I was wondering if I could get some
advise/help from you ladies.....
My husband and I are trying to conceieve
after a miscarriage that happened in
november. I was 9 weeks pregnant and
everything was going great. And then 2
days before my first ob appt and a chance
to listen to the heartbeat for the first
time I suddenly started bleeding and then
within 12 hours I miscarried. It was such
a horrible experience that I still cannot
get over. We decided to wait a month or
so and then start trying again.. Thing is
my cycles are all messed up now due to
this miscarriage. I had a 2 week very
light period at the beginnning of january
and then went 7 weeks without a period..
I dont even know when to try.. Im so
confused... Is anyone else ttc after a
miscarriage? How long did it take??...
Please help....
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ablack311
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 3
Hi Posted: 03-02-05 00:29am
Hi, I also had a miscarriage. It was
just back in january. My dr said not to
try again until I have a regular period.
But I did some research online, and
typically there isn't a health concern if
you do try before a normal pregnancy, but
they want you to wait so they can give the
baby a due date. We were naughty and
started trying (although not faithfully)
like 3 weeks after the miscarriage, with
no luck though. So I know what you are
going through. I was very sad for a
month, and reluctant to try again.
Somehow I have gotten over and am ready to
try full force this month!! Good luck.
Pm if you want to chat.
Anna
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ablack311
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 3
Hi Posted: 03-02-05 00:29am
Hi, I also had a miscarriage. It was
just back in january. My dr said not to
try again until I have a regular period.
But I did some research online, and
typically there isn't a health concern if
you do try before a normal pregnancy, but
they want you to wait so they can give the
baby a due date. We were naughty and
started trying (although not faithfully)
like 3 weeks after the miscarriage, with
no luck though. So I know what you are
going through. I was very sad for a
month, and reluctant to try again.
Somehow I have gotten over and am ready to
try full force this month!! Good luck.
Pm if you want to chat.
Anna
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cutters mom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 10 Location: KY
Ttc Posted: 04-13-05 12:59pm
My husband and I have had two, so my heart
goes out to you. When we miscarried, the
doctors advised waiting at least 3 mos
before trying again, this was to give your
body a chance to readjust afterwards. We
weren't successful for almost a year.
Good luck
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jenniclaire
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 6 Location: bradford
Me Too Posted: 04-19-05 17:46pm
I had a misscarige in march this year n we
started having sex again a week later im
now waiting for my period to arrive this
is really distressing me because we had
been trying for 6 months before I had
become pregnant and I was 11 weeks when I
lost the baby and dont know wether or not
I have become pregnant again I have had a
slight show of blood in my discharge but
nothing else and I really dont know if I
want to come on at all incase it makes
this whole situation more real how am I
meant to cope please help
