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ftmommy201

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Hey Guys..im Back..finally
Posted: 03-13-05 11:18am

Hey all..Hey jess and tazzy..How are you guys? I am sorry I have been gone so long...I have moved in with the father:),,yayyyy....And things with the baby have been keeping me busy!

I have been having a little bit of post-partum...And I had a question...The dad hasn't been wanting to be sexual here lately...He said if I would have seen the birth I would understand? He just told me it would take him some time..Is this normal??

I will try to post a pic of the baby for you guys..Hope all is well!!! Actually..How do you post a pic? I can't figure it out??
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jessamyn

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Posted: 03-13-05 16:32pm

Wow ive never heard of a guy acting that way but maybe it was just an emotional rollarcoaster for him so give him some time! :)

as for pictures... Save them to your computer.... Then go to www.Villagephotos.Com creat a sn and then upload them to your computer... Under each picture there will be a url link copy that link then come back here and to post them imput [img]theurllinkhere[/img] make sure there are no spaces and that you have the / in the second set of bracets :)

ex

if you need any more help lemme know :)
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melgto

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Joined: 12 Mar 2005
Posts: 79
Location: west sussex

Posted: 03-13-05 17:49pm

Hi I had the same problem with my husband, it went on for a few months and when we finally did manage to sleep together he was very nevrus, he eventually told me that the problem was that he just couldn't do anything for the tought of a baby coming out of where it does,
it will pass and I wish u all the luck wiyh your new baby.
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Tazzy D

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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
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Location: , va
Re: Hey Guys..im Back..finally
Posted: 03-13-05 20:25pm

ftmommy201 wrote:
hey all..Hey jess and tazzy..How are you guys? I am sorry I have been gone so long...I have moved in with the father:),,yayyyy....And things with the baby have been keeping me busy!


I have been having a little bit of post-partum...And I had a question...The dad hasn't been wanting to be sexual here lately...He said if I would have seen the birth I would understand? He just told me it would take him some time..Is this normal??


I will try to post a pic of the baby for you guys..Hope all is well!!! Actually..How do you post a pic? I can't figure it out??


hey hun,
welcome back... I am on and off of here.. Im still preggo and jess is due any day now.. Congrats..Im glad things are going okay for you now.. Also about the sex drive.. Everyone sees things differently. Just give him some time it will be okay.. Birth is dramatic for some men.. I cant wait to see pics. How was the labor and everything and how are you?? It is okay to have post partum depression some women do get it after having a baby.. Just if it gets to bad talk to your doctor and let them know.. Okay take care hun
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Catt

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Joined: 12 Mar 2005
Posts: 40
Location: NS

Posted: 03-14-05 18:14pm

It wasn't too long ago that I saw a talk show with guys who all had the same feelings about seeing the birth and being "turned off"....It's very common!!!! .......They all came around in the follow up episode....Where would I be without talk shows???? Hope things go your way!!!!!!
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