How Do I Keep My Man From Getting It Somewhere Else Posted: 02-23-05 16:59pm
No sex...Ever again! How do I keep my man
from getting it somewhere else if I cant
and wont give it to him! Being pregnant
has completely taken away my sex drive, I
have tried but its so uncomfortable and I
hate the feeling.
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KandyPants
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2005 Posts: 18 Location: Texas
Posted: 02-23-05 17:05pm
The way I see it...You shouldn't have to
do anything to keep him from getting it
some where else. caca he's the one that
got you pregnant, he needs to deal with
the consequences!!! And if he truly
loves you and wants to be with you then he
wouldn't go looking somewhere else to get
some! If you don't want to have sex and
you don't feel like having sex don't let
him make you feel bad about it. He needs
to understand how you feel.
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 02-23-05 17:07pm
You'll wnat to have sex a few times
atleast even though you have no sex
drive.. And you have to compromise..
Offer him oral be there for him.. If he
loves you and you are in a true
relationship he will understand all that
you are going thru and accept it... Not
go running around on you!
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 02-23-05 17:08pm
I didnt vote because theres no inbetween,
and neither apply to me.
About your question, I really dont know,
but the way I see it is, he helped do that
to you, so if you can wait, he should too.
But the "no sex...Ever again!" part,
well, if you were serious, I dont think
you could keep him around if you did that.
Guys will be guys, they like sex, theyll
get it one way or another. You could just
do it once in a while, even if you dont
like it, just to make him happy, thats
only fair.
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playgurlie85
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004 Posts: 94 Location: KCMO
Posted: 02-23-05 17:17pm
I understand that he shouldnt stray
although I worry, hes only 20 and I know
that being a young good looking male like
he is someone is going to be intrested and
if he cant get caught I dont know if he
would just walk away...He and his cousin
were what you would call "players" b/4 we
got together 3yrs ago... I never felt
this way untill my pregnancy tho
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 02-23-05 17:39pm
I don't really know what to tell you but
in my first trimester I didn't want it at
all now I want it all the time. Give it
some time I think your feelings might
change a little.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 02-23-05 18:19pm
kandypants
wrote:
the way I see it...You
shouldn't have to do anything to keep him
from getting it some where else. Health
question he's the one that got you
pregnant, he needs to deal with the
consequences!!! And if he truly loves
you and wants to be with you then he
wouldn't go looking somewhere else to get
some! If you don't want to have sex and
you don't feel like having sex don't let
him make you feel bad about it. He
needs to understand how you
feel.
ditto. I don't care how old he is, how
good looking, how little sex he's getting,
there's no excuse to get it somewhere
else. This is life and these boys need
to learn some dick control.
