Should I Let Her Give Birth Even Tho Its Risky For Her 2 Die Posted: 02-17-05 00:41am
Ok see my fiance is pregnant like 2 some
months with my child but she said that on
her first Dr.S visit the nurse said that
her life is a question during givin birth
of my child she could live she may
not.....But she wont tell me why her life
is in danger and im really worried I love
her more than anything im 17 shes 17 we
both will be 18 before this kid is born
but im really worried because I love this
child as well its my first shes the first
girl ive ever slept with shes the girl im
going to marry but she wont tell me yet
why her life is in danger I mean I ask her
over and over again why are you in
danger??? But she gets all mad and there
for I just leave it alone till lata and
get her back in a good mood please ppl who
ever is well educated in the pregnant area
please try to tell me what it is that can
take her life from me I can not live with
out her she means the world to me.....Plz
some one help me out......I love her so
much...
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2004 Posts: 407 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-17-05 10:08am
Um.....I see no reason as to why she won't
tell you. To me that sounds like she
might be fooling you to make you stay
around. I mean she might be fearing that
your'e going to run on her and what not.
I mean why won't she go through with a
c-sectoin then? That's not giving birth
vaginally....But cutting through the
stomach muscles and what not to get the
baby out that way. Which is what a dr
would recommend in this type of situation
i'm sure. I have heard of women dying
during labor....But how it sounds this
girl is playing you for a fool or she's
just messed up in the head.
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sarahk
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 108 Location: England
Posted: 02-17-05 10:40am
Well either there is somthing wrong with
her and she's upset and doesnt want to
talk....Or she maybe doesnt really want to
have this baby?!
I dunno...The only way to understand whats
she's going through is by talking to her.
Reasure her youre not going anywhere, that
you love her and the baby and just want to
know whats going on.
Good luck
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Nikki n Rudy
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Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Posted: 02-17-05 14:20pm
Maybe shes not really pregnant and this is
her way of 'getting out of it'
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-17-05 14:25pm
If you guys are planning on being married
she should not be keeping any secrets from
you. Especially one as big as this.
Try and talk to her to find out what's
really going on.
If doctor's really thinkthere is a problem
with the way the birth will be, they would
have given her a list of options. It all
sounds a lil fishy to me.
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Tazzy D
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 02-17-05 14:40pm
So she has seen a doc.. Why dont you go
with her to the next appt. And ask the
doc. Yourself if she wont say anything to
you. If they feel that the mother is in
danger and she is this early in preg.
They will tell her that she needs to
terminate the preg. I think she should be
able to tell you. You are the father and
you do have a right to know. Good luck
and keep us updated. Ttys
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 02-18-05 18:43pm
Unless you are married, her doctor
can't/won't tell you what is wrong with
her. It is illegal.
She will tell you when she is ready, but
in the meantime, why not look up some
health reasons as to why the mother would
be in danger. Maybe you can figure it
out that way and ask her. Then, since
you already know, or have some idea, maybe
she will just tell you. Good luck.
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crashjammin
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 3 Location: West Virginia
Be Patient Posted: 02-18-05 21:13pm
Just be patient. Remember her hormones
are pulling her in many different
directions right now. She is probably
more scared of just being pregnant than
anything else. Try reassuring her and
keeping her relaxed. Once she believes
that you are in it for the long run, she
will probably tell you what the problem
is.
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neeko177
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 427
Posted: 02-18-05 23:29pm
I would tell her u want to go to her next
dr appointment with her... Or proof she
is pregnant.. If she refuses either to
you im sorry to say I would start to be
suspicious of what was going on.. Cuz I
know id want my man with me at the
doctors, and if I was carrying his child I
would definately tell him why my life was
in danger... But who knows, she just mite
need sum time to think too, but she
shouldnt leave u worrying
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-19-05 04:30am
You need to know and go to a doctor appt
with her and find out everything... C
section? Would that inflict danger as
well?
