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Q: I Need to Vent....
asked by: lil_blaze2004 on February 10th, 2005
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I'm so upset right now.
Ok here's the short version. I don't talk to my brother for a lot of reasons (he's a crack head and last year when I let him stay with me he pawned most of my electronic stuff and emptied my bank account and forged and bounced a bunch of checks to my landlord) I was on unemployment at the time so luckily a friend of mine got all my stuff out the pawn shop(the owner knows me and my stupid brother used my id to pawn it -duh) anyhoo a bunch of other stuff happened and my brother decided to go stay with my aunt in toronto. When I started getting all these forged, bounced checks in the mail I called over there to talk to him and she told me I was a b*tch and was just trying to cause trouble. (by the way my bro is 3 years younger than me he's 22) anyway I tried to tell my aunt what happened but she's an alcoholic and was actng a lil nutso. Anyhoo my bro stole her car and crashed it and took off. He also stole a bunch of money from her. Ok that's the short version of the story.
So now it's been about a year since I talked to either one and I told my mom I didn't want them knowing anything about what was going on in my life right now (i don't need crazy addicts in my life) well my mom sent me an e-mail last night saying she told my bro and my aunt that i'm pregnant and blah blah (my mom barely even talks to them in the first place cause of all this sh*t). I'm really pissed. I love my mom but what f-ing business is it of hers to tell people I didn't want knowing my sh*t!!!
Do I have a reason to be pissed????

Sorry so long.. Breathe jess breathe!!!!
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l2at24
replied on February 10th, 2005
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Yeah I would be upset too. Sorry you're going through all that girl. I hope your brother and aunt clean up one day. They are really going to miss out.
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FISHX
replied on February 10th, 2005
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Yes lil you have plenty of reason to be pissed of people need to earn a place in a childs life and by the sounds of it they have yet to do that.

I do hope that you can eventualy sort things out though because family is preciouse no matter how bad they seem at the minute.
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lil_blaze2004
replied on February 10th, 2005
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Well my mom called me to apologize.
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LeXiee
replied on February 10th, 2005
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I don't blame you being upset. They could cause you a lot of stress and that's no good.

But i'm sure your mom was just happy about the news. I don't think she was trying to get you upset.

Just shows how excited she is...So much so that she tells people she doesn't care much for.
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1stTimeMom2Be
replied on February 10th, 2005
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You have every reason in the book to be pissed....I got mad at my mom for tellin people too that I didnt want to know and stuff...But it wasnt anything like ur situation...Im sorry you had to go through all of that...I hope all gets better...Good luck hun...
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lil_blaze2004
replied on February 10th, 2005
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Eevrything is fine with my mom now. I'm just worried about my bro showing up on my doorstep but if he has any brain cells left he wont since he knows my bf and friends (who are mostly large men-lol) are pissed off with him too. Oh well. I love my mom and don't want this to ruin the good relationship we've built. Plus she lives on the other side of the country.
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1stTimeMom2Be
replied on February 10th, 2005
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Yeah me and my mom are fine and all but she really pissed me off when she did that....Hope ur brother doesnt show up...Wouldnt want him to be surrounded by a bunch of big guys...Lolz
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