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 8 Location: U.S.A
Yeah Posted: 02-08-05 11:37am
Yeah. I would leave him now better than
later.. I think the fact that he cheated
on you the first week isnt such a big deal
but after what it seems like he has done..
You should move on.. And I think it
would be easier since he is in jail
because he wont come to your house and all
that other stuff... Why is he in jail?
You should be with someone who can come to
you when you need him.. Be there for you
at all times.. Not be like on when I get
out I will be there for you.. And I dont
really know him or anything but a lot of
guys who say they have changed.. Im sorry
sweety they havent.. Thats my point of
view...
Well good luck and keep me posted.. No
one knows what is best for you only you!!!
:lol:
