Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Yikes...hopefully Not Again Posted: 11-04-03 13:29pm
Hey yall...It's me again. On the 6th of
october me and my boyfriend had
unprotected sex. he
didn't come in me, but he pulled out (in
caps) right before he came. After he did,
I used the bathroom and tried to "push"
anything that would be in there out...But
nothing came out. (i dont think) anyways,
if you dont know my situation I was preggy
before but had a miscarriage. We had the
unprotected sex right after my
miscarriage. I know I am incredibly
stupid and want to kill myself. Because
again my period is not here. About 3 or 4
days ago I had some spotting. One day it
was brown, the next day kinda like pink,
then brown again. It wasnt even getting
on my panties. Just when I wiped. I told
my boyfriend and he suggested that if I
was, we have an abortion. Because
probably like all of you..Our people will
be extreemly upset and aggravated with us.
The only great thing about this is that
my boobs aren't sore at all! I've just
been a little more tired than usual.
Kinda like last time. But like normal im
not going to stress it just yet. Ive got
a while to go and its only been a few days
sincec I was supposed to have my period.
Its probably from the weather change.
Periods are soo weird, they'll stop or be
late for the smallest thing!! Thanks for
listening to me again!!!
Hopefully yall arent aggravated with me or
mad at me....It was a total accident!!
much love,
sarah
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-04-03 13:38pm
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Eek...im Sorry Posted: 11-04-03 13:51pm
I am dedfinately not down with abrotion.
Yes, everyone will me mad at us, but
that's our mistake. Ya know?! He's set
on if I am than I need to have an
abortion...But I refuse to do that. I am
not a murderer. I mean I kinda highly
doubt that I am ....I just dont know...Im
going to wake a few more days, maybe even
weeks to make sure that mym period isn't
going to come. I even told him no sex
until it comes down because there is a
possibility that the sex is holding it up
there. I dont know...But we'll see. But
if I am....Definately (in caps) no
abortion!! Exactly like you said..If the
first one deserves a chancec..Than the
second one does too. Regardless if they
were mistakes!! I just feel really bad
about all of this. Im scared that his
parents will try to say that im trying to
trap him!! And that is not the case at
all!! I love him with all of my heart and
would never do anything like that to him.
Thanks for listening,
sarah
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-04-03 13:59pm
Sarah,
why werent you more careful? This is the
second time, I though you learned from
your mistakes. You said you were getting
on birth control, what happened? Take a
test. How can you make an accident twice?
Didnt you get some condoms? Its really
like your asking for it, whether you like
it or not. Your asking for the stress and
worry because your not being careful and
you already know whats going to happen.
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
I Know Nikki Posted: 11-04-03 14:08pm
I know that what happened was extreemly
stupid!!! down
here it takes a while to get an
appointment at your ob/gyn for bc. My
appt. Is for dec. 12. We do use condoms
as I stated after the miscarriage. It was
just 1 stinking time. I did learn my
lesson frform the first time and so did
he..I just dont know why it had to happen.
Its like we werent thinking. I dont like
to think about it because im just going to
get depressed...I know that im an fool and
dont deserve anything good. I think im
just going to go bury myself under a
rock...Or maybe myy covers. I just sleep
everthing away...When I sleep...Nothing
bothers me. Besides im still a little
tired from this morning. Im sorry...I
just get really mad at myself because I do
stupid things and dont think about the
after affect. Man...Im sooo mad at myself
thanks niki for replying to me..I needed
someone to get mad at me!
thanks a bunch,
sarah
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-04-03 14:13pm
Dont beat yourself up on it. You should
have known better but you made a mistake.
Thats fine. Hopefully your not, but youll
have to wait until then.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-04-03 14:27pm
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barons_girl_504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 105 Location: New Orleans
Thanks! Posted: 11-04-03 14:34pm
Thanks a lot jennifer...That's what I
needed. Isn't it ridiculious about
appointments with ob/gyn's?! But
hey...There are about8 out of every10
women who are preggy out there! We just
have to wait till its our turn in line! I
know that everyone will be aggatated with
me....But I think it'll all be fine. I
was spotting also...It seemed like it
lasted one week. The week I was supposed
to start my period, so I thought it was
normal. I even told my b/f that I had
started my period. But then poof!! It
was gone!! Now he's all trippin out and
doesnt know what to do..And im just laying
back and waiting for my period. I know it
sounds like bs that im just laying back,
but I am a really laid back person and I
dont stress much at all. Now, if I dont
get my period by thanksgiving...Imma have
to hurt someone!! Lol..Just joking..
Thanks for everything,
sarah
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-04-03 14:51pm
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-04-03 15:19pm
Hey jen you wont be a laughing stock!
Dont feel so bad. Your a responsible mom,
who cares how many kids you have! They
are your kids! Nobody elses. And if they
cant deal with it. Too bad. Isnt there
another clinic where you can get in
earlier! Send my $35 and ill mail you my
refill of patches!Hahaha I know this one
lady, she is like 24 or something, real
young and she has 5 kids! And I dont
think shes stopped yet. Its 5 or 6 I cant
remember! I lost count!
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-04-03 15:23pm
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-04-03 15:37pm
Oh I didnt have that. Is your prescr.
For a certain kind of patch? Because I
thought it was all the same? I dont know.
I had no exam. I went in said "i need a
birthcontrol because my mom said 'no
surprises!'" and the gave me the thing to
take to order. That was it. Lol. Oh
well! Better stock up on condoms!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 11-04-03 18:09pm
Barons girl-u made a mistake,yes it was
daft but it's too late now.If ur not
preggers,u seriosuly need 2 go on the pill
or something.If u r,ur gonna have 2 deal
with it.Much respect 4 saying u wouldnt
abort the baby-u seem very mature.
Good luck,
liz x
he
didn't come in me, but he pulled out (in
caps) right before he came. After he did,
I used the bathroom and tried to "push"
anything that would be in there out...But
nothing came out. (i dont think) anyways,
if you dont know my situation I was preggy
before but had a miscarriage. We had the
unprotected sex right after my
miscarriage. I know I am incredibly
stupid and want to kill myself. Because
again my period is not here. About 3 or 4
days ago I had some spotting. One day it
was brown, the next day kinda like pink,
then brown again. It wasnt even getting
on my panties. Just when I wiped. I told
my boyfriend and he suggested that if I
was, we have an abortion. Because
probably like all of you..Our people will
be extreemly upset and aggravated with us.
The only great thing about this is that
my boobs aren't sore at all! I've just
been a little more tired than usual.
Kinda like last time. But like normal im
not going to stress it just yet. Ive got
a while to go and its only been a few days
sincec I was supposed to have my period.
Its probably from the weather change.
Periods are soo weird, they'll stop or be
late for the smallest thing!! Thanks for
listening to me again!!!
