[quote=hotasfrickthis forum is the
abortion forum. It is for questions
regarding abortion, support, etc.
If you are against abortion then don't
even post here.
Do not state your opinion unless asked for
it, do not judge or start debates.
{quote}
you are out of order I do not see any one
saying if you believe in abortion then you
cannot post in the pregnancy forum,or is
this pro choice censorship,i am personally
against abortion but have come to realize
it is a neccersary evil,but in your mind I
should be censored for that
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 03-14-05 10:46am
She said that because people who come to
the abortion support forum are there
becuase they have to or made a hard
decision and either regret it for whatever
reason or they are about to make the
decision and they don't need prolife
people telling them that what they are
doing is/was selfish and making them feel
bad about it. If it's censorship, so be
it.
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 03-14-05 10:56am
Go look at your spouse's post there. She
also agreed that prolife bantering would
be detrimental to the support forum and
should be left here.
Now, if you want to deliberately undercut
her, you certainly can do so, but it sure
doesn't seem respectful of her.
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foreverblue
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 577
Posted: 03-14-05 11:59am
bd1012
wrote:
she said that because people
who come to the abortion support forum are
there becuase they have to or made a hard
decision and either regret it for whatever
reason or they are about to make the
decision and they don't need prolife
people telling them that what they are
doing is/was selfish and making them feel
bad about it. If it's censorship, so be
it.
would you be happy if the only voice they
were allowed to hear was pro lifes,no I
don't think so you would complain very
loudly,yet you think that they should only
hear your side,how easy,how good and how
there will not be a single problem at all
if they have an abortion,so you want to be
able to say what you like in there without
being pulled.I dont think that a pregnant
woman wants to hear pro choice go on about
how easy it is to terminate her
pregnancy,but im not saying you lot
shouldnt post there,it seems to me bthe
only choice you want them to have is your
choice,seems a bit biased to me,and
hotasfrick said this site was'nt
biased.Steen you were crying about izzy
doing just that on wisepatient and you
liked to pull him on what he said and
cried when you were told not to debate in
that forum.So your hypocritical whining
just makes you look stupid .
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oopoopoop
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Joined: 18 Mar 2004 Posts: 1484 Location: ,
Thanks: 75
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Posted: 03-15-05 07:21am
The abortion forum is for those who need
support in their decision -- whether that
is to terminate or not. Someone who is
opposed to *all* abortion, and says
someone shouldn't have one regardless, is
not in a position to offer support.
This is only polite -- otherwise, it would
be reasonable for someone to go onto the
pregnancy, or especially teen pregnancy
forum and start saying: "it's not too late
-- you are ruining your life -- you really
should have an abortion." "don't you
think that four children with three
different fathers, none of whom is likely
to get a decent education, and the
taxpayer supporting all of you, isn't that
enough? You really ought to have an
abortion." "well, if you are too stupid to
realise that having sex without protection
could get you pregnant, you are definitely
too much of an fool to be a parent." "and
by the way, he will not love it when it
gets here."
so -- if someone wants support to stay
pregnant, they go to the pregnancy forum.
If they want support in a decision about
not staying pregnant, they go to the
abortion forum -- even if they then decide
not to terminate. If you want to offer
condemnation and holier-than-thou
opinions, go polish your halo someplace
else.
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FISHX
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2004 Posts: 920 Location: UK
Posted: 03-15-05 07:35am
???????????????????????????/ can I just
ask where did all that come from it has
nothing to do with the original thread on
censorship
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-15-05 14:08pm
First of all, that post is what admin
wants and rightfully so. This is ehealth
a forum for support! It is not a forum
to express your opinions on whether
someone should or shouldn't have an
abortion!
The only reason we even have this forum
here (which doesn't fit in with ehealth at
all!) is to keep these opinions out of the
abortion forum.
A woman needs a place to go for support
when considering having an abortion
without prolife people calling her names,
judging her and making it impossible for
her to get info. This forum isn't
biased! The abortion forum is allowed to
be! Get over it!
If you want to post there giving support
for a woman who is having an abortion or
giving her info and I mean info, not
"facts" made up by some prolife group then
go right ahead! The reason it says if
you are prolife don't even post here is
because there has only been 1 prolife user
in the history of ehealth who ever posted
in the abortion forum according to the
rules. All of the other prolife people
posted things that are not productive and
are not allowed!
So, it is easier for prolife people to
just stay out of that forum. But, if you
can be helpful (not trying to talk someone
into or out of anything, just supportive
of their decision) then feel free to post
there. But, don't post what isn't
allowed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And please, stop posting about me for
goodness sakes. Yeah, I made that post
because people wouldn't stop posting what
admin did not allow. And stop commenting
on how everyone else is making themselves
look stupid, because they aren't, but you
saying that is making you look pretty
petty.
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foreverblue
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 577
Posted: 03-16-05 03:17am
steen
wrote:
go look at your spouse's
post there. She also agreed that
prolife bantering would be detrimental to
the support forum and should be left
here.
Now, if you want to deliberately undercut
her, you certainly can do so, but it sure
doesn't seem respectful of
her.
again I will post this as they seem fit to
let you stalk my wife but not let me tell
you to stop.You can keep deleting this
post and I will keep posting it steen/dane
stop stalking my wife on here or the other
place end of story.
Do not delete this post or you will have
to spend all year deleting posts I make
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oopoopoop
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Joined: 18 Mar 2004 Posts: 1484 Location: ,
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Posted: 03-16-05 09:14am
Someone seems a little touchy!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-16-05 14:29pm
Foreverblue...Why don't you just start
posting like an adult?
If you had any respect for anyone then you
would stop the insults, name-calling and
everything else that is making you look
like a child.
And, prochoice people do not kill
children. I do not nor do I enjoy
killing children. I am prochoice, not a
homicidal maniac.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-16-05 15:05pm
And by the way, your post wouldn't have
been deleting for telling steen to "stop
stalking your wife" however, it would be
deleted for all of the other nonsense you
put in your posts. If you want a post to
stay in a thread then respect the forum!
Is it really that difficult for you to do
that?
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foreverblue
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 577
Posted: 03-16-05 15:07pm
hotasfrick
wrote:
and by the way, your post
wouldn't have been deleting for telling
steen to "stop stalking your wife"
however, it would be deleted for all of
the other nonsense you put in your posts.
If you want a post to stay in a thread
then respect the forum! Is it really
that difficult for you to do
that?
