To want to be pregnant at the age of 14?
It's weird, I want to be, then again I
can't because i'm too young, and I don't
wanna stuff up my life. I've got lots of
years ahead of me and everything, if I had
a baby I wouldn't be able to do what I
want to. Anyone else like this?
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 02-10-05 23:16pm
To want to do something and to actually do
something are two very different things.
U can want to be pregnant all u want, just
don't actually do it til ur old enough and
secure enough to care for the baby. I
know when I was 15, my friend had a baby
and all I wanted to do was have one too,
but I knew I wasn't ready to do it full
time so I just got to take care of hers
for her whenever I wanted. So eventually
everyone just started calling him my baby
and the urge just kinda went away for a
bit. I mean, I still wanted one, but
taking care of him was enough for me at
the time. I knew I wasn't secure enough
or old enough to have one of my own. Just
wait til ur ready. U'll be glad u did (no
offense to max, or hil or ka, or any of
the other young mommies.)
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kye_kye
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-10-05 23:42pm
Yeah I will wait lol :)
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 02-10-05 23:47pm
Lol good call :)
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kye_kye
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Sydney
Posted: 02-10-05 23:52pm
Hehehe yeah ^____^
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 02-11-05 05:27am
Absolutely no! I wont even vent on you go
look up all the other posts with 14-15-16
yr olds wanting the same thign... No no
no!
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
Posted: 02-11-05 06:06am
Just don't ive been there done that! I
wouldn't trade my son for anything, but
the reality is, the hardships of having a
kid at 14 are not over now that he's 4 and
i'm 18. There are the stares from the
other mothers and whispers when they find
out I am his mother (even worse that I
look about 15). Also, the chances of
having a preemie are high, my first one
was 33.5 wks along, and had few problems.
But my daughter was born at nearly 30 wks
and she will be in the hospital up until
wednesday. (its been 5 wks already).
This is reality, I wouldn't trade my son,
but I do wish I had had him older.
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-11-05 07:58am
Not untill you are on your own and
finacially ready to support yourself and a
baby.....
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redsugar
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 140
Posted: 02-11-05 12:51pm
No not weird that you would like to have
one, but it would be wierd if you tried to
get pregnant. You've got a while before
you should think about kids...Enjoy
teenage years!
