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SixteenAndScared
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 5
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Confused
Posted: 03-25-05 16:04pm
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Hey ladies, i'm new here and scared out of
my mind.. Ive been seeing a guy now, for
over a year, and we recently became
intimate.. I know I know.. I shouldn't
even be thinking about sex at sixteen..
Well my period is always regular and was
supposed to arrive 8 days ago.. But no
sign of it.. Along with the fact that my
breasts are extremly tender which never
seems to happen.. And i've been getting a
somewhat nauseating feeling to certain
things. Im not sure if it's just my mind
playing tricks on me .. But it's scaring
me .. My boyfriend and I are extremely
open about things, and we even dicussed
about the possiblty of pregnancy from our
actions, and we are both ok with it. But
im scared and don't know if I am.. And
how my parents will react I know they love
me .. Im just scared.. I need advice
please :cry:
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SixteenAndScared
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 5
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Confused
Posted: 03-25-05 19:13pm
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Someone please help !!! Need advise asap!
Thanks
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Jays mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 80 Location: England
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Posted: 03-25-05 20:03pm
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There is a possibility of being pregnant.
Theres a possibility of pregnancy,
everyting u have sex. Contraception or
not.
Take a hpt test. Im sorry I cant help
you anymore than that.
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SixteenAndScared
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 5
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Confused
Posted: 03-25-05 20:29pm
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4116 Location: San Diego, CA
Thanks: 11
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Posted: 03-26-05 03:49am
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Hunnie you need to calm down and relax
stressing will not solve anything... Pick
up a pregnancy test if you are pregnant it
should show up by now... And if you are
come back and we'll all talk you thru
telling your bf and parents
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SixteenAndScared
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2005 Posts: 5
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Confused
Posted: 03-26-05 11:33am
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Thank you so much.. It means the world to
me to be able to "talk" it out with people
who won't jump straight to judging me ..
I am going to take a test today, and when
I know.. I'll let u guys know
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devil
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2005 Posts: 2 Location: london
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Re: Confused
Posted: 03-29-05 09:00am
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Hey I was doing foreplay wid my girlfriend
and I was wanking and cumed on to my hand
and fingers so I wiped it off with a sock
and then rubed it into my jeans I was
shore it was off and then I fingered my gf
could she be pregnant?
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SixteenAndScared917
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 10
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Posted: 03-29-05 17:03pm
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Hey guys i've waited it out to see if the
monthly monster would show up.. (like the
only time i'de be excited to have it) but
low and behold.. It's a no show, been 13
days, little back pain, nauseting
feelings, sore breasts with tender
nipples, extreme fatigue, so tonight is
the night, in about an hour, i'll find out
if i'm going to be a mommy.. Well i'll
let you guys know asap..
*kate* :roll:
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 03-29-05 17:17pm
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Hey hun!! Good luck!!! Let us know
whatever happens!! We're here for you!
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SixteenAndScared917
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 10
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Posted: 03-29-05 21:59pm
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Result of my hpt
test......................................
..Positive!!! I'm so excited, I took the
test at my boyfriends house, and I took
the test, I came in the room and he was
crying, I was like whats wrong..And he
goes I just want u to know I love u more
than anything in the world, and weither
or not u, I mean we are pregnant. I'll
love ya.. And I was like well "were
pregnant" now I got over that hurdle, I
next is how to tell my parents.. :roll:
need advice
*kate*
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sftbllchika06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 413 Location: St. Louis
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Posted: 03-29-05 22:08pm
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Congradulations sweety on your pregnancy.
Um the easiest way to tell your parents is
just sit them down and say straight up
that you are pregnant.
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Blue8
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2005 Posts: 133 Location: VA
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Posted: 03-29-05 22:29pm
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Im so happy for you and sftbllchika06 is
right just come out and be like im
pregnant its the easiest way and
congradulations hope all is well!!!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 03-30-05 15:45pm
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Congrats hun!!! I would think it out.
Plan how youre going to handle theis then
sit down your parents and tell them your
preggy and what you plan to do
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babymamahr01
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Posts: 52 Location: WI
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Posted: 03-30-05 16:04pm
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I got preg. At 18 with a guy I had just
met. I thought my parents would freak
but instead they were totally supportive.
Let them know so they can get you into
the doc so you get proper pregnancy care
and get a prenatal vitamin! Good luck to
you! If you ever need someone to tallk
to my email is babym
amahr01@yahoo.Com !
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 03-30-05 16:20pm
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| babymamahr01
wrote: | | i got preg. At 18 with a
guy I had just met. I thought my
parents would freak but instead they were
totally supportive. Let them know so
they can get you into the doc so you get
proper pregnancy care and get a prenatal
vitamin! Good luck to you! If you
ever need someone to tallk to my email is
babym
amahr01@yahoo.Com
! |
that sounds very familiar. I might be
pregnant by my new bf who i've only been
seeing for 3 weeks now. I'm afraid if I
am and I have to tell my parent's they'll
kill me... I'm only 19
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BrianBaby
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2005 Posts: 1383
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Posted: 03-30-05 16:28pm
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Telling my parents was really hard, but I
had to do it. I'm only 18 (19 in
april!!) but i've been with my boyfriend
brian for over 3 years. They were really
shocked and dissapointed at first, but
they're really supportive of both me and
brian!
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nervousmom2be
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Lansing MI
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Posted: 03-30-05 17:37pm
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About the parents issue, im 17 so when I
told my parents they were a little
disappointed but then the idea sunk in and
they are both looking forward to being
grandparents good luck!! Pm me if you
wanna talk
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babymamahr01
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Posts: 52 Location: WI
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Posted: 03-30-05 18:12pm
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Justacanadiangirl .... Email me if you
ever need to talk....
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SixteenAndScared917
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 10
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Posted: 03-30-05 18:26pm
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New update:
i thought about what u guys said, and then
how exactly I was going to tell them, they
always wanted me to succed and i'm sure
they never thought i'de be the 1st child
of their's to give them a grandchild. (im
the youngest of 4 kids) so I went to
school this morning, and talked to my
boyfriend, I was a wreck.. Scared on how
to tell them.. So I went to the nurse and
had her give me a pass to leave, my
boyfriend and I came here. And my
parents instantly knew something was up..
I was like "u guys I need to talk to u"
and I sat them down and my boyfriend went
through the whole speech of love, and
marriage, and then my mom looked at me and
was like"your pregnant aren't u" and I
started to cry and she got up and gave me
a hug and she goes, "it's not what I
exspected of my baby girl , but i'll love
u no matter what"... And then my dad
stood up and did the same thing, and then
they looked at my boyfriend and they were
like "well ur in this to, and they gave
him a hug.. It was a cute moment, and
very relieving.. So my mom is going to
set up an appointment with my doctor.. I
was scared out of my mind..But just
knowing there's something growing in
there..It makes it seem not so scary..
Thanks .. U guys really helped by being
there for me .. :d i'll keep u all
posted
*kate*
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xo_ash
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2004 Posts: 46
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Posted: 03-30-05 20:00pm
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Awww congrats!Im happy for u and glad it
all went well with the parents, its nice
to know their all there for you and
supporting every step of the way=)
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