I cant get the never to tell my parents im
pregant, what can I do? My bf is getting
mad because I havnt told them yet, I think
im around 8 or 9 weeks my last period was
arbout nov 22 or so and the test was
positive twice.
Help please
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robbiesgal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 45 Location: oklahoma
Posted: 02-08-05 16:56pm
How old are you??? Do they know that you
are sexually active
well your going to have to tell them
soon.. Bc your probably going to shown
some signs very soon....
Just remember that your parents may be mad
for a while... But they will and have to
accept it... The best idea I can tell you
on how to tell them... Invite your bf
over.. Tell your parents that you two
have something to say... And simply tell
them.. Hey we made a mistake... And your
pregnant... I know its going to kill ya..
And take you forever to do it... If you
dont feel comfortable about telling
them... You could alway write them a
letter... It might be a lil easier on
ya... Keep your head up... You definetly
dont want to stress right now....
Smile!!
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-08-05 17:10pm
Telling your parents is really hard....I
know!!! I had to tell my mom and dad.
Not fun. However, the mature responsible
thing to do is tell them. It's really
important that you get to a Dr. To make
sure everything is going okay. Good luck
hun!!!
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-08-05 17:39pm
You need to tell your parents. I know it
is scary but your parents will be there
for you no matter what.
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krissy_joe2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 18 Location: San Antonio TX
Posted: 02-09-05 06:24am
U should tell your parents I was scared to
tell mine to I was only 14 years old but
I had to they were mad for a while but
they got over it and now that I have my
son they love him to death.
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 02-09-05 17:23pm
Tell them and be prepared for them to
either cry or yell at you. Then talk
about it rationally after the initial
shock. Everything will be okay and
eventually they will grow to love the
baby.
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bobjohn1980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 8 Location: PA
Posted: 02-09-05 18:27pm
I know how you feel. I found out I was
pregnant right after I turned 18, by then
I was already 5 mths & I know that was
stupid b/c of prenatal care & all
(thank god my son was born perfectly
healthy) but I was scared and I guess in
denial. My mom took it alot better, my
dad not so good, but they got over it and
they both are very close to my son now.
He'll be six in a couple of months &
he's probably closer to some of my family
than I am. Tell them early, this way they
have longer to get over the shock &
they can enjoy the baby when he/she comes
!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 02-10-05 08:17am
I'm sorry hun but I dont support keeping
it from her at all. I got pregnant at 18
and when my parents found out they hated
me pure hatred yelling and screaming and
wanting an abortion the whole nine yards!
But they accept it now and are excited...
A baby changes everything especially if
your young! You need to face your fears
and tell them and get in to see a doc
asap! Hiding it from your parents isnt
fair to this new baby! And please get
some prenatals!
