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__SaRaH__
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Posted: 03-13-05 06:09am
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Ma m8 has beeen raped twice and had an
abortion the first time but now she got
ra[ed agen by the same man and she has 2
hav an abortion agen cos she cant hav kids
cos she was11 at her 1st abortion n it
ripped all her womb shes rely depressed n
je keeps stalkin ere n tryin 2 rape ere
but she wnt go 2 the police or tell her
mom help!!!!!!!! :cry:
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-13-05 06:11am
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First off how old are you guys? And whats
with your writing? I can barely read
it...
If she was raped she needs to report it
and do a rape kit... And it should be
something that she should discuss with her
parents to get herself into some
counseling!
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__SaRaH__
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Posted: 03-13-05 06:15am
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| jessamyn
wrote: | first off how old are you
guys? And whats with your writing? I
can barely read it...
If she was raped she needs to report it
and do a rape kit... And it should be
something that she should discuss with her
parents to get herself into some
counseling! |
okay were 13 n I dunt undastand u!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-13-05 06:19am
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What od you not understand? She needs to
report her rape and get a rape kit from
the police/hospital... Then she needs to
discuss all she has been thru openly with
an adult she trusts and get counseling for
it... Especially if she is only 13 years
old... If she was truly raped...
Especially that young whether she admits
it or not she has some maybe emotional and
physical damage...
Where did she get an abortion at age 11
without parential consent?
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Catt
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Posted: 03-13-05 07:47am
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I agree with jess....Perhaps you should
seek help from your local rape crisis
centre instead of this pregnancy
forum....There are highly qualified
councellors with whom you should be
speaking that can support you & your
mate and point you in the right
direction.....
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steen
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Posted: 03-13-05 12:30pm
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Even if she doesn't want to go to the
police, anybody can report it. When
there is even the suspicion that a minor
is being sexually assaulted in any way,
the authorities will investigate. You
can even report it anonymously and they
will step in and get this scum.
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-13-05 13:36pm
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Sarha your friend needs help with dealing
with this please urge her to visit the
following link at the very least there are
a lot of people on there that she can talk
to and they can/will help her through
this.
Http://www.Angel
survive.Com/forum/helplines.Asp
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-13-05 13:39pm
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| jessamyn
wrote: | what od you not understand?
She needs to report her rape and get a
rape kit from the police/hospital...
Then she needs to discuss all she has been
thru openly with an adult she trusts and
get counseling for it... Especially if
she is only 13 years old... If she was
truly raped... Especially that young
whether she admits it or not she has some
maybe emotional and physical damage...
Where did she get an abortion at age 11
without parential
consent? |
in the uk children do not need consent to
terminate they can take a teacher with
them and the parents need never know.
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posted: 03-13-05 14:02pm
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Jessamyn~ even here u dont need parental
consent... How she got there though...
The same man has raped her twice and both
times she's gotten pregnant. Who says
there wont be a 3rd, 4th? He needs to be
stopped. He may be doing this to other
girls. Your friend or you need to report
this, it may be hard, but realize you
could be saving her/you from more pain a
long with other young girls.
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2ferano
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:34pm
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What do you mean here you do not need
consent? Since when?
You need to go to the police. If she is
scared then the police can help stop this.
At least tell her or your parents and
they can go to the police.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:38pm
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You dont need consent at like 15 I dont
know about 11!
Besides at this moment I am not believing
this girl harsh sounding or not because in
this forum she says its her friend and in
teen she says its her
tell it straight and report whats up and
i'll be more supportive like I was in the
begining
this stuff truly does happen to ppl and if
she is making it up then I dont feel bad
for her
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2ferano
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:40pm
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Well yeah, it definately isn't something
to joke or lie about. That is why so
very few rapists ever actually get
convicted. Because it turns into he said
she said and since people can and do lie
about it convictions are hardly ever made.
It's sick.
I just can't believe you don't need
parental consent in the us. I mean, I
knew you could get your paps and bc pills
and whatnot prior to 18, but abortion is
surgery and that just blows my mind. I
am not saying I don't believe you, that
just amazes me.
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:41pm
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Surely noone would be that sick?
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:45pm
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Like if your 15 you can do it... But I
can barely even imagine an abortion clinic
going thru with giving a 11 yr old an
abortion unless it was like illegal or
done illfully... Seriously they needed to
report that or something... Having an
abortion at 11 you need some counseling...
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-15-05 14:48pm
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There has been a cpl of cases in the last
few month in the uk where teachers have
taken children as young as 12 for a
termination
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2ferano
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Posted: 03-16-05 14:13pm
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Well, the way sarah said it, she was cut
up really badly which makes me wonder if
she even went to an actual clinic. I
mean, yes, mistakes can happen even made
by real doctors, but it still makes me
wonder.
I would hope that at 11 you would need
parental consent, or at least have it like
the uk where an adult of some kind takes
you in. I dunno, weird.
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-16-05 14:18pm
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You mean like a back street job do they
still exsist that is downright dangerouse
and stupid I thought that the whole point
in terminating a crisis pregnancy was to
improve the quality of life for the woman
involved surely that cannot be acheived in
a back street gin shop.
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-16-05 14:19pm
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Sarah I notice you are actually in trhe uk
who went with you if you don't mind me
asking no names obviously just was it
teacher aunt friend?
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2ferano
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Posted: 03-16-05 14:20pm
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No, it sure can't but for people who don't
want anyone to know or can't afford an
actual medical abortion or
whatever....Some people still do it
themselves (believe it or not) or "hear of
someone" who can do it for them. It's
sick especially when a medical abortion
isn't all that expensive. But, an 11
year old may not know all of this, ya
know? That is what I wondered.
I don't think many people do the back
alley thing anymore, probably just people
on the street. Drug addicts and hookers
and homeless women who were raped. There
is always a sick person out there willing
to "help"
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FISHX
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Posted: 03-16-05 14:24pm
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That is horrifying to know I thought that
era was well and truely over and done
with.
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