I dont know whats wrong with me but for
the past few days ive hated everything
about myself... I wont look in a mirror
and I dont want to eat but thats all ive
been doing.... I have no one to talk to
because no one in my family understands...
They all tell me i'll get over it but I
know I wont because if that were true then
I would have gotten over all of this a
long time ago.
I cant cry because if I do my mom
wont leave me alone she'll start playing
20 questions and I cant handle that right
now... I just need someone to tell me how
I can try and get over all of this...
I write everyday but it always comes
out negitive... Its like I have nothing
good to say about myself and to tell you
the truth I fell like just giving up
again!!! :(
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
Help Posted: 03-11-05 18:44pm
You are the one who can over come this
problem. Why don't you give a chance to
your mom to help you ? You mentioned if
you cry she will ask 20 questions,this is
good, by this you can understand what is
bothering you. Your mom is the closest
one to you. I'm sure she will do her best
to help you. Try to start with her. Talk
to her spell all your worries and
concerns. This forum too, will help you a
lot. We all have our problems when we
talk to each other we have some comfort
and it heels our pain.
Try and see. My heart is with you
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BaBeeG8369
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: Kentucky
Thanks Posted: 03-21-05 19:44pm
Thank u for the advice.. I have tryed
therapy and it really didnt help everyone
kept telling me they knew how I felt and I
knew it wasnt true b/c they were all older
then me... I do think I might try to talk
to my mom soon but im not sure yet I know
shes going through alot and I dont want to
add to her problems... I do have family I
can talk too but they always seem bizzy
and they would reather me help them with
there problems and I always do b/c I cant
turn anyone down and I dont like to burden
other people I like to feel as I can do
everything myself even though somethings I
know I cant do myself.. But thats just
me anywayz thank u all again i'll put ur
advice to work!!
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
Posted: 03-21-05 20:05pm
How old are you? Hug your pillow and cry
by yourself. Not a solution but maybe a
temporary fix. A good cry sometimes
relieves some of the stress.
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BaBeeG8369
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: Kentucky
Cryin Game Posted: 03-21-05 20:49pm
Im 21 and I do cry holdin a pillow alot
more then id like to admit I also hig on
my dog and stuffed animals it helps for a
while but ive been cryed out for so long
but I like ur advice it does usally help
im just gald I have people on the computer
I can talk to.. This may sound weird but
talking to strangers helps more then
talking to family..
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
Posted: 03-21-05 21:26pm
That's totally understandable. Talk all
you want. We are here.
