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BrianBaby

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Joined: 19 Jan 2005
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Posted: 02-08-05 13:30pm

::sigh::

somedays I just feel soo excited about my pregnancy and I just can't wait and i'm just all positive about it....But today, i've just been really sad and a little depressed about it.....I live in a dorm and I got a new roomate for this semester~she's really cool, but we don't talk that much....I havn't told her i'm pregnant yet, and half the people here don't know either....I don't know how to tell her, and I know i'm getting bigger by the day.....Noone else here is pregnant, so i'm gonna start sticking out like a sore thumb.....Sometimes I just feel really embarrased and that everyones just like looking at me and talking behind my back........Boo
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l2at24

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Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509

Posted: 02-08-05 13:51pm

Hey girl. I can imagine how you feel. I had babies young. Before all my friends. And i'm not friends with most of them now. And it's hard and it hurts. I'm sure everyone will be accepting. You are a sweet girl. And most of those girls could end up preg in worse situations so they don't have room to talk if they do.
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FISHX

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004
Posts: 920
Location: UK

Posted: 02-08-05 13:54pm

What anyone else think is thier problem just remember soon you will become the most important person in somebodys life............Can they say the same?
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BrianBaby

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Joined: 19 Jan 2005
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Posted: 02-08-05 17:16pm

Thanks guys! :)
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littlered

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Joined: 03 Jan 2005
Posts: 268

Posted: 02-08-05 17:30pm

Don't worry to much about what people think. I was taught that alot of people who talks about you is just jealous of you. It is up to you if you decide to tell your roommate.
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sftbllchika06

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004
Posts: 413
Location: St. Louis

Posted: 02-09-05 17:30pm

I know how you feel. Somedays I can't wait to have her and then other days I am thinking that I am crazy for doing this all by myself but in the end we will both have beatutiful babies in our arms and it will all be worth it.
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pinkbaby

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Joined: 09 Dec 2004
Posts: 618
Location: Arizona

Posted: 02-09-05 17:35pm

Your scared to think they look down on you, but some girl might be to scared to say she looks up to you. You are brave, maybe braver than alot of girls at your school, but you just dont know it. You should be proud and confident and not scared. If I was your roomate, I would have so many questions for you, maybe youll really bond through this. Do you have anything baby? Leave it around and when she asks about it be like "oh thats for my baby" ...It will strike up a conversation for sure.
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BrianBaby

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Joined: 19 Jan 2005
Posts: 1383

Posted: 02-09-05 18:04pm

I told her yesterday guys.....She was soo freaked out at first!! She thought I had just found out or something!! I've never felt soo bad in my life!! Then we started talking about it, and we ended up talking about it for like an hour! I know she's probably still a little shocked and freaked, but she's cool....I feel alot better knowing that she knows! My motto is "don't look down on someone unless your going to help them up" :)
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littlered

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Joined: 03 Jan 2005
Posts: 268

Posted: 02-10-05 09:53am

Glad to hear that your roommate is talking to you about it. And also glad that you got that worry off of you. You don't need a whole lot of stress on you.
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