:twisted: ok im very mad at my boyfriend
because last sunday he "busted" in me..
It was the last day of my period n I
pretty much stopped.. I just started new
birth control pills so they are off n I
didnt take one that day n that was the
only day I didnt take one.. Now im on the
birth control that you get a period once
every 3 months so I wont know if I will
miss a period. When should I take a
pregnancy test, and are they effective?
And do you know if taking birth control
pills will someho terminate an early
pregnancy? :x
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steen
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Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 03-28-05 01:14am
Well, if you don't start the bcp on the
day you are supposed to, the ovulation
process may have started already. You
likely are not going to get pregnant, as
the sperm will die long before ovulation,
but you do have the risk until the next
cycle begins. If you have to miss a
pill, do not have it be the first one.
So don't worry right now, but be careful
in the near future.
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2ferano
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Posted: 03-28-05 01:48am
It takes two people to have sex, but if
they have already discussed all of this,
then I am sure it was already decided for
him to pull out. That is most likely
what she is angry about. But I don't
know.
Anyway, I would go today and get the
morning after pill. It is better safe
than sorry and if you don't want a baby
right now then go and take that. But, do
it soon.
And in the future, wear condoms with the
birth control. You can get pregnant from
precum anyway, so even if he didn't "bust"
in you, you still could get pregnant.
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-28-05 13:07pm
Taking bc pills will not terminate a
pregnancy however if you are pregnant and
continue taking them you can mega harm
your baby
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-28-05 13:08pm
Even if it was decided for him to pull out
it doesnt matter unprotected sex is
unprotected sex and she culd have gotten
pregnant anytime during the process... I
got pregnant the day my period started
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benequa27
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Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 03-29-05 00:50am
Its been a week its too late for the pill
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2ferano
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Posted: 04-06-05 00:09am
Actually, my doctor told me that the
morning after pill will not harm a
pregnancy that already exists. All it
does is stop you from ovulating or keep
you from ovulating so that if you haven't
already conceived, you wont.
And yes, I agree that unprotected sex is
unprotected sex and she could have gotten
pregnant from precum at any time during
the intercourse. But, I also understand
that when you are trusting your partner
not to finish inside of you, then I would
be royally pissed if he did too! Even
though with no other source of birth
control, it may not even matter.
I am on the pill, but also use condoms as
much as possible. If I do have sex
without a condom I do not let him "finish"
in me either. It is just unnecessary
risk, but ideally I shouldn't be having
sex without condoms anyway.
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benequa27
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Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 04-06-05 15:48pm
Does anyone know when you are most
susceptible to becoming pregnant like how
long before your period or w/e
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2ferano
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Posted: 04-06-05 16:05pm
It depends on your body. Most people
will tell you 14 days, because that is
supposedly when the average woman
ovulates, but that only matters if you
ovulate then. It depends on when you
ovulate, so no one can really answer that
for you.
