Joined: 08 Dec 2004 Posts: 113 Location: Palm Harbor, Florida
Crying All the Time!!!! Posted: 03-15-05 12:17pm
I am such a mess, I am constantly crying
(very very hard) I feel like I am not
getting the support I need from my
husband. I am 29 weeks and every week
seems to be getting worse. I think he
doesnt love me as much, that he doesnt
want to be around me. I cry and get upset
when he doesnt call me. I dont mean to be
rude but its like he puts me on the back
burner all the time..... And get this..
My due date is may 30th he has a buisness
recreation trip in the middle of may for
the weekend. He is not getting paid for
it, its just for fun. He says he is going
to go. This is my first child and he is
going to leave me. He says he can be back
in 2 hours if he needs to! Please tell me
how you feel???? Am I being paranoid?
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
Crying All the Time Posted: 03-15-05 13:35pm
You mentioned that this is your first
child. This is normal to feel stressed
and lonely. All new mother gone through
that. Try to cope with your new life as a
mother. Spend time with your baby . Play
with him,her, go outside with the baby.
Don't blame your husband for going to that
trip, you mentioned he is not going to pay
for it,any one will go for it. It is a
good chance,and you know it might not
return. He told you that if you need him
he will come in two hours, that means he
cares and love you.
When he comes from the trip sit with him
tell him about your feelings,believe me
this will help both of you and will
improve your relationship.
My heart is with you
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jessamyn
Supporter
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 03-15-05 16:28pm
Babe I totally know how you feel.. It
gets really hard trust me and there were
alot of times when the smallest thing
could get to me and I felt that paul just
wasnt there simply not connecting with me
on the level that which I truly needed...
Pregnancy is an emotional rollarcoaster
and there will be awesome days and
horrible days. Your body is going thru
alot... Just know its gets better! Trust
me I am 41 weeks right now and I have been
in such a better mood yeah I am grumpy and
sore but emotionally it is so much better
