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kye_kye

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Hello
Posted: 02-09-05 08:43am

Ummm I am a lesbian and I still want to have a baby. I'm 14, 15 in 25 days, I don't want to get pregnant young, but I still want to have a baby at least and yeah :(
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l2at24

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Posted: 02-09-05 08:47am

Okay, what's the question or problem? Or did you just need to get that off your chest? You'll have no problem having a baby one day. Best bet would be in vitro fertilization. You would pick a donor, and use his sperm, and they would use your eggs. Then implant the fertilized eggs into your uterus. Don't worry or be sad about it. Get through your young life and when you're ready for a baby, you can look into it.
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kye_kye

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Posted: 02-09-05 08:50am

Yeah I did need to get that off my chest lol. Okay cool, i'm still thinking which age would be best... What about when i'm 20? ^^
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l2at24

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Posted: 02-09-05 08:54am

20 is good. That's up to you. I would recommend college (uni), and getting yourself ready financially first. And being in a loving, commited relationship. Where both of you want a child and can go through all of it together.
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kye_kye

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Posted: 02-10-05 03:46am

Okies cool :)
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Nikki n Rudy

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Posted: 02-10-05 06:50am

You also have plenty of time to go through your phase and like men :-p
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kye_kye

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Posted: 02-10-05 22:57pm

Nah I don't like men ;) tee hee ^^
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jessamyn

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Posted: 02-11-05 05:33am

Being a lesbian has nothing to do with stopping you from having a child... But 14! Hunni no...
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jessamyn

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Posted: 02-11-05 05:33am

I'm sorry but at 14 you dont even truly know what you want in life... You think you do but really you dont
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kye_kye

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Posted: 02-11-05 05:35am

*shrug*
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SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 02-11-05 05:49am

I had my first child at 14, I adore my son, don't get me wrong, but I was not ready. At 14, you deserve to shop, have crushes, etc, etc. And btw, at 16 I was convinced I was through with guys since I couldn't be with my boyfriend, that I was a lesbian, well turns out i'm not, I do have feelings for women, but I am in a happy relationship again with my fiance.
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jessamyn

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Posted: 02-11-05 05:52am

Yeah take it from hil! Shes a fantastic mom but she knows the hard route to life!
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kye_kye

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Posted: 02-11-05 06:03am

Okay cool
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