Help Please: Could I Be... ? Posted: 02-09-05 21:18pm
Hi there...
I was raped 2 weeks ago in a nightclub and
while he did use a condom, I have a
serious and urgent question: is it
possible for me to have gotten pregnant
from him rubbing his penis (and the
pre-cum) and then fingering me?
Here are my symptoms:
- period is 10 days late
- constant dizziness
- massive headache: it feels like someone
is squeezing my brain
- hot flashes/fever
please help me out if you can...
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-09-05 21:23pm
Your period being late is a sign of
pregnancy, but the other symptoms don't
really sound pregnancy related....
Did you go file a report and get checked
out by a dr?? You really should see a
Dr. Asap!
Good luck hun!!
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Tiffany0512
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2005 Posts: 135 Location: Maple Ridge, BC
Re: Help Please: Could I Be... ? Posted: 02-09-05 21:52pm
planetsleep
wrote:
hi there...
I was raped 2 weeks ago in a nightclub and
while he did use a condom, I have a
serious and urgent question: is it
possible for me to have gotten pregnant
from him rubbing his penis (and the
pre-cum) and then fingering me?
Here are my symptoms:
- period is 10 days late
- constant dizziness
- massive headache: it feels like someone
is squeezing my brain
- hot flashes/fever
please help me out if you
can...
i would go to the doctor to get a test
done. I hope everything work out for you.
Tiffany :)
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 02-09-05 22:09pm
Just a couple of questions for you sorry
hun but the same happened to me just not
at a night club
1st.. Did you report the rape?
2nd.. Did you go to the hospital for
cultures and a pap??
3d. Have you seen a doc.???
I know right now you probally dont feel
comfortable around anyone or anyone
touching you, but please make sure you
seek medical attention. And they would
have given you a morning after pill to
prevent preg.
Also to ans. Your question. I think it
could be a couple of things yes preg.
Could be one. Have you taken a preg.
Test yet if not go ahead and take one
since you are late. If it comes back neg.
Get to a doc to make sure that it is
nothing else ex. Std or anything else I
dont want to scare you but anything is
possible. Good luck hun.. And im here if
you need to talk.
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planetsleep
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-09-05 22:52pm
I tried to book a doctor's appt but
they're all full up today... I just
bought 2 pregnancy tests so next time I
pee, I will do one.
Tazzy ~ no, no and no.
It was my fault anyway, I was acting like
a promiscuous person and I just let it get
too far and then it was too late.
Thanks for your replies.. I will post any
developments here. =)
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 02-09-05 23:38pm
If you said no, then it is not your fault.
*ever* regardless of the situation. If
you said no, it was rape, regardless of
the situation. He takes the blame. It
is not wrong for you to change your mind,
it is wrong for him to continue when you
don't want it. Any way you look at it,
it was rape, and you were not at fault.
And a good advice after such a situation
is to go to the er. They should be able
to give you the emergency contraception,
just in case. They you won't have to
worry.
