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SixteenAndScared

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Posted: 03-25-05 16:04pm

Hey ladies, i'm new here and scared out of my mind.. Ive been seeing a guy now, for over a year, and we recently became intimate.. I know I know.. I shouldn't even be thinking about sex at sixteen.. Well my period is always regular and was supposed to arrive 8 days ago.. But no sign of it.. Along with the fact that my breasts are extremly tender which never seems to happen.. And i've been getting a somewhat nauseating feeling to certain things. Im not sure if it's just my mind playing tricks on me .. But it's scaring me .. My boyfriend and I are extremely open about things, and we even dicussed about the possiblty of pregnancy from our actions, and we are both ok with it. But im scared and don't know if I am.. And how my parents will react I know they love me .. Im just scared.. I need advice please :cry:
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SixteenAndScared

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Posted: 03-25-05 19:13pm

Someone please help !!! Need advise asap! Thanks
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Jays mommy

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Posted: 03-25-05 20:03pm

There is a possibility of being pregnant. Theres a possibility of pregnancy, everyting u have sex. Contraception or not.

Take a hpt test. Im sorry I cant help you anymore than that.
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SixteenAndScared

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Posted: 03-25-05 20:29pm

Thanks
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jessamyn

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Posted: 03-26-05 03:49am

Hunnie you need to calm down and relax stressing will not solve anything... Pick up a pregnancy test if you are pregnant it should show up by now... And if you are come back and we'll all talk you thru telling your bf and parents
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SixteenAndScared

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Posted: 03-26-05 11:33am

Thank you so much.. It means the world to me to be able to "talk" it out with people who won't jump straight to judging me .. I am going to take a test today, and when I know.. I'll let u guys know
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devil

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Re: Confused
Posted: 03-29-05 09:00am

Hey I was doing foreplay wid my girlfriend and I was wanking and cumed on to my hand and fingers so I wiped it off with a sock and then rubed it into my jeans I was shore it was off and then I fingered my gf could she be pregnant?
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SixteenAndScared917

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Posted: 03-29-05 17:03pm

Hey guys i've waited it out to see if the monthly monster would show up.. (like the only time i'de be excited to have it) but low and behold.. It's a no show, been 13 days, little back pain, nauseting feelings, sore breasts with tender nipples, extreme fatigue, so tonight is the night, in about an hour, i'll find out if i'm going to be a mommy.. Well i'll let you guys know asap..

*kate* :roll:
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 03-29-05 17:17pm

Hey hun!! Good luck!!! Let us know whatever happens!! We're here for you!
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SixteenAndScared917

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Posted: 03-29-05 21:59pm

Result of my hpt test...................................... ..Positive!!! I'm so excited, I took the test at my boyfriends house, and I took the test, I came in the room and he was crying, I was like whats wrong..And he goes I just want u to know I love u more than anything in the world, and weither or not u, I mean we are pregnant. I'll love ya.. And I was like well "were pregnant" now I got over that hurdle, I next is how to tell my parents.. :roll: need advice

*kate*
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sftbllchika06

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Posted: 03-29-05 22:08pm

Congradulations sweety on your pregnancy. Um the easiest way to tell your parents is just sit them down and say straight up that you are pregnant.
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Blue8

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Posted: 03-29-05 22:29pm

Im so happy for you and sftbllchika06 is right just come out and be like im pregnant its the easiest way and congradulations hope all is well!!!!
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bellax0x

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Posted: 03-30-05 15:45pm

Congrats hun!!! I would think it out. Plan how youre going to handle theis then sit down your parents and tell them your preggy and what you plan to do
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babymamahr01

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Posted: 03-30-05 16:04pm

I got preg. At 18 with a guy I had just met. I thought my parents would freak but instead they were totally supportive. Let them know so they can get you into the doc so you get proper pregnancy care and get a prenatal vitamin! Good luck to you! If you ever need someone to tallk to my email is babym amahr01@yahoo.Com !
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justacanadiangirl

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Posted: 03-30-05 16:20pm

babymamahr01 wrote:
i got preg. At 18 with a guy I had just met. I thought my parents would freak but instead they were totally supportive. Let them know so they can get you into the doc so you get proper pregnancy care and get a prenatal vitamin! Good luck to you! If you ever need someone to tallk to my email is babym amahr01@yahoo.Com !


that sounds very familiar. I might be pregnant by my new bf who i've only been seeing for 3 weeks now. I'm afraid if I am and I have to tell my parent's they'll kill me... I'm only 19
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BrianBaby

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Posted: 03-30-05 16:28pm

Telling my parents was really hard, but I had to do it. I'm only 18 (19 in april!!) but i've been with my boyfriend brian for over 3 years. They were really shocked and dissapointed at first, but they're really supportive of both me and brian!
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nervousmom2be

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Posted: 03-30-05 17:37pm

About the parents issue, im 17 so when I told my parents they were a little disappointed but then the idea sunk in and they are both looking forward to being grandparents good luck!! Pm me if you wanna talk
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babymamahr01

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Posted: 03-30-05 18:12pm

Justacanadiangirl .... Email me if you ever need to talk....
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SixteenAndScared917

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Posted: 03-30-05 18:26pm

New update:
i thought about what u guys said, and then how exactly I was going to tell them, they always wanted me to succed and i'm sure they never thought i'de be the 1st child of their's to give them a grandchild. (im the youngest of 4 kids) so I went to school this morning, and talked to my boyfriend, I was a wreck.. Scared on how to tell them.. So I went to the nurse and had her give me a pass to leave, my boyfriend and I came here. And my parents instantly knew something was up.. I was like "u guys I need to talk to u" and I sat them down and my boyfriend went through the whole speech of love, and marriage, and then my mom looked at me and was like"your pregnant aren't u" and I started to cry and she got up and gave me a hug and she goes, "it's not what I exspected of my baby girl , but i'll love u no matter what"... And then my dad stood up and did the same thing, and then they looked at my boyfriend and they were like "well ur in this to, and they gave him a hug.. It was a cute moment, and very relieving.. So my mom is going to set up an appointment with my doctor.. I was scared out of my mind..But just knowing there's something growing in there..It makes it seem not so scary.. Thanks .. U guys really helped by being there for me .. :d i'll keep u all posted

*kate*
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xo_ash

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Posted: 03-30-05 20:00pm

Awww congrats!Im happy for u and glad it all went well with the parents, its nice to know their all there for you and supporting every step of the way=)
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