I'm so upset right now.
Ok here's the short version. I don't
talk to my brother for a lot of reasons
(he's a crack head and last year when I
let him stay with me he pawned most of my
electronic stuff and emptied my bank
account and forged and bounced a bunch of
checks to my landlord) I was on
unemployment at the time so luckily a
friend of mine got all my stuff out the
pawn shop(the owner knows me and my stupid
brother used my id to pawn it -duh)
anyhoo a bunch of other stuff happened and
my brother decided to go stay with my aunt
in toronto. When I started getting all
these forged, bounced checks in the mail I
called over there to talk to him and she
told me I was a b*tch and was just trying
to cause trouble. (by the way my bro is 3
years younger than me he's 22) anyway I
tried to tell my aunt what happened but
she's an alcoholic and was actng a lil
nutso. Anyhoo my bro stole her car and
crashed it and took off. He also stole a
bunch of money from her. Ok that's the
short version of the story.
So now it's been about a year since I
talked to either one and I told my mom I
didn't want them knowing anything about
what was going on in my life right now (i
don't need crazy addicts in my life) well
my mom sent me an e-mail last night saying
she told my bro and my aunt that i'm
pregnant and blah blah (my mom barely even
talks to them in the first place cause of
all this sh*t). I'm really
pissed. I love my mom but what f-ing
business is it of hers to tell people I
didn't want knowing my sh*t!!!
Do I have a reason to be pissed????
Sorry so long.. Breathe jess breathe!!!!
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-10-05 09:33am
Yeah I would be upset too. Sorry you're
going through all that girl. I hope your
brother and aunt clean up one day. They
are really going to miss out.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
Posted: 02-10-05 09:45am
Yes lil you have plenty of reason to be
pissed of people need to earn a place in a
childs life and by the sounds of it they
have yet to do that.
I do hope that you can eventualy sort
things out though because family is
preciouse no matter how bad they seem at
the minute.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-10-05 09:48am
Well my mom called me to apologize.
Last edited by lil_blaze2004 on 02-10-05 10:21am; edited 1 time in total
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LeXiee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2004 Posts: 313 Location: Quebec
Posted: 02-10-05 10:13am
I don't blame you being upset. They
could cause you a lot of stress and that's
no good.
But i'm sure your mom was just happy about
the news. I don't think she was trying
to get you upset.
Just shows how excited she is...So much so
that she tells people she doesn't care
much for.
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1stTimeMom2Be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 466 Location: milwaukee, wi
Posted: 02-10-05 10:48am
You have every reason in the book to be
pissed....I got mad at my mom for tellin
people too that I didnt want to know and
stuff...But it wasnt anything like ur
situation...Im sorry you had to go through
all of that...I hope all gets
better...Good luck hun...
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-10-05 10:58am
Eevrything is fine with my mom now. I'm
just worried about my bro showing up on my
doorstep but if he has any brain cells
left he wont since he knows my bf and
friends (who are mostly large men-lol) are
pissed off with him too. Oh well. I
love my mom and don't want this to ruin
the good relationship we've built. Plus
she lives on the other side of the
country.
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1stTimeMom2Be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 466 Location: milwaukee, wi
Posted: 02-10-05 11:21am
Yeah me and my mom are fine and all but
she really pissed me off when she did
that....Hope ur brother doesnt show
up...Wouldnt want him to be surrounded by
a bunch of big guys...Lolz
