Urgh im sitting here really needing to
talk where is everyone.......... I hate
life so much right about now
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-13-05 18:40pm
Tazzy d. I am on here. Tell me what is
wrong. Maybe I can help.
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-13-05 19:25pm
I hate sunday nights to. I know why I
hate sunday nights it is because on sunday
my hubsand leaves to go down to his
sister's so that way he can go to class on
monday. That is why I hate sunday nights.
At least for right now.
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-13-05 20:48pm
I'm here, at least for a little bit
now....Feel better tazzy :)
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
Posted: 02-14-05 09:49am
Ok I just went to bed sorry I missed you
guys.. I really needed to talk last
night. Ok heres the story.. My mom just
came home and she is really getting on my
nerves and I have told her to mind her
business but she wont. Btw.. She is
pissed at james and making it harder than
it all ready is. She says that james is
there for his kids and not my 3 oldest and
she doesnt like that. She says as long as
he lives in this house he should be here
for them all. Now I know that dont you
think duh.. But how do you make a man
thats not there dad be there dad.. He has
to do that, and as long as she is forcing
him or acting an ass its going to push him
away not help... Opinions please.. I
really need help
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littlered
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 268
Posted: 02-14-05 11:24am
First of all you need to think of it this
way. Is just worried about her daughter
and grandkids. All mothers are like that.
Second is james the father of your three
oldest. If he isn't there is some man who
think that they shouldn't take care of
another man's kids. And if he is tell him
that you love him but you just take it no
more. He can either be there for you and
his kids or he can leave. Yes I know it
would be hard. And I know you love him
but you don't need a man around that is
going to do that. And tell your mom that
if she wants to keep seeing her grandkids
she needs to quit forceing you or james to
do something that you don't want to do.
Now these are just my opinions. But I
hoped I helped some
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
Posted: 02-14-05 12:05pm
littlered
wrote:
first of all you need to
think of it this way. Is just worried
about her daughter and grandkids. All
mothers are like that. Second is james
the father of your three oldest. If he
isn't there is some man who think that
they shouldn't take care of another man's
kids. And if he is tell him that you
love him but you just take it no more.
He can either be there for you and his
kids or he can leave. Yes I know it
would be hard. And I know you love him
but you don't need a man around that is
going to do that. And tell your mom that
if she wants to keep seeing her grandkids
she needs to quit forceing you or james to
do something that you don't want to do.
Now these are just my opinions. But I
hoped I helped some
ive all ready done all this. And to ans.
Your question no he isnt the father to the
three oldest. We have 2 children in
common and the one im preggo with now. He
also has 2 other children that he pays
child support for. I understand where he
is coming from saiying why should I have
to do everything when there real father
doesnt help at all. I dont get child
support at all from there father. Im just
confused right now and dont know what to
say or do. I understasnd my mom is
looking out for all of us, but there is a
limit and damn has she passed it
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-14-05 12:18pm
Tazzy, I wish I could give you some great
advice, but i'm usually not good at stuff
like this. All I can say is that while
your mom is worried about you and her
grandkids, adding pressure to the
situation isn't going to help. Noone can
make james love the children that are not
his. It's a shame that he dosn't if
that's the case, but maybe it will take a
little working at. Have you tried
counseling or anything like that?? It's
hard on everyone....I wish you the best of
luck hun!!! :)
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