First off how old are you guys? And whats with your writing? I can barely read it...

If she was raped she needs to report it and do a rape kit... And it should be something that she should discuss with her parents to get herself into some counseling!

okay were 13 n I dunt undastand u!

What od you not understand? She needs to report her rape and get a rape kit from the police/hospital... Then she needs to discuss all she has been thru openly with an adult she trusts and get counseling for it... Especially if she is only 13 years old... If she was truly raped... Especially that young whether she admits it or not she has some maybe emotional and physical damage...

Where did she get an abortion at age 11 without parential consent?

I agree with jess....Perhaps you should seek help from your local rape crisis centre instead of this pregnancy forum....There are highly qualified councellors with whom you should be speaking that can support you & your mate and point you in the right direction.....

Even if she doesn't want to go to the police, anybody can report it. When there is even the suspicion that a minor is being sexually assaulted in any way, the authorities will investigate. You can even report it anonymously and they will step in and get this scum.

Sarha your friend needs help with dealing with this please urge her to visit the following link at the very least there are a lot of people on there that she can talk to and they can/will help her through this.

in the uk children do not need consent to terminate they can take a teacher with them and the parents need never know.

Jessamyn~ even here u dont need parental consent... How she got there though...
The same man has raped her twice and both times she's gotten pregnant. Who says there wont be a 3rd, 4th? He needs to be stopped. He may be doing this to other girls. Your friend or you need to report this, it may be hard, but realize you could be saving her/you from more pain a long with other young girls.

What do you mean here you do not need consent? Since when?

You need to go to the police. If she is scared then the police can help stop this. At least tell her or your parents and they can go to the police.

You dont need consent at like 15 I dont know about 11!

Besides at this moment I am not believing this girl harsh sounding or not because in this forum she says its her friend and in teen she says its her

tell it straight and report whats up and i'll be more supportive like I was in the begining

this stuff truly does happen to ppl and if she is making it up then I dont feel bad for her

Well yeah, it definately isn't something to joke or lie about. That is why so very few rapists ever actually get convicted. Because it turns into he said she said and since people can and do lie about it convictions are hardly ever made. It's sick.
I just can't believe you don't need parental consent in the us. I mean, I knew you could get your paps and bc pills and whatnot prior to 18, but abortion is surgery and that just blows my mind. I am not saying I don't believe you, that just amazes me.

Surely noone would be that sick?

Like if your 15 you can do it... But I can barely even imagine an abortion clinic going thru with giving a 11 yr old an abortion unless it was like illegal or done illfully... Seriously they needed to report that or something... Having an abortion at 11 you need some counseling...

There has been a cpl of cases in the last few month in the uk where teachers have taken children as young as 12 for a termination

Well, the way sarah said it, she was cut up really badly which makes me wonder if she even went to an actual clinic. I mean, yes, mistakes can happen even made by real doctors, but it still makes me wonder.
I would hope that at 11 you would need parental consent, or at least have it like the uk where an adult of some kind takes you in. I dunno, weird.

You mean like a back street job do they still exsist that is downright dangerouse and stupid I thought that the whole point in terminating a crisis pregnancy was to improve the quality of life for the woman involved surely that cannot be acheived in a back street gin shop.

Sarah I notice you are actually in trhe uk who went with you if you don't mind me asking no names obviously just was it teacher aunt friend?

No, it sure can't but for people who don't want anyone to know or can't afford an actual medical abortion or whatever....Some people still do it themselves (believe it or not) or "hear of someone" who can do it for them. It's sick especially when a medical abortion isn't all that expensive. But, an 11 year old may not know all of this, ya know? That is what I wondered.
I don't think many people do the back alley thing anymore, probably just people on the street. Drug addicts and hookers and homeless women who were raped. There is always a sick person out there willing to "help"

That is horrifying to know I thought that era was well and truely over and done with.