Hey everyone....... I was reading some of
your girls questions and respones and i'm
in the same situation of many of you and
you girls seemed like you could help me
out a lot. Im 15 and I think that im
pregnant. I cant talk to my friends
because I dont want them to look down upon
me. Me and my boyfriend did a stupid
thing that I regret. We had unprotected
sex. He did pull out but I know that it
doesn't always prevent pregnancy. I was
supposed to get my period yesterday but it
never came. I dont know what to do, im
scared, confused, and most of all I dont
want to tell my parents. I dont have a
good realtionship with my mom I cant talk
to her about anything, so I moved in with
my dad and I can talk to him. Im scared
and being a teen mom but im very scared
about disappointing my dad. Plez help me.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-02-03 02:49am
Hi kay,
please don't worry yourself just yet, your
period was only due 1 day ago. If you
worry about it, this will just delay your
period, then you will be even more
worried. You could take a home pregnancy
test if that would make you feel a little
better. Now that you are sexually active,
maybe it would be a good time to talk to
your doctor about getting some birth
control pills. Don't forget to use
condoms to, you don't want to be catching
any of those nasty std's that are rampant
in our communities now days.
Sweetie,
calm down. Give it a few more days and
then, if you don't get your peroid you
need to tell someone, or get an at home
test and check things out. And next time,
if this is just a scare, please use
protection.
Love,
chanda
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prettychicky99
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2003 Posts: 21 Location: Wisconsin
Hey Its Ok Posted: 11-02-03 14:27pm
Hello
im 19 I ve had 2 kids already and trust me
its not fun telling your parents .. Dont
worry they will sorta be happy and sorta
be mad but in the end they forgive you and
give you and the baby all the love and
support youll need
hayley
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-02-03 20:24pm
Hey sweetie,
well I didnt tell my parents until I was
almost 3 months yah....My mom called me a
doing it tramp and a bunch of other
stuff....She is trying to make me give my
baby up for adoption......Im 17 and my
boyfriend is 20....If you tell your
friends and you really think they are
going to down on you then they arent
really your friends....You need to calm
down b/c if you stress your period will
miss altogether or be really late...Its
only been a day calm down and it about 4
more days if its still late take a test in
the morning when your hgc level (hormone
in pregnant woman) is high if its negative
take another one a week later if its still
negative you could still be pregnant and
that when you would have to go to a
doctor...You could go to planned
parenthood or any family practice center
in your community without your parents
having to know I really think you should
tell your boyfriend he needs to know that
way you can at least tell someone and have
some kind of support!!! If you need
anything else dont hesitate to pm me!!
Good luck! Keep us posted!!Much love and
god bless!!!
Jen
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 11-03-03 02:02am
Jen, hayley, chanda, you are all such
wonderful and caring people. Your
responses are so supportive, and it's so
comforting to know there are people like
you guys left in the world. Sometimes
when we have problems, all we need is to
get some feedback from others who have
been or are going through the same thing.
Just to know your not alone really means
something to someone who feels like they
are drowning in problems by themselves.
You are all great.
