Hi I am 18 and me and my fiance got
pregnant, but I let my parents talk me
into having an abortion at 12 weeks. ( I
know its still my fault and my problem
because I did it.) but it has been 5 weeks
and I have not had my period and we have
had sex (2 wks after) and I am wondering
about this baby. Will it be okay? When
can I find out if I am pregnant? Do I
need to go to the doctor or can I wait
until my insurance kicks in?
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Blue8
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2005 Posts: 133 Location: VA
Posted: 03-06-05 09:33am
Im almost in your same shoes I let my
parents talk me into having an abortion to
bad mistake I regret it so much that im
trying to get pregnant right now. Well as
far as taking a test if I was you I would
maybe wait another week or two then check
or call up the doc and have him check with
a blood test.
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crystal riley
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 7 Location: united states
Posted: 12-04-05 03:54am
blue8
wrote:
im almost in your same shoes
I let my parents talk me into having an
abortion to bad mistake I regret it so
much that im trying to get pregnant right
now. Well as far as taking a test if I
was you I would maybe wait another week or
two then check or call up the doc and have
him check with a blood
test.
im sorry but thats stupid you killed your
guys kids do you not relize that that is
sick if you ask me ppl like you should go
to jail for homicide
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 01-18-06 03:13am
Thats terrible that you let someone else
make such a horrible decision for you but
if you dont want to go thru that all again
why dont you just stop getting pregnant?
I dont understand.
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Angel_Who_Crys
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 181 Location: In The Darkness
Posted: 01-29-06 10:26am
Okes you guys dont have to be such ass(s)
about im sure both girls feel bad enough
for what they did you dont need to stress
them out even more.
Some time parents can presher there
childen into do things they do want to.
My friend aborted her child a few years
ago becuse her parents told her to and
that if she didnt they would disown her.
How do you think my friend felt she didnt
want to kill her baby but she did beacuse
her parents say they would disown her.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 01-30-06 03:48am
Excuse you, I dont think you have any
right to call me an ass for asking a
perfectly legit question. I think you
owe me an apology.
Anyway I am still wondering why they would
go thru an abortion only to get pregnant
immediatly afterwards. What would
change? The baby they aborted has
already lost his/her chance of life, why
get pregnant again if they obviosly will
be in the same situation?? I just dont
understand that.