Ummm I am a lesbian and I still want to
have a baby. I'm 14, 15 in 25 days, I
don't want to get pregnant young, but I
still want to have a baby at least and
yeah :(
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l2at24
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-09-05 08:47am
Okay, what's the question or problem? Or
did you just need to get that off your
chest? You'll have no problem having a
baby one day. Best bet would be in vitro
fertilization. You would pick a donor,
and use his sperm, and they would use your
eggs. Then implant the fertilized eggs
into your uterus. Don't worry or be sad
about it. Get through your young life
and when you're ready for a baby, you can
look into it.
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kye_kye
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Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-09-05 08:50am
Yeah I did need to get that off my chest
lol. Okay cool, i'm still thinking which
age would be best... What about when i'm
20? ^^
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l2at24
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-09-05 08:54am
20 is good. That's up to you. I would
recommend college (uni), and getting
yourself ready financially first. And
being in a loving, commited relationship.
Where both of you want a child and can go
through all of it together.
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kye_kye
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Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-10-05 03:46am
Okies cool :)
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Nikki n Rudy
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Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Posted: 02-10-05 06:50am
You also have plenty of time to go through
your phase and like men :-p
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kye_kye
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Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-10-05 22:57pm
Nah I don't like men ;) tee hee ^^
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-11-05 05:33am
Being a lesbian has nothing to do with
stopping you from having a child... But
14! Hunni no...
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-11-05 05:33am
I'm sorry but at 14 you dont even truly
know what you want in life... You think
you do but really you dont
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kye_kye
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Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-11-05 05:35am
*shrug*
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SamiNSunisMa
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Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
Posted: 02-11-05 05:49am
I had my first child at 14, I adore my
son, don't get me wrong, but I was not
ready. At 14, you deserve to shop, have
crushes, etc, etc. And btw, at 16 I was
convinced I was through with guys since I
couldn't be with my boyfriend, that I was
a lesbian, well turns out i'm not, I do
have feelings for women, but I am in a
happy relationship again with my fiance.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-11-05 05:52am
Yeah take it from hil! Shes a fantastic
mom but she knows the hard route to life!
