I liked this guy and then I had sex with
him, and we were having casual sex all
summer and then when summer ended we went
back to school, and I live 40 minutes away
from him, and I got pregnant and I didn't
tell him until november which was like a
month after I misscarried and I found out
that he has a girlfriend, and I can't
except that because he was dating her
while I was going through hell of being a
pregnant teen, and I am madly in love with
him, and can't get over him. Any
suggestions???
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 02-09-05 20:39pm
Wow, that was quite some time ago. I'm
glad you realize that what you need to do
is get over him, and not try to get him
back. I'm sorry to hear about the
miscarriage but i'm sure it was for the
better in the long run. However, don't
make the mistake of saying you're madly in
love with him when this is definately an
issue of infatuation.
There are many ways to get over someone,
however it seems like what you need to do
is find someone else to occupy your
attention. You need to move on, there
are many other guys out there... Find
someone that lives more local to you at
least.
Good luck,
justin
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prettygirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2005 Posts: 7 Location: canada
Posted: 02-10-05 12:26pm
Thanks thats is a good suggestion but I
don't like anyone else, I won't even look
at another guy, so it makes it hard to
move on, and date someone else
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Baroque
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 1
Posted: 02-10-05 13:07pm
You have to be strong and do all you can
to get over him. You will pass this
stage somehow and one day you'll be able
to look back and thank yourself for moving
on. If you start seeing him again, the
pain & your life will be worse.
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prettygirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2005 Posts: 7 Location: canada
Posted: 02-10-05 15:17pm
Yes I know, I don't see him but I talk to
him on msn sometimes, and yes your right
after every time I talk to him I keep
remembering all the fun times we had
together and then the pain starts all over
again, so yes I need to move on, it would
be for the best
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trinaoftexas
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Dallas area of Texas
Re: Can't Get Over Him Posted: 11-04-05 10:26am
prettygirl
wrote:
i liked this guy and then I
had sex with him, and we were having
casual sex all summer and then when summer
ended we went back to school, and I live
40 minutes away from him, and I got
pregnant and I didn't tell him until
november which was like a month after I
misscarried and I found out that he has a
girlfriend, and I can't except that
because he was dating her while I was
going through hell of being a pregnant
teen, and I am madly in love with him, and
can't get over him. Any
suggestions???
as harsh as this is going to sound it must
be said...Forget about this guy. If he
could be with you while having a
girlfriend then he is not willing to
commit to any one person. Once you have
sex with someone someone is going to catch
feelings, and you just happened to be that
person. He does not feel the same way and
there are plenty of other people out there
for you. Miscarriages are not a laughing
matter, but think of it as god's way of
sparing you from having a child by a man
who will not love you and may possibly not
have been there for the baby. That would
have been at least 18 years of heart ache
for you and now you can move on and be
smarter and wiser in your decisions to
date and have sex. So, hope that helps.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 11-04-05 16:33pm
prettygirl
wrote:
yes I know, I don't see him
but I talk to him on msn sometimes, and
yes your right after every time I talk to
him I keep remembering all the fun times
we had together and then the pain starts
all over again, so yes I need to move on,
it would be for the
best
you will get over him. I dated a guy for
two years..Lost my virgintiy to him and
everything and when we broke up I thought
I was going to die. I was very
depresssed and even had to go to a
therapist. You will be fine, it is going
to take time...But you will get over him.
It took me a year to get over my ex but I
did it and I am now married with a baby
boy. It doesn't sound like you knew this
guy for very long so it shouldn't take
very long to get over him. You'll be
fine....As long as you don't sit around
and think abut him all the time. Oh, and
you also gotta cut out the talking to him
on msn, it's not going to help.
