Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 45 Location: Minnesota, USA
Anal Sex? Posted: 02-20-05 12:53pm
My boyfriend really wants to try anal sex.
I am ok with that, or eventually will
be....But does anyone have any tips about
the best way to go about it and what it
feels like, for both sexes?
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mic0hell0e
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2004 Posts: 24
Posted: 02-20-05 19:49pm
Depending on the position, and force, it
varies.
As sick as it may sounds, I prefer the
whole "doggy style" position, because it
makes it less awkward for me.
Make sure he goes very slow at first, so
you can decide whether or not it's going
to hurt you. Sometimes i'm fine with it,
and other times it'll really hurt me, but
thats usually because he's being retarded
and "jumping right in".
Anyway, i've heard a lot of women say they
have their best orgasms durign anal sex.
I, for one, haven't had an orgasm during
it, but I do enjoy it. It feels so
different (when it's not painfully
uncomfortable) and if your man is giving,
theres tons of opportunity to get some
wicked clit stimulation.
Just make sure you go slow, change condoms
if you're going to go back and forth from
vaginal to anal, or stop and wash up if
you're not using a condom (you can spread
bacteria and get an infection I hear), and
use lots of lube.
Remember, this place was originally an
exit, not an entrance, you gotta' be
careful
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neeko177
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 427
Posted: 02-20-05 19:52pm
The first time I did it I didnt like the
feeling but was "toughing" it out cuz my
bf obvioulsy did lol... So it sounds
stupid, but if its painful and awkward
dont back out rite away give it sum time..
Cuz it feels really good after a little
bit, well for me if my bf touches my clit
and stuff.. Thats amazing
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ScaredBaka
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2004 Posts: 175
Posted: 02-21-05 01:09am
My boyfriend suggested that we try anal
sex (since I refuse to have real
intercourse with him out of fear of
becoming pregnant), and I agreed to try it
because I know how much of a horny pervert
he is :lol:
the first time we tried it in the classic
"doggy style" position but it hurt me like
crazy because it was a bad angle. I've
only ever enjoyed anal sex on 2 occasions
- one position was me laying on my side
with my boyfriend right behind me, and the
other was me on my back, with my boyfriend
sitting between my legs.
I always make him use lots of lubricant
and a condom when he does this. As
everyone has said, when it comes to anal
sex, caution needs to be taken. Things
were not intended to enter the anus, so it
will hurt if you're rough. You need lots
and lots of lubricant, and patience. Take
it very slowly until you're relaxed enough
to handle the feeling, because if you
tense up it will hurt like no other pain
you've ever felt before. But sometimes
even that is not enough...My boyfriend
does all that (sometimes) and I will wind
up in tears because of the pain. I was
not scared or tense, but it hurt.
The bottom line, though, is
experimentation. Give it a shot,
utilizing everyone's information, and see
how you like it. Best of luck to you!
...............
Scaredbaka
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rwia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 2 Location: VA
Anal Posted: 02-26-05 09:49am
Just take ur time and go slow. Make sure
he eases into you s-l-o-w-l-y, so he
doesn't tear anything. You need
lubrication (k-y or some anal ease).
When you are receiving him try and bear
down like you are going to the bathroom --
this opens you up so to speak to ease the
penis in to you. The important thing is
to take your time. Obviously it is
tighter then the vagina and this may cause
your guy to try and speed up the action.
My wife just tells me to s-l-o-w down.
Feels good.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-01-05 02:34am
Be careful! This can cause several
problems. Your butt is an exit, not an
entrance and you can get hemmoroids,
infections, colon cancer, etc. It is up
to you, of course, but you have to be very
careful, and weight the pros and cons for
you.
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carolyn69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2005 Posts: 1 Location: usa
Re: Anal Sex? Posted: 03-12-05 21:01pm
mdw2004
wrote:
my boyfriend really wants to
try anal sex. I am ok with that, or
eventually will be....But does anyone have
any tips about the best way to go about it
and what it feels like, for both
sexes?
take it nice and slow, always use a good
lube, like "wet" or astroglide. It may
not be easy the first time but for us it
just keeps getting better. I have some of
the most extreme orgasms with anal. Be
safe.
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Janae22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2005 Posts: 2 Location: michigan
Dont Go From Ass to vagina Posted: 03-21-05 01:19am
You will get an infection go from vagina
to ass only
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rabiddustbunnie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Mar 2004 Posts: 73 Location: PA, USA
Posted: 03-21-05 21:16pm
Take it reeeeeeaaaal slow hun and make
sure he uses lots of lubricant and wears a
condom, like others have said. If it
hurts too much, don't continue with it.
I happen to enjoy anal sex quite a bit (it
feels much different than regular
intercourse, at least to me anyway), but
giving in to anal sex resulted in my
boyfriend wanting it really often, when
i'd rather just have it occasionally....
Sigh. So be careful that you don't
create a monster . ;)
nicole
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-21-05 21:35pm
P.S. Don't feel badly if you don't like
it and don't be afraid to tell him that
was a one time thing. It isn't for
everyone (i for one would never let it
happen to me and wouldn't be with anyone
who wanted it either). It is very
unsanitary and dangerous to your health
also, so once again weight the pros and
cons!
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