Omg Please Help Me Please 3 Months And Im Now Really Scared! Posted: 02-22-05 02:57am
Please ppl who are reading this please
help me is there any dieseases out there
that could kill my fiance while my fiance
is giving birth to my child...I jusut hope
I dont have aids or hiv or anything else
like that (sexually transmitted) cuz im to
young to die let alone her (were both 17)
ooooo please some one help me please im
freaking out.......What can it be that can
kill my fiance please some one help :!:
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l2at24
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Posted: 02-22-05 07:12am
Are you the one that your fiance won't
tell you what's wrong with her? I'm sure
she's fine, don't let her get you so
crazy. If this baby is seriously
threatening her life, they will more than
likely abort the baby. If this isn't the
guy i'm thinking it is, if you are
concerned about hiv get tested. If you
both have hiv it's not going to kill her
during childbirth, but she could pass it
to the baby. Let me just say that the
stats are higher for something not being
right with the baby, than her dying while
in labor. Take care and chill out.
It's going to be okay.
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BrianBaby
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Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
Posted: 02-22-05 07:45am
If your concerned about sexually
transmitted diseases and hiv go to planned
parenthood or a clininc around your home,
and get tested yourself.....It's important
you take care of your health too you
know?? Secondly, ask to go to the
doctors with and try and get to the bottom
of what she is saying will "kill"
her......I don't know what's up with this
girl...
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redsugar
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Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Posts: 140
Posted: 02-22-05 09:00am
Didn't you say in the other forum that she
is the first girl you've ever slept with?
It's probably rare that you have hiv
unless you have slept w/ boys? Or unless
you share needles or have had a blood
transfusion, or had it at birth which you
would prob. Know about, then I doubt you
have aids. In my pregnancy book it
doesn't say that there is any type of
std's that could kill the mother during
birth, their are certain ones that she
could have to have a c-section, but that's
all. You just need to ask her what's
wrong w/ her. But I think she's just
scared you will leave her so she's saying
this. If you are planning to marry this
girl then she should be able to tell you
what's wrong w/ her!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-22-05 09:40am
I talked to him and he said that she is
the first girl hes slept with where as
shes had a few partners...
Hun you need to go get checked out i'm
sorry I scared you by bringing up diseases
ijust hate that this girl isnt being open
and honest with you!
I like want to talk to her! Can I call
her!? Pretend i'm your cousin or
something!
3 months? How many appts has she had?
Have you gotten to go to any of them yet?
Do your parents know? Do hers? Are you
guys insured?
Go get checked out hunnie just to ease
your mind... Call in and make an appt...
Ppl do it every day... If your scared
about what they will think of you say its
for a school project or something
lemme know and you have my email and are
more than welcome to email me agian!
<3 jess
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-22-05 10:11am
At her first appt. The doctor will do
blood testsand pap smear to check for any
stds or hiv, so i'd not worry too much.
I'd sit down and talk to your girl and see
whats really going on with her. All of
this sounds very weird to me. There is
less than a 1% chance of her dying while
giving birth. I have hemophilia and my
docs are not worried about me giving brth.
I am being followed by a hemotologist to
see if i'll need to have blood on hand or
anything but i'm not too worried. Talk
to her. Good luck!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-22-05 11:19am
Shes already gone to like 2 appts but wont
let him go and wont tell him anything
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-22-05 11:27am
jessamyn
wrote:
shes already gone to like 2
appts but wont let him go and wont tell
him anything
i smell something fishy..... If she's
already gone to 2 appt, then she should
have her blood test results back and maybe
she has something and that's why. but even
if she had hiv (let's say worse case
scenario) she wouldn't die while giving
birth. Where do u guys live??
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-22-05 11:32am
Shes just not being honest with him and
hiding wayyyy too much thats why i'm
actually worried about him hes flipping
out!
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sarahk
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Joined: 26 Jan 2005 Posts: 108 Location: England
Posted: 02-22-05 11:40am
Hmmmmm does sound a bit odd to me. Do you
think maybe she's not actually pregnant
& thats why she wont let him go to
appointments? I dunno, when I was at
school ive seen girls that age play nasty
tricks on guys.
If I were you hun, stand your ground, if
she is pregnant tell her its your baby too
and you want to know whats going on.
But I do think theres somthing odd going
on here!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 02-22-05 11:48am
Ditto
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steen
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Posted: 02-22-05 12:56pm
No std, not even hiv will kill you just
because you are pregnant. The thinks
that kill pregnant women, other than
complications from the pregnancy itself
are things like heart disease in
particular. And unless something is
really odd here, young people don't get
live-threatening heart diseases..
Unless she has had something called
"pericarditis", "wolfe-parkinson-white
syndrome" a serious abdominal aortic
aneurism or very irregular heatbeat, or
perhaps something like lupus (which can be
controlled, by the way), I can't really
imagine any known lethal problem from the
pregnancy itself.
