Well, my fiance and I are getting married
in may of this year. We have been
together for about 2 yrs now and really
want a baby. I have 1 little girl 4 yrs
old from a previous marriage and he
totally loves her as if she's his. The
thing is we don't have alot of money and
live in a 2 bedroom apt. We know we
could afford a 3 bedroom apt and there is
a program here that would give us 700 a mo
the first 3 mo of having a baby. I'm
also on ma so all my med bills would be
paid and wic would cover the formula. It
just seems a little off the wall to have
another and would love to get some
opinions on if i'm crazy or not! Also
would appreciate any advice on how life
changes from 1 kid to 2 cause I never want
to short my first born. Does the love
actually grow? I guess if we waited
until we had the money we would never have
a baby...So....
Anyway....Sorry so long and thanks in
advance for any advice you could give!
Tami
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-15-05 19:44pm
Once again, at least wait until you can
afford to not be on wic or medical
assistance. You don't have to wait until
you are rich, but at least wait until you
don't need the government to help you.
And good luck!
