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prettychicky99
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2003
Posts: 21
Location: Wisconsin
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I Really Need to Let My Feelings Out Help Me!!!!
Posted: 11-02-03 16:35pm
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Hi
3 months ago I was raped by my fiancee
and we were happy until I didn't want more
kids ... I have 2 , why more? He got
pissed off and was felling me out then
told me to take off my clothes then he was
rubbing his penis on me , then it
happened just like, that I was crying and
was hurt. My loving fiancee was gone.
Last night I was talking to him about
while we were eating and he said I wanted
it.. I didnt I was just about to get my
tubes tied in a week or so.... Im only 19
but I don't want anymore.. About 3 days
ago I went to my doctor told him what
happened and gave me " oh im sorry" any
guy who says im sorry to a raped 19 year
old girl is a jerk... With a capital
j....
Hayley 
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 11-02-03 19:20pm
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So now u were raped by ur fiancee?
Hmmmmmm.......I thought u were married. I
think you need to get ur story straight.
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 11-02-03 19:29pm
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I totally agree kissy-think I smell caca
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 11-02-03 20:18pm
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I also thought she was raped 3 days
ago...
But ya know what would I know, being as
that I am just a teen mom so I must not
see the obvious! 
much love
-jessika-
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-03-03 13:43pm
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I think shes making this up. But why?
You listened to him, so he didnt force
you. You can say no. And you didnt
report it. But you still love your
fiance? So was it rape or did you just
not want it? You say 3 days ago, you dont
want no more kids, but your 3 months
pregnant?
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 11-03-03 23:18pm
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I didn't actually think surgeons would tie
someones tubes if they are only 19 ?
Don't you have to be like over 30 or
something before they will consider that
procedure ?
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 11-04-03 10:49am
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I dont believe her, I wouldnt be eating
with someone who raped me that is stupid,
I would be somewhere else, a safe shelter
if I had to. Anywhere but there. And
suzy, I am on your side all the way but to
answer your question you can get your
tubes tied at 18...Laws are crazy...Boob
jobs at 18....Uahh!!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 11-04-03 11:14am
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What kind of crazy ass doctor wud tie the
tubes of a 19yr old? He needs 2 be
sued!!!! Any lawyers in the house?!!!
:d
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CrombieChic16
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Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 745
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Posted: 11-04-03 12:21pm
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Ok, first she's 21, then shes 19, then it
was her daughter who wrote the stories,
then shes married, but wait now its her
fiancee, then she was raped by him....Then
she said she was in school and had to do a
report on teen moms....Hm, ok obviously
this "girl" has some confusion going on in
her head...Anyway to get her outta here?
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-04-03 13:07pm
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Suzy,
i think you have to be at least 24 or 25
to tie your tubes because my sister looked
into it, cuz she wants her tubes tied but
they said she has to wait until that age.
Shes 17 so she has a long time to wait!
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 11-04-03 22:31pm
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Wow nikki, yeah I wasn't sure what the age
was but my sister is in the same boat.
She is 27, has 3 kids and it is only now
that the doctors have even been willing to
discuss it with her.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-05-03 12:15pm
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Oh. Well thats what they said here in
calif.Because my sister is at risk if she
gets preggy again, which I doubt will
happen because she hates men. Like really
hates me. Its funny. Shes teaching the
baby to say dead-beat. Shes that bad!
Hahaha
so your sis is getting it too? Well yeah,
3 kids is good. Jose wants 10! Shoot me!
Im going for 4 like my mom.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 11-05-03 21:44pm
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 oh
my goodness, 10 kids. Whoaaa !! Ya, I
think 4 kids would be lovely, a nice
comfortable sized family. Ya well, I
nearly ended up the same way as your sis,
I had a real bad experience with my last
boyfriend and was convinced I would not
bother getting close to anyone ever again,
until I met hubby and I now know it is all
going to be just fine. He is the sweetest
person I have ever met. So he has given
me back my belief that some men can
actually be caring and beautiful people.
Good luck to your sis, she sounds like she
has had a rough time.
Suzy
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 11-06-03 11:43am
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Hey,
thats great you found your hubby! Im
happy to have found jose too! Hes like
the sweetest thing! He always wants to
cuddle and stuff! But ive been with some
bad guys. I was happy to be single then
I met jose. Sometimes I wish I could be
single again but then I dont want to be
without jose. I dont know its weird! But
good luck to you! My sis is getting along
well too. Shes strong!
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dyingbaby22
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003
Posts: 12
Location: Michagan
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That Is Soooo Funny
Posted: 11-08-03 08:01am
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Prettychick .. Is totally a health
question. Anyone agree. She has told
many lies and is very dumb if she really
is 19.. Hmmm..
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Re: That Is Soooo Funny
Posted: 11-08-03 10:34am
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| dyingbaby22
wrote: | | prettychick .. Is totally
a health question. Anyone agree. She
has told many lies and is very dumb if she
really is 19..
Hmmm.. |
i thought you knew she wasnt 19...Veery
fishy and quite petty
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Posted: 11-08-03 13:52pm
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Lol dying baby, looks like tanya caught
you out. Nice one tanya, I didn't even
catch onto that until you pointed it out.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 11-09-03 00:41am
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Wow this is not a good thing - I think I
missed some of the first convos about this
but whatevers going on isnt support which
if ya read the name its a (caps) support
forum! And if whoever wrote this happens
to not be real. Sweetie don't even
pretend to be something ur not ok, if
you've got a good life goin and everything
then why would you want to be like some of
us who are sooooo young and have children
its not the fairy tale life you think so
stick to your own world and do something
productive with you life! 
Good luck~melissa
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Staylor
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2005
Posts: 93
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Why?
Posted: 08-14-05 22:14pm
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Prettychicky or whatever you name is ...
I have been reading through all your posts
thinking about what an awful person you
were and how much help you did need to be
faking and leading so many people on...
But I was just going to let it go until I
read this one! I just wanted to comment
so that everyone could see and not just
you because I am sure you dont care.
Rape ! Is not something to joke about.
This is a something that happens to women
everyday and every day another woman's
life is destroyed. It takes women
several years to get over something like
rape if ever. I wish that people like
you could just feel the pain of being
raped and not the act but the aftermath of
a woman who has been raped. Every night
I am scared to death to walk to my car, to
walk to my apartment, to live in my
apartment-- without someone else there for
fear that it will happen again.
Sometimes I am afraid of even living--- it
is people like you that makes the cops and
doctors treat women like they treated me
with such disbelief and cold attitudes
until they proved that yes this did
happen. Now let me explain again I would
never wich rape upon anyone but for you to
experience the pain and cold fear of my
everyday -- even just a glimpse then you
would understand the horror and hurt that
your post has caused me and I am sure
every other woman. Please as a health
forum support community do not take this
woman into account and now assume that
every woman lies about being raped because
it is women like her that make this world
disbelieve victims like me.
I am truly sorry if you are telling the
truth and would advise you to get
counseling-- but I have a hard time
beleiving you due to all your other posts.
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seksiHily
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Joined: 04 Apr 2005
Posts: 1015
Location: MN
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Posted: 08-15-05 01:31am
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Not to be rude, but she stopped coming
over a year ago. You should know that,
you'd have to go way bay to find this post
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