I Have Just a Few Questions On Guys And Teen Pregnacy Posted: 11-03-03 15:37pm
I am doing a presentation for one of my
classes as well as having many friends in
this stress as well as myself. I was
wondering if I could ask a few questions.
Have you all ever had any guys write to
asking how they can help their partners.
Also if they do, do they seem they want to
take on justs as much of the
responsibility as their partners are
obligated too. Do they seem to be
interested to be a father and want to help
what needs to be done at this point.
Also, on the contrast, have you ever had a
guy have the nerve to get on here and
complane that their girlfriend, or what
have you. Because you know how the girl
is always the victum. I think that this
would be a great point to see from. To
see if guys really have a point on these
maters and are will to take these times on
their sholders as much as their partner
has too. I also think it would be a good
point to present to the class that the
guys have a say in it and much a they
should. I thank you for any and info.
That you can inlighten me with and am
looking for to hearing from you soon.
Thank you much,
amber :d
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-03-03 15:51pm
The thing with that topic is some guys are
willing to take care of the
responsibilities and be there for the
girl. Some guys dont want to. Girls
mature faster and when they get stuck, the
guys are still able to run free of being a
parent. I havent seen many guys in here
that ask questions like that though. I
know jose will be there for everything
because he wants a baby. Im not sure what
is your exact question but I hope I helped
at least a little bit. There are more
girls here that will answer too.
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BatGirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Orem, Utah
Wow Thanks! Posted: 11-03-03 16:29pm
This is good! I hope that guys are will
to help out. I am glad that your guy is
willing to! I hope that everything go
well with you and thank you for your
responce. I really apprishiate it.
Love, am's
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-03-03 17:24pm
Hey im 17 my boyfriend is 20 my pregnancy
wasnt exactly planned but he said if you
are thats great if you arent thats just as
great hes like no matter what I love you
and will always be there for you...He has
soo far im almost 3 1/2 months him and I
have been through a lot of caca regarding
my parents I know for a fact that if he
was going to leave he would have a long
time ago he loves me and this baby and he
is doing his best in whatever he can do to
help! Hope I helped a little!!Much love
and god bless!!
Jen
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A-Lil'Mama*2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 89 Location: The Sunshine State
Fathers Or Sperm Donors? Posted: 11-04-03 16:32pm
My name is marissa.
I have two boys. My oldest is now 30
months, I had him when I was seventeen.
His father and I had been together for 4
yrs. And I thought he would always be
there. I was wrong. He told me over and
over again how he wanted us to have a
child together. The day I found out I was
pregnant was a slap in the face. I showed
him the positive preg. Test only to hear
him curse in anger. My heart sank. Soon
after, he was leaving me at home, alone,
for weeks at a time. I had no phone, no
car, no food, and no one to call since I
had chosen him over my mother. My
birthday, the day that I found out I was
having a boy! Should be happy, right?
That was also the day that my boyfriend
was picked up by the tpd. He spent the
next yr. And a half in prison. During
that time, I gave birth to our son very
prematurely. Our baby made it, and has
grown to be a very healthy 2 1/2 yr. Old,
that has still never seen his father.
During the past 2 yrs. I have
found a man that is now the love of my
life. We are married and have a new baby
who is 7 months old. My husband has
become the father that my first child had
never had. He is great. Not to mention,
our child together is disabled. He has
been here through it all. He has seen me
cry over my past, and he has held my hand
thru my horrifying delivery. I know that
he will never leave. He is a real man.
And my children and I are very thankful.
Sry. This is so long. I hope it helps to
show you both sides .
You can pm me if you'd like to discuss it
further.
Marissa
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lana_5252
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2008 Posts: 1
hi Posted: 09-18-08 15:09pm
i was woundering if you havent started
your period in three months could u be
pregnet if u had a one day period and
after that u didnt have it no more and
almost on 4thmonth and scared to tell mom
so do u think i could be????
