Hey guys, I have a bunch of questions,
that I wish I could get as precise answers
as possible, or if you have any other
suggestions/solutions pls share too:
well, my girlfriend is a virgin. We kind
of had sex on the 21st. By kind of, I
mean I didn't go all the way in.
However, I didn't have a condom on, so I
am quite alarmed about the idea of having
unsafe sex. My girlfriend hasn't taken
any pills, or whatsoever either. What I
am worried about is the problem of
"constant" leaking from my body that could
have gone into hers. As I said, she is
still a virgin, and I don't think going in
a little bit would have "made her not a
vergin anymore" e.G. Broken whatever
needs to be broken. However, due to the
fact of possible leak, I don't really know
how dangerous that would be to get her
pregnant. I didn't cum into her or any
of that. Howerver, I used my finger, and
I don't know how this could have
transferred "liquid"/semen ? How worried
should I be (cause that's all I am right
now), and what should I do? I've heard
that "the morning after" pill could be
taken within 2-3 days. My girlfriend,
doesn't like that idea, though due to
health problems. I myself am not very
aware of the cons of this pill, or how and
where to get it from either. Will it
work? And what are its side effects?
Will it mess up her monthly cycle, and
will it cause future problems when she
"wants" to become a mother?
Thanks
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bkdaniels
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2005 Posts: 48 Location: Little Rock, Arkansas
Pregnancy Advice Plsss Posted: 03-22-05 20:58pm
Hey worried_dude, how are you doing?
Pre-cum sometimes contains sperm and could
cause a woman to become pregnant if it
gets in or near her vagina. However, the
normal output or a healthy male is 300
million to 400 million spermatoza; half
that number should be capable of making
the long journey to the fallopian tube.
Yet, if a man's output is only 100 million
and even though the sperm are healthy, the
percentage of any of them reaching the egg
is too small. Such a man is classified as
sterile.
Secondly, it all centers around what you
consider to be "virginity". The oxford
english dictionary defines it as "an
unmarried woman". Obviously the term has
been altered and expanded the way in which
we use it this day.
In many cultures the sign of virginity is
the presence of a woman's hymen (a thin
membrane within the vagina often broken
during intercourse). Unfortunately, this
has caused no end of anguish for women who
had their hymen broken from other things
such as gymnastics, horseback riding, or
any number of other activities.
Some women are even born without a hymen.
If your girlfriend have ever used a
tampon, she have almost certainly at least
stretched her hymen, if not broken it.
Best wishes,
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worried_dude
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 03-22-05 21:22pm
Will that morning after pill work?
Should I "ask" her to take it? If so,
will it have a negative sexual/health
effect, disturb her cycle or anything else
I should know about? How/what would be
the danger of not being able to have
children?
Thanks
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worried_dude
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 03-23-05 10:40am
Thanks for the reply bkdaniels.
Do you have any suggestion on what would
be the safest way of preventing a possible
pregnancy in this case?
Thanks
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kawaiianafrazier
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Posts: 9 Location: stone mountain
I Hope This Will Help. Posted: 03-24-05 21:38pm
First let me make one correction. The
size of a tampon is not at all big enough
to strecth a womans hymen and if you enter
her at all there is a risk of her becoming
pregnant especially depending on how close
it was to her ovulation dates. And if
you enter her even if it was for a breif
moment and only at the tip that was enough
to break the ymen because it is not that
far from the tip of the vaginal opening.
So I wish you the best of luck
and the morning after pill will only work
within the first 48 hours after havin sex
and you canget it from any health clinic.
But it will throw off her cycles and
cause severe cramps because it is in
somany words going in and forcing the
uterus to contract and discharge anything
that may be in it. So good luck
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bkdaniels
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2005 Posts: 48 Location: Little Rock, Arkansas
Pregnancy Advice Plsss Posted: 03-24-05 22:03pm
Hey worried_dude, how are you doing?
The percentage of any of them reaching the
egg is too small. A pregancy test is the
only sure most reliable way to determine
the pregancy hormone.
