I Learned a Lesson In Life This Past Week !! Posted: 11-03-03 09:35am
You know all of your life you try to fit
in to society. For me, that is anyways.
I have my own values and beliefs as
everyone does though, but to have friends
and family love you as you would like them
to love you is a different thing I have
learned.
You have to be phoney to be accepted.
when
you hear someone say for instance that
they don't want you to worry over such
things as an illness that you may have or
not, or maybe something that has come out
when talking to your doctor about your
past and you have mentioned it to your
parents (in which it was there fault).
Friends or neighbours are friendly to your
face, then you know for a fact that they
are talking behind your back just shortly
after. You have to face them again.
You have to accept them for their
shortcommings in being so phony
themselves. I have personally been a
very very outspoken and honest person. I
have given lots of advise and honesty to
family and friends to better their lives,
then I hear them say to others that it was
their idea. I guess that they need
recognition like everyone else in the
world does, including myself. It just
kills me though that you have to put that
phoney :d on your pretty little face and
chew
your tongue to not say anything back.
You will be liked by the world if you just
sit tight and agree with them. Because
if you don't then they will hate you and
be extra phony with you. You can't seem
to win. So here I stand today just to
not be lonely in my life today and future.
Laugh, love, listen, and accept them.
(then you can think what you want - they
can't hear right?) and you will be very
popular, you will be loved and invited to
such gatherings. You will be talked
about badly of course but also good.
If god is listening and watching me type
this now, I then ask him - why? Why can't
we just be ourselves, and be honest with
everyone. I don't like to be phoney to
people just to be accepted in this world.
My sister tells me and my husband - that
you just have to put up with it. Is that
my lesson on this god for saken planet.
To be phoney and accept that?
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This page was last updated on June 11, 2008
when
you hear someone say for instance that
they don't want you to worry over such
things as an illness that you may have or
not, or maybe something that has come out
when talking to your doctor about your
past and you have mentioned it to your
parents (in which it was there fault).
Friends or neighbours are friendly to your
face, then you know for a fact that they
are talking behind your back just shortly
after. You have to face them again.
You have to accept them for their
shortcommings in being so phony
themselves. I have personally been a
very very outspoken and honest person. I
have given lots of advise and honesty to
family and friends to better their lives,
then I hear them say to others that it was
their idea. I guess that they need
recognition like everyone else in the
world does, including myself. It just
kills me though that you have to put that
phoney :d on your pretty little face and
chew 
your tongue to not say anything back.
You will be liked by the world if you just
sit tight and agree with them. Because
if you don't then they will hate you and
be extra phony with you. You can't seem
to win. So here I stand today just to
not be lonely in my life today and future.
Laugh, love, listen, and accept them.
(then you can think what you want - they
can't hear right?) and you will be very
popular, you will be loved and invited to
such gatherings. You will be talked
about badly of course but also good.
:d 