somedays I just feel soo excited about my
pregnancy and I just can't wait and i'm
just all positive about it....But today,
i've just been really sad and a little
depressed about it.....I live in a dorm
and I got a new roomate for this
semester~she's really cool, but we don't
talk that much....I havn't told her i'm
pregnant yet, and half the people here
don't know either....I don't know how to
tell her, and I know i'm getting bigger by
the day.....Noone else here is pregnant,
so i'm gonna start sticking out like a
sore thumb.....Sometimes I just feel
really embarrased and that everyones just
like looking at me and talking behind my
back........Boo
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-08-05 13:51pm
Hey girl. I can imagine how you feel.
I had babies young. Before all my
friends. And i'm not friends with most
of them now. And it's hard and it hurts.
I'm sure everyone will be accepting.
You are a sweet girl. And most of those
girls could end up preg in worse
situations so they don't have room to talk
if they do.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
Posted: 02-08-05 13:54pm
What anyone else think is thier problem
just remember soon you will become the
most important person in somebodys
life............Can they say the same?
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-08-05 17:16pm
Thanks guys! :)
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-08-05 17:30pm
Don't worry to much about what people
think. I was taught that alot of people
who talks about you is just jealous of
you. It is up to you if you decide to
tell your roommate.
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 02-09-05 17:30pm
I know how you feel. Somedays I can't
wait to have her and then other days I am
thinking that I am crazy for doing this
all by myself but in the end we will both
have beatutiful babies in our arms and it
will all be worth it.
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 02-09-05 17:35pm
Your scared to think they look down on
you, but some girl might be to scared to
say she looks up to you. You are brave,
maybe braver than alot of girls at your
school, but you just dont know it. You
should be proud and confident and not
scared. If I was your roomate, I would
have so many questions for you, maybe
youll really bond through this. Do you
have anything baby? Leave it around and
when she asks about it be like "oh thats
for my baby" ...It will strike up a
conversation for sure.
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-09-05 18:04pm
I told her yesterday guys.....She was soo
freaked out at first!! She thought I had
just found out or something!! I've never
felt soo bad in my life!! Then we started
talking about it, and we ended up talking
about it for like an hour! I know she's
probably still a little shocked and
freaked, but she's cool....I feel alot
better knowing that she knows! My motto
is "don't look down on someone unless your
going to help them up" :)
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-10-05 09:53am
Glad to hear that your roommate is talking
to you about it. And also glad that you
got that worry off of you. You don't need
a whole lot of stress on you.
