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Jays mommy

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G-spot. Posted: 03-21-05 23:58pm


Hi. Where is the g-spot located? Ive only ever had clitoral orgasims, and I find it really jard to stimulate my clit, while having intercourse. I have never once orgasimed while having intercourse, and I hear that its a more intense feeling than the clitoral orgasim. I would really really like to orgasim during intercourse, because the only reason im having intercourse, is to keep my b.F happy. Im just happy with a bit of oral. Also. During intercourse, it feels like he is hitting something in me, its quite uncompfatable, not so painful that I have to make him stop. It happens everytime we have sex, unless he's not all the way in. What is it? And how can I make it more compfatable? Also. I recently had a baby, 7 weeks ago. And I have to wait till my period starts, before I can start on bc pills. So im not really wanting to have sex at the moment. Mt b.F gets extremely horny, and I think he wants to try anal. He keeps rubbing himself up against my ass, until his pre-cum has made me all wet, and it feels like he can just slip in - thats when I pull away from him. Im not overly fond of trying anal, I tried it once with an ex of mine, and he only put it in a tiny little bit, and it hurt like hell, and it took a few minutes for the pain to go away. So ive never really wanted to try again. But my current b.F, well things are diffrent, and I want to make him happy. Is there any way of having anal without pain? Sorry so much, just I seem to have quite a few problems sexualy. Any help is appreciated.

bkdaniels

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G-spot. Posted: 03-22-05 01:16am


Hey jays mommy, how are you doing? The g-spot is a bean shaped mass of nerve tissue located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and location of the g-spot will vary from woman to woman, but it's usually about the size of a quarter, and lies two to three inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. To explore this area, lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed, with a small pillow under your buttocks. Have your partner insert the length of his lubricated fingers into your vagina towards your navel. This will be about two inches inside the vagina. Press with one or two fingers against the front wall of your vagina. Because it's surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall, he may want to apply a little more pressure than usual. When you stimulate the right spot, it will swell the way a penis does. Slide his fingers from side to side. Tell your partner when he hit the right place. He will be able to tell. When he find the sensitive spot, continue stimulating it and you may find that it becomes firm and swells much like the erectile tissue in a penis. He may be able to help you have added pleasure, experience new sensations, and perhaps have a new type of climax. Many women enjoy the "doggy" position during intercourse because it stimulates the g-spot. Everything you ever wanted to know about the g-spot visit www.Minou.Com/aboutsex/gsp ot.Htm to learn safe anal sex techniques, please visit www.My-penis.Org/vaganal.H tml best wishes,

2ferano

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Posted: 03-22-05 01:31am


Well that explains why I will never have a g-spot orgasm! That is the same place where your bladder is dangit! No wonder why every single time I have sex I have to pee about 2 minutes into it. I have never and will never have an orasm during intercourse. Some women just can't and I know I am one of them. I only have clit orgasms and I cannot even have one if I am being penetrated. The two just dont go together for me! As for anal sex if you don't want to do it for you then don't do it. Yes, you want to make him happy and you love him but that doesn't mean you have to jeopardise your health and put yourself through pain. I am sure he can respect that. They say if you use lots of lube and relax it doesn't hurt, but I don't believe that. Call me crazy, but that is an exit and not a very sanitary one and the thought of someone even wanting to put their penis there is a thing I will never understand. But, anyway, if you decide to do anal (if you decide for you not him) then make sure he uses a condom and lots of lube. Regardless of whether or not the two of you are exclusive some stds do not show up for years and you can end up getting colon cancer if he is a carrier for high risk hpv. Or if you are a carrier and pass it on to him. Just make sure you are safe!

starrnova16

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Try This Posted: 03-22-05 03:27am


I truly understand how frustrating it can be to not orgasm when you are having intercourse. For a while I thought that it was just impossible for me, as I know they say that some women just don't. But I actually met someone who knew what he was doing and had my first orgasm with intercourse and it's amazing! And it's not too hard, it just takes two people who want to make it happen. I find it easier when we're in the missionary position. With him on top he can lean his pelvis so that while he is thrusting, he is actually stimulating your clit also. This may be a little tiring and hard work for him but it pays off in a big way! Or while he is in this same position, but comfortable to him, simply place one or two hands in the shape of a "v" so that his penis is in between your fingers and place pressure on your clit while he thrusts. This creates a new sensation for you, and you can also sqeeze your fingers together toward his member and this will make it tighter for him and more pleasurable. Although I don't recommend it until you can get yourself off first, only because it may take longer for you to climax then it would for him. Or if you want to get him off sooner it works, too. Try positions that make it easier to stimulate both inside and out. You may not orgasm every time, but hopefully this helps. It is also a good idea if he can stimulate you before intercourse to the point where you can't take it any more. This heightens your arousal during intercourse. Let me know if it works for you!

Justin_Toronto

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Posted: 03-22-05 10:48am


hi. Where is the g-spot located? this was answered in the first reply already. Put your index finger inside a little bit and curl it into a hook so it's behind your pubic bone. You'll feel a bit of smooth skin there.. Ta-daa, your graffenburg spot. (g-spot) ive only ever had clitoral orgasims, and I find it really jard to stimulate my clit, while having intercourse. I have never once orgasimed while having intercourse, and I hear that its a more intense feeling than the clitoral orgasim. I would really really like to orgasim during intercourse, because the only reason im having intercourse, is to keep my b.F happy. Im just happy with a bit of oral. the actual orgasm itself is the same with vaginal intercourse, however the stimulation is a little different as it is usually from a combination of pc and clitoral stimulation. Some girls do not have a sensitive pc muscle though, and can only climax through clitoral stimulation. This is normal, everyone is different. It seems you fall into this category making sexual intercourse a little more difficult to reach climax, though not impossible. If he is able to penetrate fully without pain his body/pubic bone can provide clitoral stimulation during intercourse, and of course there are positions available (i.E. Doggystyle) where you are able to provide your own clitoral stimulation, or he can be a little acrobatic and do it for you as well manually. Keep in mind that since this is still just a clitoral orgasm the sensation will not be much different during intercourse, except of course that you're feeling him inside you which romantically, does make a difference. Even more powerful still if you both reach climax at the same time while he is inside you. also. During intercourse, it feels like he is hitting something in me, its quite uncompfatable, not so painful that I have to make him stop. It happens everytime we have sex, unless he's not all the way in. What is it? And how can I make it more compfatable? that would be your cervix. Different women are capable of accepting different sized men with comfort... Too deep and you will feel a bit of pain. And far too deep and you'll be in extreme pain. Not much you can do except have him not thrust fully inside you, or switch to a different position. If you're in control (i.E. You on top, riding him) you can control the depth of penetration. also. I recently had a baby, 7 weeks ago. And I have to wait till my period starts, before I can start on bc pills. So im not really wanting to have sex at the moment. Mt b.F gets extremely horny, and I think he wants to try anal. He keeps rubbing himself up against my ass, until his pre-cum has made me all wet, and it feels like he can just slip in - thats when I pull away from him. Im not overly fond of trying anal, I tried it once with an ex of mine, and he only put it in a tiny little bit, and it hurt like hell, and it took a few minutes for the pain to go away. So ive never really wanted to try again. But my current b.F, well things are diffrent, and I want to make him happy. Is there any way of having anal without pain? anal is something you both have to want to do and enjoy doing. If you are nervous you will clench your anal muscles and it'll hurt like hell because he'll be forcing your muscles open and literally creating micro-tears to push inside you. If you are relaxed and allow him to penetrate, it will not be as painful. Make sure to use lots of lubriant, and make sure you are relaxed and not expecting pain. Also, ensure that if you do feel pain you can let him know and he will stop, if you signal again that the withdraw. sorry so much, just I seem to have quite a few problems sexualy. Any help is appreciated. no problem, that's what this forum is for. Be safe, justin

piedpiper909

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Posted: 06-23-08 00:14am


man the best way to have a clitoral stimulation while having sex is to get a strap on clitoral vibrator. I use this one called the butterfly. It fits right over your clit and the straps wrap around your waist and thighs. Its also cute so it doesnt look too embarrassing or barbaric. Its just this vibrating rubber butterfly anyways yeh its awesome and you are guaranteed mutiple orgasms. I can only handle 3 orgasms. then it gets too sensitive. Anyways thats my advice. I also have never had a non clitoral orgasm. I wonder though why do i get orgasms from having nightmares?

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