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mon177
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Bleeding After First Time
Posted: 03-29-05 17:58pm
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Me and my boyfriend decided it was time to
have sex we are both in our 20's now after
I started bleeding and its a couple days
later and I still have a little bleeding
is this normal? How long is it usually?
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Posted: 03-31-05 09:14am
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Were you a virgin before you had sex? You
will bleed for awhile and it will go away,
nothing to worry about . If you keep
bleeding I would go see your doctor.
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mon177
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Thanks 4 Your Reply I Was Getting Worried
Posted: 03-31-05 09:48am
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Yes, both or us wre virgins. I have heard
of my friends talk about it but I never
knew how long some of them were just a
little others were alot. So I never knew
if this was right or if there was someting
wrong with me. Why is it different for
every person?
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Dana2004
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Re: Thanks 4 Your Reply I Was Getting Worried
Posted: 04-04-05 22:57pm
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Is it true first time intercourse really
hurts?
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mon177
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Posted: 04-05-05 15:55pm
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Yes, I thought it did. I didn't think it
would be that uncomfortable but it was I
guess it just takes a few times before it
starts to feel good.
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Dana2004
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Posted: 04-05-05 21:56pm
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Thanks for replying to my question.
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caligurlnw07
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Posted: 11-14-07 21:40pm
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I had sex for the first time and bled just
a little. A few days later I bled a lot
more (I think my hymen broke this time?).
I've had sex about 3 or 4 more times and
I've bled a little bit each time. Every
post that I've read has said that they
bleed continuously for a couple of days,
but I only bleed during intercourse and
then I'm fine after that. Is this all
normal?
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The Mrs
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Posted: 11-14-07 22:19pm
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Bleeding the first few times you have sex
is completely normal. Some women even
experience it every now and again after
they've been having sex for years when
their cervix becomes particularly
irritated from intercourse.
What hurts during sex? Is it coming from
inside you when your partner goes deep?
If so, your partner is most likely large
enough to hit against your cervical
opening. Switching positions or just
simply letting him know not to go so deep
in that position will help. Also, your
cervix changed position throughout the
month and sometimes it will be lower than
others, making it easier for it to become
irritated by sex. This often will cause
slight bleeding right after sex.
If you notice that the pain is not coming
from deep within you but instead around
the outside/opening of your vagina, than
that most likely can be lessened with
proper lubrication. Foreplay (gooood
foreplay  )
really is necessary for a woman to enjoy
sex. It takes a few minutes for our
genitals to become aroused and for our
bodies to produce enough natural
lubrication to make penetration easier.
If you do feel as if you were fully
aroused when this pain took place, than
try using lubricant (you can get several
different kinds at walmart) next time. It
should really ease the friction against
your vaginal opening during sex and make
the experience more enjoyable over all.
And last but not least, please make sure
you are letting your partner know that you
are experiencing a bit of pain with sex.
Everything going on with you is completely
normal, and I'm sure your partner does not
want to hurt you. Letting him know to
take it a little easier or give you more
time to really "get ready" shouldn't be a
problem for him. Good luck hun, and let us
know how it goes.
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Posted: 11-14-07 22:39pm
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Just coming from the other side: My first
time i didn't bleed at all! But i have
heard that a lot of people do. I made him
put a towel down the first time cause i
thought i was going to bleed all over the
place. So chances are i prolly broke mine
when i started using tampons. It didn't
hurt to bad for me....but i made sure that
he knew to take it very VERY slow! ...and
he did. But like The Mrs said i'm sure he
doesn't want to hurt you, so just let him
know, he should be more than willing to
take it very slow and not so deep. which
reminds me, i prolly said "owey" a few
times during intercourse cause he went a
little deep. Prolly hitting my cervix! So
then he got the hang of it, and stayed
back lol
BUT GOOD LUCK HUN!
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Posted: 11-15-07 11:21am
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My first time I didn't bleed at all, and
it didn't hurt either! We used lube to
help out so there wouldn't be a lot of
pain
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Posted: 11-15-07 15:43pm
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I didnt bleed on my 1st time but thats due
to a few possible things. 1st im a horse
rider, second i used yampons, and 3rd i
had used vibrators etc.
I had no pain at all my 1st time and
actually really enjoyed it. I think a lot
depends on the person really.
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Posted: 11-15-07 15:50pm
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My first time was REALLY painful. My hymen
broke but it only bled a little. It was
watery too and only lasted a few hours.
Don't worry, it doesn't hurt or bleed
forever. It will be very enjoyable soon.
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Posted: 11-15-07 22:49pm
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Thanks to everyone who replied. 
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Posted: 11-17-07 11:12am
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i had unprotected sex about a month
ago,but he pulled out. but then my period
came on the same day around an hour later.
then my period came the day before
yesterday (on the 15th, which is regular)
but it finished today, which means it only
lasted 2 days and a half. i am not gettin
any syptoms
am i pregnant?
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Posted: 11-17-07 11:19am
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ANY time you have unprotected sex, there
is going to be a possibility of
pregnancy.
If you don't want to get pregnant, use
protection.
Condoms.
Or you can go to planned parenthood/free
clinic to get free/discounted birth
control pills.
You really need to at least use condoms
because of the risk of catching a sexually
transmitted disease.
Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are the most
common diseases among teenagers.
It is because a lot of people (mainly men)
don't show symptoms and don't know they
have it and are spreading it.
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE protect yourself.
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Posted: 11-17-07 11:28am
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but we were both virgins
but how could i be pregnant if my period
came
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Posted: 11-17-07 22:48pm
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I'm not saying you ARE pregnant, I'm
saying if you are having unprotected sex,
pregnancy is inevitable. You need to be
using condoms and/or birth control pills.
Be responsible.
FYI-people lie and they cheat....and they
lie about cheating.
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Re: Thanks 4 Your Reply I Was Getting Worried
Posted: 11-24-07 07:57am
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| Dana2004
wrote: | | Is it true first time
intercourse really
hurts? |
oh yeahhh! but that may be just because i
have endo.... i bled too...
havent you heard....popping the cherry???
e! sorry!
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Re: Thanks 4 Your Reply I Was Getting Worried
Posted: 11-24-07 10:07am
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| Kjms
wrote: | | Dana2004
wrote: | | Is it true first time
intercourse really
hurts? |
oh yeahhh! but that may be just because i
have endo.... i bled too...
havent you heard....popping the cherry???
e! sorry! |
Not everyone experiences pain.
I did.
Not everyone has a cherry to pop either.
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Posted: 11-24-07 14:12pm
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I didn't hurt or bleed my first time.
Perpetuating the myth of the "cherry" and
a hymen representing virginity is harmful
towards women.
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