Well, my fiance and I are getting married
in may of this year. We have been
together for about 2 yrs now and really
want a baby. I have 1 little girl 4 yrs
old from a previous marriage and he
totally loves her as if she's his. The
thing is we don't have alot of money and
live in a 2 bedroom apt. We know we
could afford a 3 bedroom apt and there is
a program here that would give us 700 a mo
the first 3 mo of having a baby. I'm
also on ma so all my med bills would be
paid and wic would cover the formula. It
just seems a little off the wall to have
another and would love to get some
opinions on if i'm crazy or not! Also
would appreciate any advice on how life
changes from 1 kid to 2 cause I never want
to short my first born. Does the love
actually grow? I guess if we waited
until we had the money we would never have
a baby...So....
Anyway....Sorry so long and thanks in
advance for any advice you could give!
Tami
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fraggle
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-10-05 13:21pm
If your saying that if you waited till you
had the money that you wouldn't have a
baby then i'd say go for it cause this
could be your last chance. I'm sure it
will be hard but the outcome shouldbe
worth it. I'm still pregnant with my
first but I believe if you want another
baby then your family will be supportive
of you. Good luck :d
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nervousmom2be
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Lansing MI
Posted: 03-10-05 17:22pm
If you waited til you had the money you'd
never get preg again, my advice is do what
you do til it happens, and if you really
want a baby try. You will apreciate it in
the long run.
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babymamahr01
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Posts: 52 Location: WI
Thanks Posted: 03-10-05 17:53pm
Thanks for all the support....Still
looking for how life can change with two
but glad for the support really appreciate
it
