Hey...I dont know if you all remember my
friend vaughn telling you about me, but I
am her friend. She hasnt been on for
awhile, so I am using her name for today.
About a month ago I was raped, and now I
have found out I am having a baby. I
never knew my dad and now this baby wont
either. I dont know what to do, I know I
am going to have her...Theres just alot of
I dont knows running though my head right
now I guess.
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BaByMaMa2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2005 Posts: 433 Location: Houston, TX
Posted: 03-01-05 14:39pm
Ok first you cant think about the father
because even if this guy was your
boyfriend and he swore up and down that he
was going to be there, most likely he
would not be! Im 16 and 24 weeks pregnant
my daughter is never going to know her
father. It is going to be hard but I know
that she does not need him!!!!! Your baby
only needs one thing and that is it's
mother. If you dont feel that you are
ready to take care of a baby, then I would
suggest looking at adoption. Abortion is
a solution but I do not beleive that it is
the right one! This is your baby, and
this baby has done nothing wronge! How
old are you?
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Re: Im Ready to Talk Now Posted: 03-01-05 15:49pm
vaughn6606
wrote:
hey...I dont know if you all
remember my friend vaughn telling you
about me, but I am her friend. She hasnt
been on for awhile, so I am using her name
for today. About a month ago I was
raped, and now I have found out I am
having a baby. I never knew my dad and
now this baby wont either. I dont know
what to do, I know I am going to have
her...Theres just alot of I dont knows
running though my head right now I
guess.
i really don't like it when people use
other people's sns, it just causes too
suspicion. It's easy for you to get your
own. Anyhoo, I remember her telling us
about you. I'm so sorry about what
happened to you. And now you're preg,
wow. I hope you are getting some
counseling or have a support group or
something to help you through this. I
think it's awesome that you are keeping
your child. And children do need a
father. It's okay b/c of your situation
that this baby will not know his/her
father, but you will meet a man one day
that will be a father to your child/ren.
Take care.
Lana
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neeko177
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 427
Posted: 03-01-05 23:29pm
Im sorry about what happened to you...
Think of it this way, would u really want
ur baby to know a man that could do such a
horrible thing??
And is it possible that you were on here
with the same name telling ppl about ur
"friend" when it was u all along? Just
wondering since sum1 said it causes
suspision (which it does)
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4107 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
Thanked:3
Posted: 03-01-05 23:57pm
You can do it hun theres alot of single
mommies in the world just make a plan and
accept any support heading your way!
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
Posted: 03-02-05 16:33pm
I am sorry this happened to you but I am
glad you aren't getting an abortion.
Being a single parent is going to be
difficult but you can do it. I am only
17 and I am going to give it a shot. The
second you hear the heart beat and see the
baby during an ultrasound you will fall in
love with the baby so completely.
