Hi everyone!
I have been dating this guy for a little
over a year now. I love him with all my
heart but things have gone downhill. When
we 1st started dating and up to about 2
months ago things were wonderful he always
told me how much he loved me, how great I
was, and that I was perfect for him. We
went on a break for 3 weeks, not talking
or anything because we started arguing a
lot. Now that we are back together it is
just not the same. I have told him this
and he says he doesnt notice. He says he
loves me even more now and that nothing
has changed, if not why am I so unhappy
now?!?! I want it like I used to be, I
want us like it used to be. I love him
and want to be with him but I am unhappy
how he takes everything now. Do I need to
end it or just keep on?? Someone please
help!!
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xoxoJordanxoxo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Mar 2005 Posts: 3 Location: usa
Hey Posted: 03-23-05 18:51pm
Well see I think that if u really love him
you sould stay with him and give it
sometime becuase maybe there is a change
in ur relationship but it could be good
and it can be bad soo just talk to him and
try and make it work...
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anxietyfreak
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2005 Posts: 97 Location: N/A
Posted: 07-01-05 01:31am
Girlygirl21,
I know how u feel, becaz I have been
with my man for a year now, and well we
havent ever took a break from each other
but, just like u said in the beginning of
the relationship you were happy becaz he
noticed u more and payed more attention to
u, like my man would always be soo excited
when I would come over that he would
literally jump on top of me becaz he was
so happy to see me, but now we arent as
close as we used to be, hes so much up his
friends asses that he has no time for me
ne more. We argue almost every single day
now for the last 3 months. We have never
broken up though. But I know how u feel,
like with him not noticing u ne more.
When I first got with my man, I didnt even
care what I looked like that much becaz he
would always tell me how beautiful I was
to him and how much he loved me and so
on...Etc. But now I spend hours trying to
find the perfect hairstlye, makeup,
clothes and he doesnt even notice ne more.
We are no longer the same as we used to
be and not as close as we used to be but I
know one thing, is that he does love me
and that I love him. The only thing that
I can really give u advice on what to do
is to just try harder and harder every day
to get his attention and keep it while u
can so that u two can express what u 2
feel about each other. And make sure that
u 2 discuss what u like and dislike about
the relationship and try and fix it now
before u 2 end up like me and my man
arguing every single day and night.
