Kia, I can say I understand, I don't but
i'm trying!
On the foster care. I was put into foster
care and I .N.E.V.E.R was put back with my
aunt. I was put into foster care at 4. I
totally get that you don't want someone
else's child. I agree, adoption is
beautiful, but not for everyone. But if
you do decide to, remember this: jim's
mother was 35-40 when she adopted the
first of four boys, she had .N.O man in
her life and paid this all on a teacher's
salary. But really, whatever you think is
best .I.S best.