I had a total hysterectomy 15 years ago.
Recently, when boyfriend tries to penetrat
I have extreme pain and bleeding. It
feels like razor blades.
We've tried lubricants and different
positions, nothing helps. Please help,
my relastionship is on the line. Thank u!
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Mia_hurt Posted: 02-21-05 20:46pm
Hi there! I am no Dr., my advice to you
is to go see a Dr., it could be scar
tissue, their could be hardening in the
walls or lining you might need a d&c,
it is not a bad thing, it will help you,
and it might be something else but you
should get checked out. I feel that if
this is all your relationship is about
then it does not sound like it is a very
good relationship, especially if he is
hurting you.
Sincerely,
sandy
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 02-22-05 15:58pm
If your hyst was 15 years ago it is
unlikely to have any effect on current
penetration.
My guess is that if you had your hyst that
long ago that you are likely to be near
menopause age.
Menopause is a common factor in difficulty
in penetration.
See your doctor as they may prescribe hrt
or oestrogen based creams to help with
this issue!
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 02-23-05 00:15am
Hello there! Kia, I am not trying to
hammer you or anything, but once you have
a complete hysterectomy, you will
automatically go into menopause, I know
this for a fact.
You really need to see your Dr.
Sincerely,
sandy
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 02-23-05 15:55pm
Actually sandy no you won't.
I had my hysterectomy last year. Not all
total hysterectomies include a double
oophrectomy as well. With out the
oophrectomy you will still have your
ovaries. Many women keep their ovaries so
they do not need hrt.
I am not menopausal and neither are many
of the ladies who frequent the same
hysterectomy support site as myself.
A total hysterectomy means they remove the
cervix as well as the uterus. I retained
my cervix so my hysterectomy was a sub
total hysterectomy.
You can have an oophrectomy of one or both
ovaries and not have a hysterectomy.
Everyone is right, you need to see your
doctor. It may be lesions or cysts if
you still have your ovaries. There is no
reason that a woman should have to
participate in uncomfortable sex. Try
different positions so that penetration
isn't as deep( if you haven't already).
Do you smoke? This dries out your
natural lubrication. Do you douche?
This is a terrible thing to do for your
vaginal walls. No matter, you need a
pelvic exam and an answer from a doctor.
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Vicki76
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Ontario
Posted: 01-28-06 23:45pm
Hi mia, I know someone who had similar
symptoms as you describe and it turned out
that years after her hysto her bladder
fell a bit and was pushing on her vaginal
wall causing pain and bleeding during
inetercourse. I have also found out since
my hysto 11 weeks ago that this is not a
normal occurance for every woman who has a
hysto that it all depends on how strong
your bladder is to begin with. But it may
be worth checking out anyway. :d
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 01-29-06 00:02am
kia_breizzze
wrote:
actually sandy no you
won't.
I had my hysterectomy last year. Not all
total hysterectomies include a double
oophrectomy as well. With out the
oophrectomy you will still have your
ovaries. Many women keep their ovaries
so they do not need hrt.
I am not menopausal and neither are many
of the ladies who frequent the same
hysterectomy support site as myself.
A total hysterectomy means they remove the
cervix as well as the uterus. I retained
my cervix so my hysterectomy was a sub
total hysterectomy.
You can have an oophrectomy of one or both
ovaries and not have a
hysterectomy.
correct-- I thought mine was a partial til
I research it,. They took cervix and
uterus called total hysterectomy, and
remooved one tube---leaving both of my
ovaries, and 1 tube.
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Jermann
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Oregon
Posted: 01-29-06 12:12pm
I too have had a total hysterectomy about
10 years ago. In my state naturopathic
physicians are liscensed just like m.D.'s.
I had no sex life and gained a lot of
weight - where I was never over weight
before. My doctor put me on natural
progesterone, which if you can not find a
doctor to prescribe it ( for most m.D.'s
are ignorant to it's benefits.) it can
also be purchased in any health food store
as a cream. Find john lee m.D. Site and
read about it. It is wonderful stuff.
Also I used tiny amounts of testosterone.
My doctor also said once one is menopausal
either from normal aging or surgical
menopause. It is helpful to use
testosterone because the utereus still
produces this hormone in tiny amounts
which help women to have a sex drive after
menopause.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 01-30-06 15:40pm
Ladies why are we bringing *old* posts
back up again?
