Hey I know how you feel. But a little bit the opostite. Alright first of all how old are you 2. I know how girls feel. Just the feeling of having anothere child excites them. But all you have to do is sit down and talk to her. Tell her all your reasons and also very important listen to her.! Try to make the best desision for the both of you . :)

I'm 29 and she is 30. I thank you for her advice I belive I all most have her convience that 2 pregency and three kids are prefect and we can start doing more active things together with our boys now , a new born would just slow us down. I know she wants to try for a girl but I don't think we'll ever get that chance. Once again thanks for your advice. I just hope i'm not makeing a mistake by telling her no! I'm sure she does understand. We communicate very well with one another.